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Blackpill Why are most users here always wallowing in self pity?

I've done about all I can to minimize the suffering in my life with the means at my disposal currently. From my experience, an incel's goal should be mitigation or damage control of their already terrible lives rather than mythological 'self improvement' that never materializes. Just my opinion but it might differ for others with different life experiences than mine.
This is how I think too. I try to suffer as little as I can and enjoy as many copes as I can. I still make sure not to be delusional and accept reality for what it is. I ignore bluepill and redpill bs and let the blackpill guide me.
 
@anandkonda @NoIdeaWhatToDo @Incline

THIS NIGGA HAS HTN NORMIE FACE LMFAO CANT MAKE THIS SHIT UP

htn face + 6'1 and claims to be an inkwell

you can tell just from the shit he says that hes here larping to get ego boost
 
@anandkonda @NoIdeaWhatToDo @Incline

THIS NIGGA HAS HTN NORMIE FACE LMFAO CANT MAKE THIS SHIT UP

htn face + 6'1 and claims to be an inkwell

you can tell just from the shit he says that hes here larping to get ego boost
I know, I have seen his face too. He was also a faggot poster

6/10 face 6+ feet tall faggot poster :lul:

@Acorn
 
"think" youre a victim? "feel" youre opressed????
why did you phrase it like that?
incels objectively are victims and are opressed
Completely agree with your point. We feel unloved because we are unloved. We feel oppressed because we are. We feel like victims because we are. I don't know why some of these idiots act like these feelings just appear for no reason. That's the type of bluepilled lies HealthyGamerGG spews on his channel.
 
@anandkonda @NoIdeaWhatToDo @Incline

THIS NIGGA HAS HTN NORMIE FACE LMFAO CANT MAKE THIS SHIT UP

htn face + 6'1 and claims to be an inkwell

you can tell just from the shit he says that hes here larping to get ego boost
@anandkonda @NoIdeaWhatToDo @Incline

THIS NIGGA HAS HTN NORMIE FACE LMFAO CANT MAKE THIS SHIT UP

htn face + 6'1 and claims to be an inkwell

you can tell just from the shit he says that hes here larping to get ego boost
What am I larping about? Why don't you address the points I made in this thread instead of ad hominem
 
I know, I have seen his face too. He was also a faggot poster

6/10 face 6+ feet tall faggot poster :lul:

@Acorn
thats 7/10 by curryland standards lets be honest

mallus at my uni who have his face and are 5'8 slay southern and northern foids alike

now imagine this nigger with 6'1 height

no wonder he says this coping bs it works for him :lul::lul:
 
thats 7/10 by curryland standards lets be honest

mallus at my uni who have his face and are 5'8 slay southern and northern foids alike

now imagine this nigger with 6'1 height

no wonder he says this coping bs it works for him :lul::lul:
Exactly right :lul: He won't last one day in shoes of 5'4 like me :feelsrope:
 
Many people here have been blackpilled into oblivion, seeing things we shouldn’t see. So it would be hard for us to just abandon everything here and try to be a normie.

And obivously normies aren’t that friendly, if you lack the social experience. I know many here do that. It is going to be a great struggle into getting sex if you don’t even have a starting point since we deviated from living a healthy social life.
 
you can tell just from the shit he says that hes here larping to get ego boost
:feelsseriously: :feelsseriously: :feelsseriously:

Forum is full of this fags, I don't have strength anymore to try to combat it, I just put on ignore and don't interact with this faggots, let them circlejerk eachother in their mogger little circle JFL.
 
thats 7/10 by curryland standards lets be honest

mallus at my uni who have his face and are 5'8 slay southern and northern foids alike

now imagine this nigger with 6'1 height

no wonder he says this coping bs it works for him :lul::lul:
Which uni are u from?
 
The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation
. Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also acknowledge that this forum serves as a safe space for venting frustrations as an incel and social outcasts from society but this kind of "woe is me" mindset won't lead you anywhere.

While I'm not saying you should delusionmax and adop the reddit tier advice of "if you stop thinking of the problem, it won't be a problem anymore,' constantly complaining about your circumstances and putting yourself down isn't helpful either.

