Discussion When did you realize you were unfuckable?

[totalpuke]

These are some signs I experienced (happened before I was an adult so I was more naive) :

- I got told "I cant imagine you in a relationship" (classic)
- Got hit with the "my friend likes you". At the time I was naive, so I said I liked her back. The conversation ended with her running away calling her friends name out loud and laughing as I stood there.
- Every crush I ever had was into my best friend at the time (he used to always say he was ugly despite the amount of girls flocking to him)
-The first time I ever confessed, I found out my crush was actually into that same best friend and even told him, he never told me (I found out later from another source), so I confessed and got rejected.
- A girl that had a crush on my friend would ask me for advice on how to get with with my best friend, I helped her get with him despite me liking her.
- One time me and my friend walked up to compliment this older woman (I was 16 at the time), I called her pretty and she said thank you. After we regrouped with our other friends, they kept making jokes about me being a sexual assaulter just for a compliment. At the time I freaked out so bad, I even cried. I was just so confused why they only called me that, and not my friend.

 

[BasedGoyslopReviews]

like 19

 

[Cryo]

"My friend likes you"

 

[totalpuke]

like 19

Was there a specific sign or situation that gave you that realization?

 

[andrej]

Hmm let's put it in a chronological order from what I can remember. At first it started with foids rejecting me in 1st grade while being cool with anyone else. Then it got into the teen years where I was rejected a lot of times due to my appearance and where my friends would make fun of me for something related to how I look. After no success irl I tried to go online since I thought that by first introducting my personality and then my face someone could tolerate my appearance. After face revealing I was mostly ghosted, but the worst absolute comment I got about my appearance that absolutely cemented this was when a foid upon seeing my face said: "You're so chopped that I want to cry. Sorry but you're just so ugly and you could never be my type. Your face is deformed, you are skinny, your ears are flapped, you have pimples all over you, you're assymetric, everything about you is disgusting."

I'm still feeling insecure about myself and it's been like what almost 2 years. I want to puke when I hear all that

 

[Biggie cheesel]

Was always hit with ''my friend likes you'' during middle school

 

[nihilum]

when no gf

 

[totalpuke]

Hmm let's put it in a chronological order from what I can remember. At first it started with foids rejecting me in 1st grade while being cool with anyone else. Then it got into the teen years where I was rejected a lot of times due to my appearance and where my friends would make fun of me for something related to how I look. After no success irl I tried to go online since I thought that by first introducting my personality and then my face someone could tolerate my appearance. After face revealing I was mostly ghosted, but the worst absolute comment I got about my appearance that absolutely cemented this was when a foid upon seeing my face said: "You're so chopped that I want to cry. Sorry but you're just so ugly and you could never be my type. Your face is deformed, you are skinny, your ears are flapped, you have pimples all over you, you're assymetric, everything about you is disgusting."

I'm still feeling insecure about myself and it's been like what almost 2 years. I want to puke when I hear all that

Holy shit I'm so sorry

 

[totalpuke]

Was always hit with ''my friend likes you'' during middle school

incel classic

 

[andrej]

Holy shit I'm so sorry

It is what it is man. We are all in the same boat

 

[GigaL0ser]

With 14-15

 

[tired as fuck]

let's see...
if we're talking about "unfuckable", then probably when I was on a school club work trip. I was 17 at the time, the school club was one led by the Art and Art History professors (great bunch they were), and we worked on city restoration and other urban things. We restored a square, a school fountain for other schools, decorated and kept our school building tidy etc. This trip lasted 7 days and we painted a huge graffiti on a series of wave-breakers for the 10th anniversary of the killing of a mayor of the city. It was one of the only moments where I had genuine fun in my life, that wasn't online. I digress.

