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Venting When you are happy for your friends more than for yourself.

Moroccancel

Moroccancel

يا حبيبتي٫ يا مستحيلي
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Maybe it's an incel trait, or in general, the trait of a loser who can't aspire to anything else, but when I was younger (19-24 yo) and I still had "friends" (Friends is a saying, because basically they invited me to be with them to watch football and pay the restaurant bills in rotation) I used to rejoice at the achievements of those colleagues.

When they got married, I was the one who felt happiest and out of my happiness, it seemed like I was the one who got married; When a friend wanted to get a job that he had wanted for a long time, I was there worrying about him all the time and when He got it, I was so happy for him that I even cried, for him, and then for me: I cried for him because I genuinely felt great compassion for him, and I cried for myself because I would never have that kind of joy in my life. And so with everything else and important news other known people had, but, my turn never came: My opportunity to achieve my dreams and my goals never came.

And now, on this Saturday, depressive, as always in this part of the planet, I think, and sadly I realize that no one was ever happy for me, for anything. No one was happy for me like I was happy for them...
 
Cucked trait. I am never happy for anyone.
 
nah never be happy for "friends" unless they are useful to you
 
I have no friends, so i can't be happy for them
 
nah never be happy for "friends" unless they are useful to you
Yes, I would tell you that it would be the highlight, but those feelings of compassion, as he said to the brush, are something that are always there.
 
I have no friends, so i can't be happy for them
Yes, I realized that I didn't have real friends either. Only, "Friends", because that's not even what they were, but you realize that later

Today I am absolutely alone. Internet only.
 
My friend ascended
 
Maybe, yeah...

I can't help but feeling compassion for other people.
Can't go against your genes unless you experience a handful of trauma from other people. I was somewhat diagnosed with anti social pERsonality disordER, so makes sense why I want people's heads on spikes.
 
Yes, I would tell you that it would be the highlight, but those feelings of compassion, as he said to the brush, are something that are always there.
I was once happy for and always trusted my friends until i was taught the consequences of it later on, my friend group shat on me made me the ass of the joke any time they could and just fucked with me. so I couldn't take it anymore so i spammed gore on their discord and got banned and they memoryholed my existence from them
 
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I was once happy for and always trusted my friends until i was taught the consequences of it later on, my friend group shat on me made me the ass of the joke any time they could and just fucked with me, couldn't take it anymore so i spammed gore on their discord and got banned and they memoryholed my existence from them
Luckily I never felt this kind bebaviour. Just that slight contempt of being the weakest and most irrelevant of the group.
 
Can't go against your genes unless you experience a handful of trauma from other people. I was somewhat diagnosed with anti social pERsonality disordER, so makes sense why I want people's heads on spikes.
Makes sense.
 
it is absolutely not an incel trait.
 
Luckily I never felt this kind bebaviour. Just that slight contempt of being the weakest and most irrelevant of the group.
yep they must of mistook my kindness for weakness and that is what made them turn on me like that, I was literally only mentioned to be pushed around with
 
My one and only lifelong friend ascended a few weeks ago. We've always been equal on the social ladder until recently. I desperately want to feel happy for him but its hard to fight the jealousy
 
I barely feel any happiness for others, but your bluepilled of years ago might have been overcompensating, trying to make their happiness your own too. It's brutal that they've never helped you though. Good frends help each other.
 
Mogs me for being human
 
I barely feel any happiness for others, but your bluepilled of years ago might have been overcompensating, trying to make their happiness your own too. It's brutal that they've never helped you though. Good frends help each other.

Yes, it's possible. The curious thing about it all is that although I would like to receive the affection and friendship that I have given, I know that at the end of the day, you can never expect anything...
 
Maybe it's an incel trait, or in general, the trait of a loser who can't aspire to anything else, but when I was younger (19-24 yo) and I still had "friends" (Friends is a saying, because basically they invited me to be with them to watch football and pay the restaurant bills in rotation) I used to rejoice at the achievements of those colleagues.

When they got married, I was the one who felt happiest and out of my happiness, it seemed like I was the one who got married; When a friend wanted to get a job that he had wanted for a long time, I was there worrying about him all the time and when He got it, I was so happy for him that I even cried, for him, and then for me: I cried for him because I genuinely felt great compassion for him, and I cried for myself because I would never have that kind of joy in my life. And so with everything else and important news other known people had, but, my turn never came: My opportunity to achieve my dreams and my goals never came.

And now, on this Saturday, depressive, as always in this part of the planet, I think, and sadly I realize that no one was ever happy for me, for anything. No one was happy for me like I was happy for them...
i got no friends
 
Do you still have contact with them
 
Do you still have contact with them
There is a common WhatsApp group, but they never talk about meeting up, because I know that they talk privately so as not to include me in their plans.
 
Maybe it's an incel trait, or in general, the trait of a loser who can't aspire to anything else, but when I was younger (19-24 yo) and I still had "friends" (Friends is a saying, because basically they invited me to be with them to watch football and pay the restaurant bills in rotation) I used to rejoice at the achievements of those colleagues.

When they got married, I was the one who felt happiest and out of my happiness, it seemed like I was the one who got married; When a friend wanted to get a job that he had wanted for a long time, I was there worrying about him all the time and when He got it, I was so happy for him that I even cried, for him, and then for me: I cried for him because I genuinely felt great compassion for him, and I cried for myself because I would never have that kind of joy in my life. And so with everything else and important news other known people had, but, my turn never came: My opportunity to achieve my dreams and my goals never came.

And now, on this Saturday, depressive, as always in this part of the planet, I think, and sadly I realize that no one was ever happy for me, for anything. No one was happy for me like I was happy for them...
Well I've never given a flying fuck about anyone's achievements but my own. Yes I've faked it here and there, but I don't care. The only times I care are the times I feel jealous
 
Well I've never given a flying fuck about anyone's achievements but my own. Yes I've faked it here and there, but I don't care. The only times I care are the times I feel jealous
Thanks for sharing your feelings, brocel.
 
Maybe it's an incel trait, or in general, the trait of a loser who can't aspire to anything else, but when I was younger (19-24 yo) and I still had "friends" (Friends is a saying, because basically they invited me to be with them to watch football and pay the restaurant bills in rotation) I used to rejoice at the achievements of those colleagues.

When they got married, I was the one who felt happiest and out of my happiness, it seemed like I was the one who got married; When a friend wanted to get a job that he had wanted for a long time, I was there worrying about him all the time and when He got it, I was so happy for him that I even cried, for him, and then for me: I cried for him because I genuinely felt great compassion for him, and I cried for myself because I would never have that kind of joy in my life. And so with everything else and important news other known people had, but, my turn never came: My opportunity to achieve my dreams and my goals never came.

And now, on this Saturday, depressive, as always in this part of the planet, I think, and sadly I realize that no one was ever happy for me, for anything. No one was happy for me like I was happy for them...
You are a great person and you’re complaining about it? Don’t let this world get to you, if you believe in God, you would know that it’s all worth it
 
Dont tell me they ditched you in the long run :feelsrope:
 
There is a common WhatsApp group, but they never talk about meeting up, because I know that they talk privately so as not to include me in their plans.
Oh of course :cryfeels:

Fuck normies. They hate single men with a passion. That's why inceldom is NOT A CAPRICE. Our detractors dont get how it screws you over in every aspect of life. But tbh once you understands it and knows what's up, it disgusts you so much that you start to not care. Well that's me at least
 

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