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Jason Voorhees

Jason Voorhees

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The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation
. Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also acknowledge that this forum serves as a safe space for venting frustrations as an incel and social outcasts from society but this kind of "woe is me" mindset won't lead you anywhere.

While I'm not saying you should delusionmax and adop the reddit tier advice of "if you stop thinking of the problem, it won't be a problem anymore,' constantly complaining about your circumstances and putting yourself down isn't helpful either.

There's a lot more you can do in life and money is your best friend as an incel but I know a few low iq subhumans here still won't get it and won't accept their situation calling everything to be a cope while being miserable and hopeless. They might be copes but what other option you have? Heck many blackpillers here rot everyday while bluepilled normies are out there gymaxxing, fashionmaxxing and social circle maxxing. Why should a woman date someone like you?

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your responsibility because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.

There's a lot you can do to have a good life despite being LTN. Escortmaxx, moneymaxx. Have a social life, go out.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. You literally have nothing to offer to a woman. No looks, no money, no goals in life. You are just aimlessly floating through life, wallowing in self pity and trying to convince others that you are the victim of the society. I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY. Every time you see some LTN kissing a girl you like, just remember he wasn't a self doubting pitymaxxed subhuman like you, drowning in self loathv and had a life and the courage to ask a woman out.
 
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@CruxGammata @WØLF @Friezacel @comradespiderman29 @Copexodius Maximus @Mecoja @DarkStarDown @ilieknothing
 
The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation
. Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also acknowledge that this forum serves as a safe space for venting frustrations as an incel and social outcasts from society but this kind of "woe is me" mindset won't lead you anywhere.

While I'm not saying you should delusionmax and adop the reddit tier advice of "if you stop thinking of the problem, it won't be a problem anymore,' constantly complaining about your circumstances and putting yourself down isn't helpful either.

There's a lot more you can do in life and money is your best friend as an incel but I know a few low iq subhumans here still won't get it and won't accept their situation calling everything to be a cope while being miserable and hopeless. They might be copes but what other option you have? Heck many blackpillers here rot everyday while bluepilled normies are out there gymaxxing, fashionmaxxing and social circle maxxing. Why should a woman date someone like you?
Women wouldn't give me the time of day even if I did everything right. I'm 5'3, physically weak, and I have a feminine face. (Not in a good way) Women are disgusted by me.
Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others.
I am a victim of modern feminism.
Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault,
but it's your responsibility because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.

There's a lot you can do to have a good life despite being LTN.
Escortmaxx,
No, for moral reasons
moneymaxx.
Doing this right now
Have a social life, go out.
I have a great personality. I make friends easily.
Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. You literally have nothing to offer to a woman. No looks, no money, no goals in life. You are just aimlessly floating through life, wallowing in self pity and trying to convince others that you are the victim of the society.
I am, the problem is society just doesn't care about male issues.
I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY. Every time you see some LTN kissing a girl you like, just remember he wasn't a self doubting pitymaxxed subhuman like you, wallowing is self pity and had a life and the courage to ask a woman out.
You sound like a redpiller.

How did taking responsibility work out for you? You're still an incel right?
 
Women wouldn't give me the time of day even if I did everything right. I'm 5'3, physically weak, and I have a feminine face. (Not in a good way) Women are disgusted by me.

I am a victim of modern feminism.



No, for moral reasons

Doing this right now

I have a great personality. I make friends easily.

I am, the problem is society just doesn't care about male issues.
It doesn't but that doesn't mean you have to stop living life
You sound like a redpiller.

How did taking responsibility work out for you? You're still an incel right?
I'm still an incel but I'm atleast not depressed like many of you are and I'm improving in all aspects of my life everyday.
 
I've done about all I can to minimize the suffering in my life with the means at my disposal currently. From my experience, an incel's goal should be mitigation or damage control of their already terrible lives rather than mythological 'self improvement' that never materializes. Just my opinion but it might differ for others with different life experiences than mine.
 
I've done about all I can to minimize the suffering in my life with the means at my disposal currently. From my experience, an incel's goal should be mitigation or damage control of their already terrible lives rather than mythological 'self improvement' that never materializes. Just my opinion but it might differ for others with different life experiences than mine.
That's still better than rotting in your room
 
Moneymaxx = anything below 6 figures doesnt get you anywhere, your just wageslaving
Escortmaxx = isnt a girlfriend, costs money, good luck with STDs
Social Circle = once your out of Highschool and in your 20s, its over.

I'm still an incel but I'm atleast not depressed like many of you are and I'm improving in all aspects of my life everyday.
Height? Age?

Also we all are grinding, there just comes a point where its not worth it anymore. Once the Agepill Hits - around late 20s - Gigaover.
 