There's a lot more you can do in life and money is your best friend as an incel but I know a few low iq subhumans here still won't get it and won't accept their situation calling everything to be a cope while being miserable and hopeless. They might be copes but what other option you have? Heck many blackpillers here rot everyday while bluepilled normies are out there gymaxxing, fashionmaxxing and social circle maxxing. Why should a woman date someone like you?

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your responsibility because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.

There's a lot you can do to have a good life despite being LTN. Escortmaxx, moneymaxx. Have a social life, go out.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. You literally have nothing to offer to a woman. No looks, no money, no goals in life. You are just aimlessly floating through life, wallowing in self pity and trying to convince others that you are the victim of the society. I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY. Every time you see some LTN kissing a girl you like, just remember he wasn't a self doubting pitymaxxed subhuman like you, drowning in self loathv and had a life and the courage to ask a woman out.
kys
 
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Yeah just go out, have a social circle, give in to foid thinking that it's your fault you don't have a fesikhfriend because you don't improov, you have bad looks, no money and nothing to offer. Don't give into that, it's their flawed superficial thinking, only wanting the best of men. We want nothing more but a true companionship, just live peacefully with a partner, go through life with someone that genuinely likes us and likes to talk with us. Ideally you don't need to be a fucking tall HTN to experience that.
In addition to your talk about self-pity and not doing anything in your life, I tried to be friends with similar SMV people, and guess what, it didn't work. Social circle maxxing with high SMV people? They all just laugh at you and point at your flaws, especially when other normies are around. This is not delusion, it happened to me and it happened to many of us who were stupid enough to think trying to fit in would help. I tried being more talkative, i tried being funny, and what do you think it did for me? It made others think of me as an even more worthless jester and gave me unforgettable bad memories. You can't make a lion out of a chihuahua. Self-pity and LDARing is natural to incels, because you just don't fit in within normies, whether you act as your true self or try to be like them.
Incels should never give in to the notion that they're worse than others. It's the superficial hiveminded normalfags that only look for a scapegoat. Never jestermaxx, never put on a mask. Unless you risk getting into a fight, just act how you want to act, you're seen as a loser either way.
 
They've been taught to be perpetual victims so the jews could be proud of something.
 
Bro I'm allowed to feel sad if I've been wronged
What kind of a cuck mentality is that you should be happy if others bully you?
Fuck off to reddit
full
 
@anandkonda @NoIdeaWhatToDo @Incline

THIS NIGGA HAS HTN NORMIE FACE LMFAO CANT MAKE THIS SHIT UP

htn face + 6'1 and claims to be an inkwell

you can tell just from the shit he says that hes here larping to get ego boost
No fucking surprise he made this shit post then

Also if this tall htn is still living as an incel then how does he expect any of us who genuinely have shit genes to improve or find happiness
 
Jason what are you doing here jfl

Most of the people here have some sort of mental illness, coupled with the shit society puts on them, they are bound to be unreasonably angry.

The world is harsh to marginalized groups such as these and makes wounds that are hard to heal
 
Moneymax makes you sadder when you're still alone, especially if you needed to wageslave for it. Most of us are here because we have no interest in betabuxing.

Escorting is a temporary cope that does get old.
 
How long do i have to try before i can acknowledge it is fruitless? 30 yr old kissless dateless virgin, 40 yr old kissless dateless virgin? Your bluepilled ass would have me jestermax and wagecuck my entire life away for jack shit.

You just want to victim blame random individual incels instead of our feminist society's backwards standards and expectations, which is the true culprit, creating and enforcing conditions that prevent our efforts from bearing fruit. No matter how earnest and continuous our efforts are, a good chunk of men will simply be left behind by hypergamy in a free sexual market. And that is not their fault, it is womens' and society at large.
 
it's called crippling depression. thinking positively won't increase my height or fix my face
 
You are fucking stupid, do you think money just lays on the floor for us? It's ridiculously hard to get money as a incel who is not taking part in society since you left school.
 