We had a couple of female upperclassmen, then it was 10-11 of us from the same year (diff classes), and a couple of underclassmen, one of the professors and the graffiti designer. We resided in a house lent to us by this dude who owned a series of gyms and shit, good lad. The town was lax as fuck, typical fisher-coastal town. One night we decide to order pizzas for dinner, so me and the two upperclassmen decide to go order the pizzas and bring em back. In the meantime one of the two orders some drinks and gets drunk. There was a football game on so I just watched it with the pizza-man, twas a pretty wholesome situation tbh. Either way the pizzas are done and we be on our way back, when the drunk upperclassman starts telling me all about her abusive boyfriend and her psychiatrist and her traumas and her daddy issues. I'm listening to not be impolite but when she's finished I say "why would you tell me such things tho" and she says "well you're pretty harmless, and you're unfuckable".

I died inside.

The other upperclassman (whom I had a crush on) slept with one of my friends who was there with me and then they got together.





truly, I am cursed.

 

[H U N T E R]

Hmm let's put it in a chronological order from what I can remember. At first it started with foids rejecting me in 1st grade while being cool with anyone else. Then it got into the teen years where I was rejected a lot of times due to my appearance and where my friends would make fun of me for something related to how I look. After no success irl I tried to go online since I thought that by first introducting my personality and then my face someone could tolerate my appearance. After face revealing I was mostly ghosted, but the worst absolute comment I got about my appearance that absolutely cemented this was when a foid upon seeing my face said: "You're so chopped that I want to cry. Sorry but you're just so ugly and you could never be my type. Your face is deformed, you are skinny, your ears are flapped, you have pimples all over you, you're assymetric, everything about you is disgusting."

I'm still feeling insecure about myself and it's been like what almost 2 years. I want to puke when I hear all that

Damn bro, that's brutal... I went through the same experience. I've literally had girls tell me to KYS just because I'm ugly. It's just brutal

 

[totalpuke]

"well you're pretty harmless, and you're unfuckable".

Being ugly = never being taken seriously

 

[tired as fuck]

Was always hit with ''my friend likes you'' during middle school

mogs me, in middle school nobody gave a fuck about me enough to even play that prank on me.

 

[Vinícius truecel]

when did I begin to have life?

 

[Vinícius truecel]

Damn bro, that's brutal... I went through the same experience. I've literally had girls tell me to KYS just because I'm ugly. It's just brutal

Send that bitch to hell.

 

[hirohitomaxxing]

These are some signs I experienced (happened before I was an adult so I was more naive) :

- I got told "I cant imagine you in a relationship" (classic)
- Got hit with the "my friend likes you". At the time I was naive, so I said I liked her back. The conversation ended with her running away calling her friends name out loud and laughing as I stood there.
- Every crush I ever had was into my best friend at the time (he used to always say he was ugly despite the amount of girls flocking to him)
-The first time I ever confessed, I found out my crush was actually into that same best friend and even told him, he never told me (I found out later from another source), so I confessed and got rejected.
- A girl that had a crush on my friend would ask me for advice on how to get with with my best friend, I helped her get with him despite me liking her.
- One time me and my friend walked up to compliment this older woman (I was 16 at the time), I called her pretty and she said thank you. After we regrouped with our other friends, they kept making jokes about me being a sexual assaulter just for a compliment. At the time I freaked out so bad, I even cried. I was just so confused why they only called me that, and not my friend.

when my friend said the only way for me to have a wife is if I lock her up in my basement and also I got rejected every single time since I am 8 yo

 

[BasedGoyslopReviews]

Was there a specific sign or situation that gave you that realization?

i was trying to pass as a ltn in uni and i got invited to a party (probably out of pity or basic courtesy)
and when I showed up, a foid who is my looksmatch said out loud "what is this bring a random person to school day?" and laughed. the bitch had known me for 2 years but my entire existence was lesser than bumping up her social standing by 5% as a party joke

 

[BasedGoyslopReviews]

i have many stories (not particularly interesting) as early as 10 years old but I was on copium until about 19

 

[NonNTFailure]

16. High schools are social hellscapes that should be NUKED off the face of the earth..

 

[sub3genecel]

I was so young I couldn’t have been older than like 14. It’s probably what messed me up so much

 

[SociallyStunted]

17-18

 

[Misogynistic]

I used to work with a foid, and she always tried to ship me with the other foids in work to make them laugh and feel uncomfortable

 

[ffffuuuu]

When I couldn’t tell if they were laughing in my face or at my face

 

[cactusjuice]

i have no idea no girl has shown interest in me

 

[Renegade#1]

When everyone had a toilet gf in high school but me

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

When I looked in the mirror.

