Serious When did you realize woman don't care about personality?

[jet112]

for me, it was mostly highschool
iv seen polite/delicate girls attach themselves to loudmouths and jerks, this made me believe personality has no part in attraction.
also iv always seen those club fiends get with girls that are traditional/have good grades.

 

[ApoplecticRage]

By about the age of 15 -16.

 

[Kanakops]

16 but it was really brutal at 17

 

[ApoplecticRage]

16 but it was really brutal at 17

I posted hastily before. I'm changing my answer to this.

 

[Evildoer]

Oh, good topic. I was bluepilled till my very 19 (i'm 21 now) or somewhere around this. I always was your literal nice guy, when it comes to femoids, i was expecting them to be somewhat grateful, but i knew this would bring me nowhere, i was nice just because i was too autistic and afraid of making any conflicts or being rejected.

I always thought the problem was my acne, and my mental state, and probably i was right, but now situation just got worse, as i stopped growing at 5'6 and retained my small frame, so just going out and seeing average adult male taller+wider than me i quickly realised, the problem is not my God damn personality, and probably never was.

 

[Deleted member 2429]

Like 10 years old. I've known it for a while by simply observing.

 

[SoCalSuifuel]

This year, honestly. I'm 24 and I was coping for a long long time, but now that I'm balding there's no way to cope any longer, you can only ignore reality for so long before it comes crashing down on your head.

 

[Anonymous MG]

13 years old

 

[Mainländer]

I thought they cared but about you being bad.

 

[WarriorSkull]

Oh, good topic. I was bluepilled till my very 19 (i'm 21 now) or somewhere around this. I always was your literal nice guy, when it comes to femoids, i was expecting them to be somewhat grateful, but i knew this would bring me nowhere, i was nice just because i was too autistic and afraid of making any conflicts or being rejected.

I always thought the problem was my acne, and my mental state, and probably i was right, but now situation just got worse, as i stopped growing at 5'6 and retained my small frame, so just going out and seeing average adult male taller+wider than me i quickly realised, the problem is not my God damn personality, and probably never was.

I really identify with this. So much of my formative years was spent only half realizing things. i developed a real destructive pattern through my teens of avoiding conflict because I knew people wouldn't back me up and might turn on me or make my life worse that would lead to violent explosions after all the bottled up anger & frustration would get to be to much. These explosions made my life much more difficult as well, so the cycle just repeated itself a number of times until I just gave up and went into isolation for a number of years.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

when i was in education still and saw my bullies who tormented me for years with gf's.

i guess they were attracted to their excellent personalities. teehee

 

[Deleted member 8353]

When I was about 16.

 

[acnescarcel]

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