almost all political movements in the modern day are phrased in terms of victim mentality

leftoids: obviously
rightoids: drain the swamp maga is being oppressed white genocide noooo
communists: the state and capitalism be oppressin' all the niggers and troons. save our souls trannies
centrists: both sides are eeevillll and are scheming against ordinary normies like us
greens: obviously. 'how dare uuuuuuuuu'
pro-ukraine: obviously
pro-israel: hamas are oppressing us it's anuddah shoa, you are all anti-semites aaaa I saw hitler in my nightmares aaaa he's right behind me aaa he raped me in the fuckhole
feminism: fuck tha patriarchyyyy
BLM: omg look at what they did to st. george and all of the other dumb niggers that died
pro-palestine: I hate everything that palestinians believe in but awww they're such cute little victims oooo look at them d'awww

it's simply the currency of politics and culture nowadays. you'd think that the electorate was made of clones of jesus christ, given how insistent they are on being martyrs
 
This advice only applies if you’re neurotypical (or at least able to NTmaxx) and LTN+. It’s genuinely over for a lot of people here, myself included
 
I’m 5’9”
Sorry, I remember you being 5'11. In any case you would have it WAY better here, just come back. Many Foids would kill to get a 'Foreign Sambandham'
 
Terug naar reddit!
 
The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation
. Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also acknowledge that this forum serves as a safe space for venting frustrations as an incel and social outcasts from society but this kind of "woe is me" mindset won't lead you anywhere.

While I'm not saying you should delusionmax and adop the reddit tier advice of "if you stop thinking of the problem, it won't be a problem anymore,' constantly complaining about your circumstances and putting yourself down isn't helpful either.

There's a lot more you can do in life and money is your best friend as an incel but I know a few low iq subhumans here still won't get it and won't accept their situation calling everything to be a cope while being miserable and hopeless. They might be copes but what other option you have? Heck many blackpillers here rot everyday while bluepilled normies are out there gymaxxing, fashionmaxxing and social circle maxxing. Why should a woman date someone like you?

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your responsibility because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.

There's a lot you can do to have a good life despite being LTN. Escortmaxx, moneymaxx. Have a social life, go out.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. You literally have nothing to offer to a woman. No looks, no money, no goals in life. You are just aimlessly floating through life, wallowing in self pity and trying to convince others that you are the victim of the society. I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY. Every time you see some LTN kissing a girl you like, just remember he wasn't a self doubting pitymaxxed subhuman like you, drowning in self loathv and had a life and the courage to ask a woman out.
I'm live in a shithole in the 3rd World
I'm fucked into terms of moneymaxxing


I envy the guys here who can go to a college or university in the West.
 
I agree with you but some of us really do have strong disadvantages. I'm shortish and do feel inherently weak. And easy competition bait. I would feel uneasy not only for my girl but my self too since she could easily be disrespected and I wouldn't be able to do nothing about it. The problem is unexpected options she would overall have over me. We're still trying to hold on to the hope of general love.
 
The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation
. Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also acknowledge that this forum serves as a safe space for venting frustrations as an incel and social outcasts from society but this kind of "woe is me" mindset won't lead you anywhere.

While I'm not saying you should delusionmax and adop the reddit tier advice of "if you stop thinking of the problem, it won't be a problem anymore,' constantly complaining about your circumstances and putting yourself down isn't helpful either.

There's a lot more you can do in life and money is your best friend as an incel but I know a few low iq subhumans here still won't get it and won't accept their situation calling everything to be a cope while being miserable and hopeless. They might be copes but what other option you have? Heck many blackpillers here rot everyday while bluepilled normies are out there gymaxxing, fashionmaxxing and social circle maxxing. Why should a woman date someone like you?

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your responsibility because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.

There's a lot you can do to have a good life despite being LTN. Escortmaxx, moneymaxx. Have a social life, go out.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. You literally have nothing to offer to a woman. No looks, no money, no goals in life. You are just aimlessly floating through life, wallowing in self pity and trying to convince others that you are the victim of the society. I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY. Every time you see some LTN kissing a girl you like, just remember he wasn't a self doubting pitymaxxed subhuman like you, drowning in self loathv and had a life and the courage to ask a woman out.
die
 
What else should we do, retard?
 

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