Discussion Which gender is better at commitment?

[Hoppipolla]

I feel like there are three components to this: willingness to commit, likelihood of cheating on a long-term partner and likelihood of leaving a long-term partner.

I'll make it multiple choice!


Obviously we're only talking about heterosexual pairings here.

 

[AsiaCel]

Autistic men

 

[Gokubro]

What the fuck is this retarded thread? Will your next thread be "Which is better: eating shit or meat?"?

 

[FakeFakecel]

What the fuck is this retarded thread? Will your next thread be "Which is better: eating shit or meat?"?

 

[PillarofReality]

Both men and foids can suck at commitment. Both can cheat, and both can ditch their partners. The only difference? Society's perception and judgment of these behaviours based on gender.

 

[Hoppipolla]

Isn't it odd that we're constantly told that men are worse at commitment when it certainly seems like the inverse is true!

Most divorces within my own social circles over the years have been due to the woman going off with another man, as far as I can remember.

 

[uglymofo95]

Women usually have way more options than men and are less willing to work on issues in a relationship

 

[Lonelyus]

Fuck this thread, All humans are shitty and deserve to DIE!
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Fuck this thread, All humans are shitty and deserve to DIE!
Fuck this thread, All humans are shitty and deserve to DIE!
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Fuck this thread, All humans are shitty and deserve to DIE!
Fuck this thread, All humans are shitty and deserve to DIE!

 

[idgaf]

What the fuck is this retarded thread? Will your next thread be "Which is better: eating shit or meat?"?

 

[Balding Subhuman]

Women are a lot more fickle with their commitment. They are more likely to pressure their partners to marry them, but they are also more likely to divorce their partners. Part of it is of course the fact that women view men as walking wallets aka objects and they're looking to cash in their chips.

Lesbian divorce rate is the highest of them all which should tell everyone that women don't make that great partners. Women are more likely to be entitled and abusive towards their partners. Most of the time the success or failure of a heterosexual marriage is forced upon the shoulders of men, but what if there's no man involved in the said marriage?

How are these women, feminists and LGBT-folks going to twist the reality now when there's no man in vicinity to absorb the blame. Maybe the marriage dissolved because of the mailman? Or maybe the big metaphorical boogeyman Patriarchy?

Its hard to say whether men or women cheat more tbh though. In all honesty I think men are more likely to cheat, and even if women are the ones cheating on their partners more than men currently, I don't think that means much. Because if men had as many opportunities to cheat as women have, I think men would cheat more. Its just that those balding beerbelly boyos don't have women throwing themselves at them.

 

[Hoppipolla]

It seems like a common mistake men make is getting complacent.

They think a relationship is stable and that they can let their guard down a bit. That it's strong enough to hold together through the odd bump in the road.

But often it's really not. As soon as you stop putting in lots of effort... I guess they get tempted by the guys who do.

The problem with that is that all relationships calm down eventually. That initial kind of "flash in the pan"... it always dies down before too long, because it's exhausting for a guy to provide all that to a woman and eventually they'll always want things to "settle" a bit.

... and then she leaves.