In his largely successful thread (going by reply count and reception), @autistandugly says that, thanks to this forum, he now feels less alone. He doesn't have any IRL friends, but being surrounded by his brocels on incels.is is mending his loneliness. This is obviously completely delusional and I'll explain why.
First of all, as an average user on this forum, NOBODY cares about you. You may get alerts here and there, but they're only temporary, and they'll disappear as soon as you stop posting, and everyone will act as if you never existed. Even if you're statusmaxxed, you will still be forgotten, albeit gradually. Any sense of companionship you may feel on this online forum or any other is illusory.
The solution to @autistandugly's problem is to NOT be dependent on others for acknowledgement, be it from the internet or the real world. You have to learn to be self-sufficient and to be your own companion. The more you seek the validation of the "tribe", and the more that you let your "social animal" base instincts control you, the harder you will fall. Become truly self-sufficient, and you will see the light. You're made up of trillions of cells, you're not actually just one person, but many. Learn to enjoy your own company. Awaken your own anima and all the other personalities that reside in your subconscious, and engage with them. If you do this, then even the concept of loneliness will start to sound silly.
First of all, as an average user on this forum, NOBODY cares about you. You may get alerts here and there, but they're only temporary, and they'll disappear as soon as you stop posting, and everyone will act as if you never existed. Even if you're statusmaxxed, you will still be forgotten, albeit gradually. Any sense of companionship you may feel on this online forum or any other is illusory.
The solution to @autistandugly's problem is to NOT be dependent on others for acknowledgement, be it from the internet or the real world. You have to learn to be self-sufficient and to be your own companion. The more you seek the validation of the "tribe", and the more that you let your "social animal" base instincts control you, the harder you will fall. Become truly self-sufficient, and you will see the light. You're made up of trillions of cells, you're not actually just one person, but many. Learn to enjoy your own company. Awaken your own anima and all the other personalities that reside in your subconscious, and engage with them. If you do this, then even the concept of loneliness will start to sound silly.