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

High schools are social hellscapes that should be NUKED off the face of the earth..

I wish I was home schooled.

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

I used to work with a foid, and she always tried to ship me with the other foids in work to make them laugh and feel uncomfortable

Vermin vile creatures.

 

[itsovER99]

18

 

[Izanagi]

realistically when i was about 14

 

[Falkone]

14 when i got rejected by everyone and realized all girls stay away from me and don't even look me

 

[superpsycho]

age 9

 

[Sirax]

Hmm let's put it in a chronological order from what I can remember. At first it started with foids rejecting me in 1st grade while being cool with anyone else. Then it got into the teen years where I was rejected a lot of times due to my appearance and where my friends would make fun of me for something related to how I look. After no success irl I tried to go online since I thought that by first introducting my personality and then my face someone could tolerate my appearance. After face revealing I was mostly ghosted, but the worst absolute comment I got about my appearance that absolutely cemented this was when a foid upon seeing my face said: "You're so chopped that I want to cry. Sorry but you're just so ugly and you could never be my type. Your face is deformed, you are skinny, your ears are flapped, you have pimples all over you, you're assymetric, everything about you is disgusting."

I'm still feeling insecure about myself and it's been like what almost 2 years. I want to puke when I hear all that

I had hit her to the ground. If people say such things they expect a reaction. Give her a reaction.

 

[Grodd]

realistically when i was about 14

 

[anon]

When I was 6, and I'm not kidding. I knew I'd be a loser for the rest of my life. When I learned about sex (around 8 or 9) I just knew.

 

[sikkcunt]

Got hit with the "my friend likes you". At the time I was naive, so I said I liked her back. The conversation ended with her running away calling her friends name out loud and laughing as I stood there.

I dont understand how people do this, Do they not see us as equal? I literally remember this happening and this mudshark bitch saying "I would never date your ugly ass in the end" and I never forgot it.

 

[iblamemyself_0]

16. High schools are social hellscapes that should be NUKED off the face of the earth..

 

[saito.]

These are some signs I experienced (happened before I was an adult so I was more naive) :

- I got told "I cant imagine you in a relationship" (classic)
- Got hit with the "my friend likes you". At the time I was naive, so I said I liked her back. The conversation ended with her running away calling her friends name out loud and laughing as I stood there.
- Every crush I ever had was into my best friend at the time (he used to always say he was ugly despite the amount of girls flocking to him)
-The first time I ever confessed, I found out my crush was actually into that same best friend and even told him, he never told me (I found out later from another source), so I confessed and got rejected.
- A girl that had a crush on my friend would ask me for advice on how to get with with my best friend, I helped her get with him despite me liking her.
- One time me and my friend walked up to compliment this older woman (I was 16 at the time), I called her pretty and she said thank you. After we regrouped with our other friends, they kept making jokes about me being a sexual assaulter just for a compliment. At the time I freaked out so bad, I even cried. I was just so confused why they only called me that, and not my friend.

I was lying to a girl in my class to who I was talking rather well that I was in a relationship, I showed her a random photo of a girl that I took on insta to lie that she was my girlfriend and she told me "Damn what I didn't know that a girl could really get into a relationship with someone like you" or something like that, today she must have forgotten this sentence me on the other hand this sentence is staying in my head until then

 

[LeFrenchCel]

- I got told "I cant imagine you in a relationship" (classic)

Fucking brutal thing to hear

- Got hit with the "my friend likes you". At the time I was naive, so I said I liked her back. The conversation ended with her running away calling her friends name out loud and laughing as I stood there.