Also see you in ban appeals. Maybe not today, but you wont last for long
 
Moneymaxxing, whoremaxxing and surgerymaxxing are the only realistic things we can do to mitigate this situation
 
Also see you in ban appeals. Maybe not today, but you wont last for long
Where am I wrong tho? What's the use of just rotting in your room? Why not improve and do something about the situation you are in. SEAmaxx anything other than rotting.
 
The victim mindset is one hell of a drug ngl. I see so many users here wallowing in self pity and just crying endlessly about their situation
. Now I know some of you are indeed helpless and are in position where you can't just pull yourself off the bootstrap but many here aren't. I also acknowledge that this forum serves as a safe space for venting frustrations as an incel and social outcasts from society but this kind of "woe is me" mindset won't lead you anywhere.

While I'm not saying you should delusionmax and adop the reddit tier advice of "if you stop thinking of the problem, it won't be a problem anymore,' constantly complaining about your circumstances and putting yourself down isn't helpful either.

There's a lot more you can do in life and money is your best friend as an incel but I know a few low iq subhumans here still won't get it and won't accept their situation calling everything to be a cope while being miserable and hopeless. They might be copes but what other option you have? Heck many blackpillers here rot everyday while bluepilled normies are out there gymaxxing, fashionmaxxing and social circle maxxing. Why should a woman date someone like you?

Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your responsibility because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.

There's a lot you can do to have a good life despite being LTN. Escortmaxx, moneymaxx. Have a social life, go out.

Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. You literally have nothing to offer to a woman. No looks, no money, no goals in life. You are just aimlessly floating through life, wallowing in self pity and trying to convince others that you are the victim of the society. I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY. Every time you see some LTN kissing a girl you like, just remember he wasn't a self doubting pitymaxxed subhuman like you, drowning in self loathv and had a life and the courage to ask a woman out.
This is the one corner of life that people actually care. We don’t have this irl usually cause no one cares.
 
@CruxGammata @WØLF @Friezacel @comradespiderman29 @Copexodius Maximus @Mecoja @DarkStarDown @ilieknothing
Effort vs reward. Its hard not to fall into nihilism when theres nothing for us in this world. We dont want it hard enough to leave our comfort zone and face the bleak reality.

Would our lives be better if we had more money (work any shity job available) and if we were in better physical condition? Absolutely, but that requires strong will and determination, which someone who gave up on life doesn't have anymore.

Its not about mindset which can be changed, its spirit death which eventually happens to all depressed people. My spirit was broken in my teens when my parents did everything possible to make me miserable, i gave up on my life before it started.
 
Where am I wrong tho? What's the use of just rotting in your room? Why not improve and do something about the situation you are in. SEAmaxx anything other than rotting.
We will see who will have the last laugh, dear bluepiller
 
Because my life sucks
 
Also stop tagging me in mindless threads like this one
 
Kys bluepilled faggit "durrhurr just try the thing youve already tried for years over and over".

"It's your responsibility inkwell even tho society shits on you every chance it gets just because of looks you cant change or youre awkward autistic personality you also cant change without seeming fake and stilted"

But hurr durr it's all our fault because we're ugly men and we have to man up while foids and faggots and niggers get everything handed to them exactly BECAUSE they complain and protest and victimize and bitch so much. But because we're ugly inkwells we should play society's game and moneymaxx, even tho for the vast majority that means being exploited and taken advantage of in return for a fraction of the actual value you produce.

We ARE victims, We ARE oppressed, and it is SOCIETY's responsiblity to unchain us lest there will continue to be ERs and men will continue to drop out of society until the house of cards completely collapses.

Funny how for every other fucking demographic it's muh systemic institutional barriers but when the topic is low status males, it's all our fault and responsibility go fuck ourselves.
 
Shalom grifter, I want to buy your redpill alpha male course too. Can I please have a discount, I am a good goy.
 
Kys bluepilled faggit "durrhurr just try the thing youve already tried for years over and over".

"It's your responsibility inkwell even tho society shits on you every chance it gets just because of looks you cant change or youre awkward autistic personality you also cant change without seeming fake and stilted"

But hurr durr it's all our fault because we're ugly men and we have to man up while foids and faggots and niggers get everything handed to them exactly BECAUSE they complain and protest and victimize and bitch so much. But because we're ugly inkwells we should play society's game and moneymaxx, even tho for the vast majority that means being exploited and taken advantage of in return for a fraction of the actual value you produce.

We ARE victims, We ARE oppressed, and it is SOCIETY's responsiblity to unchain us lest there will continue to be ERs and men will continue to drop out of society until the house of cards completely collapses.

Funny how for every other fucking demographic it's muh systemic institutional barriers but when the topic is low status males, it's all our fault and responsibility go fuck ourselves.
It doesn't matter if u think u are a victim or u feel you are oppressed. Nothing is going to change you'll still be a subhuman and you'll still be hopeless. The least u can do it is try but if u refuse to do that. May God save your soul.
 
