JFL My girlfriend's (23F) past is haunting me (32M), 25 bodycount including ONS, and threesome

[PhineasSpear]

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I met my girlfriend late last year on a dating app. The first few dates and months were beautiful—the dates were perfect, and the vibe was right. It was almost like she “cosplayed” a traditional girl who was looking for a long-term relationship, and I thought I had finally met my dream girl. I slept with her after the fourth date, but to be frank, I didn’t push for sex any earlier either.

What you are about to see down below is the reason why tradwives are just whores pretending to be traditional to secure an unfortunate oofy doofy to wife her up:

Our dates go well, and the sex is good (albeit a bit vanilla). I am well established in my career, while she is just starting out, so I cover all the expenses for our dates, holiday travels and gifts.

I have met her family and we have been discussing moving in together and marriage plans over the next few years.

Over time, she slowly started talking about her past during our conversations. While I appreciate her rabid honesty and willingness to be vulnerable by telling all this to me, it was still highly disturbing. Some details are below:

Her body count was 25 by age 22, which only 4 of them were in relationship. The rest was with one night stands and threesome.

1. She participated in a threesome, where she was the other woman for a couple visiting town. The thought of her willingly participating to fulfill another guy’s fantasy bothers me. She even mentioned that the other women got jealous.
2. She had an ex-boyfriend who was into cucking and liked to see her sleep with other men, including one who was significantly larger that she could see a bulge in her lower stomach while having sex. She tells me she finds it degrading but enjoyed the sex in the moment.
3. ⁠She hooked up with a guy on a dating app for a one night stand and was having sex within 5 minutes of meeting him.

I feel deeply betrayed because I genuinely believed something different at the beginning. I have also spent thousands of dollars on her for dates, holidays and gifts - trying to be a good boyfriend. The thought that other guys were having sex with her within minutes of meeting her, with no effort, makes me feel like a fool.

I have since reduced any financially investment or long term talk - also focused a lot on having wild sex. But deep down, I still feel I was made a fool.

All my guy friends are telling me that this woman is a lost cause and that I should have some self-respect and leave. But every time I’m with her, everything feels perfect.

Is this salvageable, or should I just run for the hills?

Listen to your friends and run for the hills. Also JFL at spending a shit ton of money on her

 

[AutistSupremacist]

And this is why I am a parthenophile..

 

[FastBlast]

But at least he is not incel am I right guys?

 

[Aspiring Janitor]

I don't care what happens to sexhavers

 

[Fo4idhater]

"She had an ex-boyfriend who was into cucking and liked to see her sleep with other men" bro wtf

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

at least he got a young chick, age gaps like that are almost unheard of now

still sounds like a whore that should be dumped tho

 

[Yunoo]

25? Is that it? That’s low nowadays. Average is around 60 at that age

 

[Anonymoutron]

Biggest fucking whore I’ve ever heard about

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/retroactivejealousy/comments/1szq5pj/my_girlfriends_23f_past_is_haunting_me_32m_25/


What you are about to see down below is the reason why tradwives are just whores pretending to be traditional to secure an unfortunate oofy doofy to wife her up:



Listen to your friends and run for the hills. Also JFL at spending a shit ton of money on her

That whore probably has a bodycount in the triple digits. She hasn't even told a third of what she's actually done.

 

[autisticandugly]

average foid in america

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Biggest fucking whore I’ve ever heard about

That's your average foid these days.

 

[nihilum]

That's your average foid these days.

 

[literallyretarded]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/retroactivejealousy/comments/1szq5pj/my_girlfriends_23f_past_is_haunting_me_32m_25/


What you are about to see down below is the reason why tradwives are just whores pretending to be traditional to secure an unfortunate oofy doofy to wife her up:



Listen to your friends and run for the hills. Also JFL at spending a shit ton of money on her

he had sex so he should leave her now if i had good looks i would fuck women but not date all of them are whores just use them and throw them away before they cheat on you

 

[nihilum]

That's your average foid these days.

never betabuxx a modern woman

 

[nihilum]

he had sex so he should leave her now if i had good looks i would fuck women but not date all of them are whores just use them and throw them away before they cheat on you

he paid thousands of dollars while others fucked her for free

 

[literallyretarded]

he paid thousands of dollars while others fucked her for free

disgusting what a retard

 

[nihilum]

he had sex so he should leave her now if i had good looks i would fuck women but not date all of them are whores just use them and throw them away before they cheat on you

she made him wait 2 months for sex too.

 

[literallyretarded]

she made him wait 2 months for sex too.

yea man i feel like all girls are whores these days like its so brutal man

 

[nihilum]

yea man i feel like all girls are whores these days like its so brutal man

We will never have a girlfriend anyway.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

Average zoomer foid. And now she wants to taste a rich man 10 years older than her for a few weeks, then hop back on the carousel until menopause.

 

[nihilum]

Average zoomer foid. And now she wants to taste a rich man 10 years older than her for a few weeks, then hop back on the carousel until menopause.

He paid her thousands of dollars and waited two months for sex, while others got it for free and very quickly with her.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

He paid her thousands of dollars and waited two months for sex, while others got it for free and very quickly with her.

Why is she going for a betabuxx at her age? She won't be able to keep him until she's old enough to settle, these girls want to travel and fuck around too much. Maybe she just wanted to get a taste.

 

[orthodox]

very brutal

 

[nihilum]

Why is she going for a betabuxx at her age? She won't be able to keep him until she's old enough to settle, these girls want to travel and fuck around too much. Maybe she just wanted to get a taste.

She will fuck around while someone betabuxxes her.

 

[nihilum]

very brutal

that's why you should never be a betabuxx to a modern foid.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

never betabuxx a modern woman

That's the stupidest thing you can do

 

[nihilum]

That's the stupidest thing you can do

I would rather kill myself than that.

 

[sultryloser]

I tell you the female laycount blackpill is the most devastating one. It's over for all men who value purity. It's fucking over if you want a wife.

25. That's more than one guy a year since she turned 14.

 

[sultryloser]

The thing is, your girlfriend might not even let you know how much sex she's had. Just forget about her past bro.

 

[sultryloser]

at least he got a young chick, age gaps like that are almost unheard of now

still sounds like a whore that should be dumped tho

Yeah. On Reddit you'd expect him to be dogpilled. He must be somewhat good looking if he can pull that off.

 

[lowz1r]

I can’t even fathom trying to bond with a foid with a non-zero body count.

Promiscuous foids are biohazards.

 

[Extern]

I can’t even fathom trying to bond with a foid with a non-zero body count

Hate to break it to you but any adult foid who claims to have 0 bodies is lying

 

[Small Balls Messiah]

Lowest bodycount foid in 2026

 

[lowz1r]

Hate to break it to you but any adult foid who claims to have 0 bodies is lying

another editcel

Yeah it’s fucking over. I’m never gonna ascend.

 

[Anonymoutron]

That's your average foid these days.

Sadly that is true

 

[kapri]

I didn't expect the reddit comments to actually have good advice

 

[Monikak]

Lucky guy

 

[ANTAGONIST]

 

[Frail Link]

The absolute state of relationships in 2026

 

[orthodox]

that's why you should never be a betabuxx to a modern foid.

probably true

 

[orthodox]

probably true

over for betabuxxers in 2026

 

[orthodox]

over for betabuxxers in 2026

unless you are a chad you will never have a true love