Why do mothers lie about you for clout

[D. B. Gooner]

Told my mom I eat raw meat, said "don't tell people, I don't wanna deal with them"
She says "I'd be too embarrassed to tell people"

Couple hours later I overhear her talking to her coworker. She tells her I eat raw meat, makes sure to ask her how weird she thinks I am while laughing and then tells her to tell her husband lmao. She has always made up fake stories about me where I try to disobey her and she whips me into shape to impress other people. In reality she'll tell me to do something and usually I'll do it because I don't feel like arguing, or if the request is irrational I'll tell her it's stupid and won't do it.

It's not even that she's making fun of me, that would be somewhat tolerable, it's like she's seeking validation from these people. Rather than having some balls and outright calling me weird she'll ask "Isn't my son weird haha?" to gain some brownie points from her coworkers. Like she's guiding them into calling me weird. All because she doesn't have anything interesting to talk about.

Is this a female thing, a human thing in general or just an individual issue my mother has?

 

[Tšuudi]

My mother is the same way, I no longer tell her anything.

 

[romanstock]

Never trust a foid.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Foids cant keep anything to themselves, thats why i no longer tell my mom anything

 

[Acorn]

Definitely a foid thing

 

[gymletethnicel]

Not necesserily a foid trait. Moreso a piece of shit narcissistic trait. I know guys who do this also.

 

[TruecelVariant]

Told my mom I eat raw meat, said "don't tell people, I don't wanna deal with them"
She says "I'd be too embarrassed to tell people"

Couple hours later I overhear her talking to her coworker. She tells her I eat raw meat, makes sure to ask her how weird she thinks I am while laughing and then tells her to tell her husband lmao. She has always made up fake stories about me where I try to disobey her and she whips me into shape to impress other people. In reality she'll tell me to do something and usually I'll do it because I don't feel like arguing, or if the request is irrational I'll tell her it's stupid and won't do it.

It's not even that she's making fun of me, that would be somewhat tolerable, it's like she's seeking validation from these people. Rather than having some balls and outright calling me weird she'll ask "Isn't my son weird haha?" to gain some brownie points from her coworkers. Like she's guiding them into calling me weird. All because she doesn't have anything interesting to talk about.

Is this a female thing, a human thing in general or just an individual issue my mother has?

Women see more valie in others perceptions. Hence, they are incentivized to aggrandize themselves,

 

[StoryOfMyLaugh]

My mother is the same way, I no longer tell her anything.

 

[Rapistcel]

Told my mom I eat raw meat, said "don't tell people, I don't wanna deal with them"
She says "I'd be too embarrassed to tell people"

Couple hours later I overhear her talking to her coworker. She tells her I eat raw meat, makes sure to ask her how weird she thinks I am while laughing and then tells her to tell her husband lmao. She has always made up fake stories about me where I try to disobey her and she whips me into shape to impress other people. In reality she'll tell me to do something and usually I'll do it because I don't feel like arguing, or if the request is irrational I'll tell her it's stupid and won't do it.

It's not even that she's making fun of me, that would be somewhat tolerable, it's like she's seeking validation from these people. Rather than having some balls and outright calling me weird she'll ask "Isn't my son weird haha?" to gain some brownie points from her coworkers. Like she's guiding them into calling me weird. All because she doesn't have anything interesting to talk about.

Is this a female thing, a human thing in general or just an individual issue my mother has?

About my looks

 

[H8mychudlife]

Yeah it's a foid thing; they constantly need social validation to the point they are willing to throw their own offspring under the bus to attain it.

 

[friedrllyudidntknow]

Mama hated you first

 

[thechosenorder]

Never trust a foid.

 

[VanGobbel]

Over for momcels

 

[killedmycel]

Mine does this. Could be superficiality, a lack of empathy, or disloyalty. Who knows tbh.

 

[ANTAGONIST]

My mother doesn't talk about me to other people

 

[stonecoldlikearock]

Never trust a foid.

 

[Trident]

Your own mother is a good example for understanding how women are from early age, i don't get dudes who are naive about disgusting nature of women.

 

[rapetorturekill]

My mother is the same way, I no longer tell her anything.

 

[autisticsoy]

its a thing with mom's you cannot really fully trust them with the info you give since they will just immediately talk about it to other people

 

[the last heathen]

Attention is their oxygen. Will also not have any problems with holding your secrets against you. NEVER trust a foid, not even your mother or sister

 

[Neurotic]

My mum also likes to humiliate me like that

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Easily the most annoying thing my Mother does, even to this day. It's the main reason why I don't trust her and must stay very guarded.