But because we're ugly inkwells we should play society's game and moneymaxx, even tho for the vast majority that means being exploited and taken advantage of in return for a fraction of the actual value you produce.
Beautifully spoken
 
reported for bluepill
 
Also see you in ban appeals. Maybe not today, but you wont last for long
hes a fakecel 6'1 faggot (top 1 percentile of height in india, you almost never see people that tall even in tier 1 cities) there are a total of like 12 guys who are 6ft+ at my uni and all of them have gfs even the ltns and this nigger claims to have ltn tier face too
 
hes a fakecel 6'1 faggot (top 1 percentile of height in india, you almost never see people that tall even in tier 1 cities) there are a total of like 12 guys who are 6ft+ at my uni and all of them have gfs even the ltns and this nigger claims to have ltn tier face too
total state of this website
 
Height? Age?
Shalom grifter, I want to buy your redpill alpha male course too. Can I please have a discount, I am a good goy.
reported for bluepill
hes a fakecel 6'1 faggot (top 1 percentile of height in india, you almost never see people that tall even in tier 1 cities) there are a total of like 12 guys who are 6ft+ at my uni and all of them have gfs even the ltns and this nigger claims to have ltn tier face too
 
It doesn't matter if u think u are a victim or u feel you are oppressed.
"think" youre a victim? "feel" youre opressed????
why did you phrase it like that?
incels objectively are victims and are opressed
 
total state of this website
hes also nt enough to be in a good university where he will get a good job

6'1, nt, good job

thats all you need in curryland

curryland isnt like the west where you need to have a chadlite face, youre competing with subhumans here those stats will put you in the top 10% of men easily even if youre a 4/10 in face
 
It doesn't matter if u think u are a victim or u feel you are oppressed. Nothing is going to change you'll still be a subhuman and you'll still be hopeless. The least u can do it is try but if u refuse to do that. May God save your soul.
How long do i have to try before i can acknowledge it is fruitless? 30 yr old kissless dateless virgin, 40 yr old kissless dateless virgin? Your bluepilled ass would have me jestermax and wagecuck my entire life away for jack shit.

You just want to victim blame random individual incels instead of our feminist society's backwards standards and expectations, which is the true culprit, creating and enforcing conditions that prevent our efforts from bearing fruit. No matter how earnest and continuous our efforts are, a good chunk of men will simply be left behind by hypergamy in a free sexual market. And that is not their fault, it is womens' and society at large.
 
hes a fakecel 6'1 faggot (top 1 percentile of height in india, you almost never see people that tall even in tier 1 cities) there are a total of like 12 guys who are 6ft+ at my uni and all of them have gfs even the ltns and this nigger claims to have ltn tier face too
Exactly. Mallus have the highest SMV in South India also. Fakecel fucker :lul:
 
"think" youre a victim? "feel" youre opressed????
why did you phrase it like that?
incels objectively are victims and are opressed
because hes a fakecel this nigger is just got out of a rot phase and realised things arent so bad for him and hes angry for wasting his time feeling oppressed and now hes projecting that onto others here
 
Exactly. Mallus have the highest SMV in South India also. Fakecel fucker :lul:
tall mallus slay in liberal north indian unis also, they have media halo among liberal foids (70% of foids in unis nowadays)
 
tall mallus slay in liberal north indian unis also, they have media halo among liberal foids (70% of foids in unis nowadays)
Exactly. Telugus have the lowest SMV though :feelsrope:
 
"think" youre a victim? "feel" youre opressed????
why did you phrase it like that?
incels objectively are victims and are opressed
Completely agree, how disadvantaged someone needs to be before he can get acknowledged as being in fucked up situation.
 
hes a fakecel 6'1 faggot (top 1 percentile of height in india, you almost never see people that tall even in tier 1 cities) there are a total of like 12 guys who are 6ft+ at my uni and all of them have gfs even the ltns and this nigger claims to have ltn tier face too
I can dm my face if u want. I'm an incel
 
How long do i have to try before i can acknowledge it is fruitless? 30 yr old kissless dateless virgin, 40 yr old kissless dateless virgin? Your bluepilled ass would have me jestermax and wagecuck my entire life away for jack shit.

You just want to victim blame random individual incels instead of our feminist society's backwards standards and expectations, which is the true culprit, creating and enforcing conditions that prevent our efforts from bearing fruit. No matter how earnest and continuous our efforts are, a good chunk of men will simply be left behind by hypergamy in a free sexual market. And that is not their fault, it is womens' and society at large.
No I am blaming it on society. Look at my previous threads but what I'm saying is you blaming the society isn't going to change the situation for you
 
No I am blaming it on society. Look at my previous threads but what I'm saying is you blaming the society isn't going to change the situation for you
That part strictly is true, yes, that is why i have joined the Incel Protection Force to take concrete action to change society and reform our sociosexual conditions.

My fucked up life and foids' fucked up standards have somehow made it easier for me to help start a literal incel revolution than to get laid by normal means.
 

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