Discussion When did you first realise/accept you were ugly, and how did it make feel?

[nullus]

I'd say that I first 'realised' that I might be ugly was when I was 14 and people in my class constantly made comments and insults on my physical appearance. I specifically remember my body feeling heavier and feeling like a black cloud was above my head constantly during that time and I haven't gone back to normal ever since.

But between 14 and 16 I'd go back on forth on whether or not I was really ugly because I just found it too difficult to accept the brutal truth despite the fact that the signs were very obvious.

 

[DespressedCurryCel1]

I realized it when I was 11 years old

 

[nullus]

I realized it when I was 11 years old

How?

 

[PLA1092]

14, I just realized the disconnect between my own and Chad's life with treatment and whatnot.

 

[DespressedCurryCel1]

How?

Bullying

 

[turtlecel]

Just look in the mirror its not that hard to realize unless you are extremely low iq

 

[deucegigalo]

^^^ that mainstream bs beauty standards and our schooling sentence 12 years i rotted ..... IN AZKABAN !!

 

[Geryon]

11-12 is when it settled in, I cried like a little bitch because I knew my crush wouldn't love me back so I legit started having waifus by the time I was 12 to cope

 

[ADHD_cel]

I stayed in my bed for a week

 

[WysteriaMurderer]

When I was 11

 

[IncelKing]

When I was 5.

Truecels know they’re ugly from as young as they can remembER

 

[nullus]

When I was 5.

Truecels know they’re ugly from as young as they can remembER

What was it that made you realise that you were ugly at such a young age?

It's one thing to realise you're ugly and another to accept it. Did you actually accept it at 5 aswell?

 

[UsernameLV]

When girl started laughing about me after my friend asked her if she'd be willing to date me.

 

[nullus]

Just look in the mirror its not that hard to realize unless you are extremely low iq

Im used to looking at my face so it's hard to know that I'm ugly just based on the mirror. I had no idea I had things like a huge nose and a far-apart eyes until people made comments on my face.

 

[Nemesis]

When no girl wanted me. 15 years old

 

[Savage]

I realized it when I was 11 years old

Same, probably younger

 

[nullus]

Same, probably younger

How?

 

[92 drowsiness?]

Maybe im coping,but i ain´t ugly im just average looking im a 6/10 and still am a loner. but yeah when i was like 12 i noticed that i was going to be average forever.

 

[Savage]

How?

My mother overfed me, I have overlapping front teeth and was a mouth breather. So my face was naturally repulsive, + i'm deathnic. I've avoided looking into mirrors religiously since I can remember

 

[nullus]

My mother overfed me, I have overlapping front teeth and was a mouth breather. So my face was naturally repulsive, + i'm deathnic. I've avoided looking into mirrors religiously since I can remember

Can relate to the avoiding mirrors thing.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

In elementary school when some people mocked me for my hair color

 

[nullus]

In elementary school when some people mocked me for my hair color

Are you ginger?

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Are you ginger?

Yes

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

Got laughed at way too often to single one instance out.