When you don’t have friends, every problem becomes 100x bigger

[CEO of beta eyes]

Ppl seriously underestimate how important it is to have a social circle and to feel ACCEPTED AND LOVED. Which is why I never ever felt bad for a popular kid at school whenever they had a struggle. Divorced parents, bad grades, chaotic home. None of that matters when u have a solid social net and feel socially secure. I was only popular one year in my life. 2016. I felt so accepted at school and was popular. I would come back home to my jerk dad. He was mean to me, mocked me for getting low grades and even tore down my report card. Guess what? I didn’t care because my self esteem didn’t allow me to fall into depression. Compare that with when I became a “smart loser kid” all the best grades and my parents being nice to me and I still felt like shit 90% of the time. I knew a kid at school whose mom literally DIED and he got over it, stayed strong simply because he had a good social life and good social status

 

[sirlancelot]

Brotherhood is bullshit anyway

 

[Itsoverm8]

Friends are for attractive people

 

[currycel102]

I don't even have other incel friends at this point. I just have nobody. My other incel friends i previously had abandoned me.

 

[Caichan]

I relate to no one

 

[Deco]

Which problems? I see none.

 

[Giracel]

Compare that with when I became a “smart loser kid” all the best grades

This has been my entire life… I'm forced to admit it's got me nowhere

 

[Giracel]

Divorced parents

This is lowkey advantageous, the amount of online sympathy you can derive from it is endless

 

[KievanThule]

Brotherhood is bullshit anyway

Best to not have male friends.

 

[guessthatsit]

 

[StoryOfMyLaugh]

Brotherhood is bullshit anyway

 

[Sub5failure]

Hate to say it but No social circle for your height.

There is an implicit mininum height and face requirment for Supportive friendships. Nonody wants to be aroound people of lower social status

 

[Dead End]

Even if I had proper friends, I would never reach out. I'm too averse to even reach out to my parents. I instantly assume I will be attacked, mocked or dismissed upon reaching out.

 

[Zionist]

Friends are worthless if you're an Incel, even your childhood friends will turn their backs to you.

 

[CEO of beta eyes]

Hate to say it but No social circle for your height.

There is an implicit mininum height and face requirment for Supportive friendships. Nonody wants to be aroound people of lower social status

Exactly nobody wants to befriend an ugly short guy. I hate my face and how it stops me from living life, can’t even make friends for fucks sake

 

[inhibedrj]

I wish I had even one friend who wouldn't try to humiliate me. Every person I've every met in the real world did not care about me in the end.

 

[superpsycho]

1000% agree. being friendless throughout my entire life destroyed me more than inceldom.

 

[Barlog]

Normies would rope if they switched lives with us. Being socially isolated is incomprehensible to them.

 

[autisticsoy]

Having a social circle and friends makes life easier and tolerable, feeling accepted would make people much more motivated

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

Many of my problems can be attributed to the isolation and loneliness I've dealt with all my life. Not being able to make friends on my own past the age of 8 completely stunted my development as a person.

 

[SaintSmerdyakov]

Ppl seriously underestimate how important it is to have a social circle and to feel ACCEPTED AND LOVED. Which is why I never ever felt bad for a popular kid at school whenever they had a struggle. Divorced parents, bad grades, chaotic home. None of that matters when u have a solid social net and feel socially secure. I was only popular one year in my life. 2016. I felt so accepted at school and was popular. I would come back home to my jerk dad. He was mean to me, mocked me for getting low grades and even tore down my report card. Guess what? I didn’t care because my self esteem didn’t allow me to fall into depression. Compare that with when I became a “smart loser kid” all the best grades and my parents being nice to me and I still felt like shit 90% of the time. I knew a kid at school whose mom literally DIED and he got over it, stayed strong simply because he had a good social life and good social status

very real, but friendships fade often nowadays, agreed tho when I had friends it was the best time in my life

 

[DutchCel01]

Ppl seriously underestimate how important it is to have a social circle and to feel ACCEPTED AND LOVED. Which is why I never ever felt bad for a popular kid at school whenever they had a struggle. Divorced parents, bad grades, chaotic home. None of that matters when u have a solid social net and feel socially secure. I was only popular one year in my life. 2016. I felt so accepted at school and was popular. I would come back home to my jerk dad. He was mean to me, mocked me for getting low grades and even tore down my report card. Guess what? I didn’t care because my self esteem didn’t allow me to fall into depression. Compare that with when I became a “smart loser kid” all the best grades and my parents being nice to me and I still felt like shit 90% of the time. I knew a kid at school whose mom literally DIED and he got over it, stayed strong simply because he had a good social life and good social status

I Agree life is far too brutal for sub 5s who have no one.