Got it a few times too but never fell into that trap

- Every crush I ever had was into my best friend at the time (he used to always say he was ugly despite the amount of girls flocking to him)

I had experiences where groups of girls would greet my friends but not me

-The first time I ever confessed, I found out my crush was actually into that same best friend and even told him, he never told me (I found out later from another source), so I confessed and got rejected.

First time I asked out a girl on a date, she said yes then changed her mind last minute. Two weeks later she officialized her relationship with an ugly rugbyman tallfag

- A girl that had a crush on my friend would ask me for advice on how to get with with my best friend, I helped her get with him despite me liking her.

That's some brutal shit

- One time me and my friend walked up to compliment this older woman (I was 16 at the time), I called her pretty and she said thank you. After we regrouped with our other friends, they kept making jokes about me being a sexual assaulter just for a compliment. At the time I freaked out so bad, I even cried. I was just so confused why they only called me that, and not my friend.

Brutal shit too

You're here at home broski, we understand your pain...

 

[pleksus]

When i understand all woman like one type skull structure on man. And its called chad type skull.

 

[Asymmetry]

14

 

[stsaturn]

"My friend likes you"

 

[mirrors]

After we regrouped with our other friends, they kept making jokes about me being a sexual assaulter just for a compliment

Can't even JFL to this. Jeez

 

[TheFinalFrontier]

In 4th grade, I was asked once, which girl do you like in our class. And I thought for a second and said one of them. Before them I'd always thought love and dating as stuff big guys do and I don't have to worry about it. When I said it, it became popular among the class's boys. Because obv I was the nd shy kid. I used to have
fancies like, "Oh we sat on desks right next to each other" "Oh we are asked to distribute books to boys and girls". Maybe we'll talk, maybe it'll go somewhere. And then it hit me. I keeo imagining. But nothing seems to happen. Because really, I just do not cross the minimum banner to be a friend. To overcome the initial gender barrier in middle schoolers. And it has just gotten worse man.

 

[UndeadDeadMan]

when the drunk upperclassman starts telling me all about her abusive boyfriend and her psychiatrist and her traumas and her daddy issues. I'm listening to not be impolite but when she's finished I say "why would you tell me such things tho" and she says "well you're pretty harmless, and you're unfuckable".

Ok if some woman starts telling me about her issues later, I will know where things are going.

I made the right choice joining this forum. Things really are as bad as I thought, perhaps even worse

 

[erenyeager]

These are some signs I experienced (happened before I was an adult so I was more naive) :

- I got told "I cant imagine you in a relationship" (classic)
- Got hit with the "my friend likes you". At the time I was naive, so I said I liked her back. The conversation ended with her running away calling her friends name out loud and laughing as I stood there.
- Every crush I ever had was into my best friend at the time (he used to always say he was ugly despite the amount of girls flocking to him)
-The first time I ever confessed, I found out my crush was actually into that same best friend and even told him, he never told me (I found out later from another source), so I confessed and got rejected.
- A girl that had a crush on my friend would ask me for advice on how to get with with my best friend, I helped her get with him despite me liking her.
- One time me and my friend walked up to compliment this older woman (I was 16 at the time), I called her pretty and she said thank you. After we regrouped with our other friends, they kept making jokes about me being a sexual assaulter just for a compliment. At the time I freaked out so bad, I even cried. I was just so confused why they only called me that, and not my friend.

Since I was 15

 

[erenyeager]

When i understand all woman like one type skull structure on man. And it’s called chad type skull.

Similar thought process well, they would always like the stereotypical good looking guy instead of male who looked like me instead. It always felt off when it was that everytime. No it wasn’t because of thign si could change, it was things I couldn’t change.

 

[plam]

brutal shit