Serious Which one of you actually made massive changes in your life but with 0 results in dating and what were those changes?

[KyriuKazama]

Sorry if this question was asked already. I personally hate when people always assume that incels or lonely single men didn't made any changes in their life when most of them, by what I see, did. I personally started grooming, going to the gym, having better clothes, trying to be more sociable, going to events, even moved countries to make more money. All of those changes were for nothing, still didn't manage to find a woman and not even a hookup. I am 5'3 of height and my face ain't great either so I would guess that's the main problem. Wanna hear your guys story.

 

[The Wolf]

What is your age, ethnicity and where (country) do you live? It all depends. I will then tell you my stats. To answer your question, no I did not try.

 

[The Wolf]

Well I did work out for a few days at a time over the last years but I don't have good discipline, hope or motivation. That's a bad combo. I am 5'4", white from Germany.

 

[KyriuKazama]

What is your age, ethnicity and where (country) do you live? It all depends. I will then tell you my stats. To answer your question, no I did not try

35, white, lived in Romania, now I live in UK for the past 9 years.

 

[The Wolf]

35, white, lived in Romania, now I live in UK for the past 9 years.

How did you try to date (cold approach, dating apps)? have you ever dated before? I feel like dating apps are the worst way to try.

 

[drowningindenial]

I am 5'3 of height

theres nothign you can do

 

[Mohamedömar]

theres nothign you can do

sadly, you are right

 

[KyriuKazama]

How did you try to date (cold approach, dating apps)? have you ever dated before? I feel like dating apps are the worst way to try.

Tried everything: dating apps like tinder, bumble, match, Badoo, Facebook daring, etc. Tried cold approach in bars and clubs and one of them even ended with a false accusations. Tried events and gym classes. Tried at work. I landed only 4 dates in my entire life but none of them ended well or with a second date even. Never hooked up, never had a relationship either. And yeah, dating apps are pretty much pointless, never got a date from those. I feel like social events are your best bet or even dating events. Might not land you a girl you want, but one girl is better than none.

 

[KyriuKazama]

Well I did work out for a few days at a time over the last years but I don't have good discipline, hope or motivation. That's a bad combo. I am 5'4", white from Germany.

I feel like working out, if you are still young can help you out a bit. Try to grind a few months, orice the results ,post some pics on dating apps and watch the magic happen.

 

[FEMCELS FANTASY]

Sorry if this question was asked already. I personally hate when people always assume that incels or lonely single men didn't made any changes in their life when most of them, by what I see, did. I personally started grooming, going to the gym, having better clothes, trying to be more sociable, going to events, even moved countries to make more money. All of those changes were for nothing, still didn't manage to find a woman and not even a hookup. I am 5'3 of height and my face ain't great either so I would guess that's the main problem. Wanna hear your guys story.

Lost nearly all my weight in highschool to be comparable in body composition to the oofy doofies that had at least some moderate success with women and women still didn’t give a fuck about me.

This after I also improved my wardrobe as well ie I wore slick “adult” style clothes that while not super expensive weren’t exactly cheap either and they were the type of clothes you can at times get complimented on wearing ie a Chad or Tyrone for example told me he needed to get his own version of my fancy shirt at the time.

 

[Purg]

lost 110 pounds 280-170 from june2024 to present day, still treated like ugly subhuman trash no attention from women, had my face rated by wheat waffles and still a 4/10 after all the work i put in, proof weight loss is a cope just stay fat and enjoy ur food cope lads

 

[The Wolf]

I feel like working out, if you are still young can help you out a bit. Try to grind a few months, orice the results ,post some pics on dating apps and watch the magic happen.

you're not that much older than I am. I could use my parents' equipment at home, I dont even have to leave the house. I do regret not working out regularly over the past 3-5 years. I wouldn't have gotten a gf... but I would have gained more muscles at least and not be so skinny.

 

[KyriuKazama]

Lost nearly all my weight in highschool to be comparable in body composition to the oofy doofies that had at least some moderate success with women and women still didn’t give a fuck about me.

This after I also improved my wardrobe as well ie I wore slick “adult” style clothes that while not super expensive weren’t exactly cheap either and they were the type of clothes you can at times get complimented on wearing ie a Chad or Tyrone for example told me he needed to get his own version of my fancy shirt at the time.

Congrats on the weight loss bro, that sounds amazing and you should be proud. Fuck everyone else who didn't see your effort. I know it's frustrating that you got zero results after such a massive change, I been there. But h fortunately, we have to cope however we can.

 

[KyriuKazama]

lost 110 pounds 280-170 from june2024 to present day, still treated like ugly subhuman trash no attention from women, had my face rated by wheat waffles and still a 4/10 after all the work i put in, proof weight loss is a cope just stay fat and enjoy ur food cope lads

Congrats on the weight loss. I would say just stay the way you are now and don't get fat, just for your health, not for some worthless woman who wouldn't appreciate you.

 

[KyriuKazama]

you're not that much older than I am. I could use my parents' equipment at home, I dont even have to leave the house. I do regret not working out regularly over the past 3-5 years. I wouldn't have gotten a gf... but I would have gained more muscles at least and not be so skinny.

Never too late to make that change man, and who knows, your romance life might get a turn around, what you got to lose? Just do it.

 

[The Wolf]

Never too late to make that change man, and who knows, your romance life might get a turn around, what you got to lose? Just do it.

 

[xxectrapieces]

I lost a lot of weight during highschool. I did cold showers and I did everything the redpillers told me to do. I tried being a jester and it all failed. I didn't get a single friend nor a girlfriend after all of my efforts.

 

[KyriuKazama]

I lost a lot of weight during highschool. I did cold showers and I did everything the redpillers told me to do. I tried being a jester and it all failed. I didn't get a single friend nor a girlfriend after all of my efforts.

Sorry to hear that man, but congrats for the changes, you are a much better man now and at least you are healthy. Your health is 100% more important then some random woman.