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Discussion Whats the worst dating/life advice someone has given you?

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Like people telling you unironically to just be yourself in the year of our lord 2026
 
"Just don't be shy"
 
"girls know you watch porn" maybe
 
Anything that soyddit suggests
 
I personally never received any advice cuz I never touched this topic with anyone.
Among those that I have seen/heard of, not being insecure about your height seems very stupid because its normalfaggots who constantly make fun of it, not yourself.
 
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The most dull & pointless advice imo is "don't be too pushy for the girl, pretend that you dont want her and let her retake the initiative". Yeah as if she magically decides to choose you among other 500+ options who try to court her
 
- imitate her body language
- make your voice higher pitched (pretty sure this only works on cats)
- pay her compliments
- act vulnerable and pathetic on purpose (bird with a broken wing theory)
 
"Write her a letter"
I didn't and saved me the humiliation
 
I personally never received any advice cuz I never touched this topic with anyone.
Same. I couldn't even imagine having a conversation like that, surreal.
 
Coworker keeps asking me if I am going out and talking to random strange women.

He says to just go up to them and compliment them and such. He doesn't realize how badly this can backfire because he is NT. Women look at him differently than me. They look at me with pure disgust and hatred since they are eugenicists. When he does that it's perceived as confident. When I do it it's perceived as threatening or gross. They just wouldn't get it. I've been asked to leave places just for having a friendly conversation and everyone gaslights me saying it's my fault.

I'd say talking to strange women is possibly the worst advice you can get. I also had an old friend tell me to get Google glasses and film my approaches. That's even worse.
 
- imitate her body language
- make your voice higher pitched (pretty sure this only works on cats)
- pay her compliments
- act vulnerable and pathetic on purpose (bird with a broken wing theory)
How to come off as a homo guide. The nigga who said this to you was playing a trick on you.
 
''Be manly and responsible bro''
 
Same. I couldn't even imagine having a conversation like that, surreal.
It depends on whether you're an ogre or a framelet. If you're a framelet people give you advice constantly because they see you as pathetic. From a male perspective they want to help you not realizing how a woman's mind works. Any sign of you looking pathetic and they get the ick. You're supposed to know this stuff by default. If you're an ogre people probably just assume you have it under control
 
It depends on whether you're an ogre or a framelet. If you're a framelet people give you advice constantly because they see you as pathetic. From a male perspective they want to help you not realizing how a woman's mind works. Any sign of you looking pathetic and they get the ick. You're supposed to know this stuff by default. If you're an ogre people probably just assume you have it under control
I'm the polar opposite of an ogre.
 
- be silent, appear deep in thought and act mysterious
 
"Go to the gym, start losing weight, dress well, be confident and just actually talk to women. Stop being insecure" :soy::soy::soy:
It was 4 weeks ago when I encountered a relative, a MTN sexhaver, we had a drink together and he told me, he dated a lot of highschoolers as a 25 years old. Retarded nigger told me to be confident and shave my facial hair off.
I told him: "It's not possible"
He asked: "Why did you think so?
I replied: "I have been rejected too many times. Also, recently a girl in my uni class, whom I had a crush on, blocked me on a messaging app. Blah blah blah..."
He said again: "Just listen to me once bro, stop being insecure and try again. You will find the right girl soon. I have seen a lot of ugly guys like you get married"
Then he got more drunk and told me about a friend whose wife divorced him for being poor and a terrible sex partner. She later found a new partner and he was somewhat average looking, 5'10 tall :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
These normies love gaslighting incels
 
"Date a single mother"
 
"just put yourself out there"
 
"Find a girl that doesn't mind your dermatillomania."
 
"Just don't be shy"
Be more confident
Try finding female friends
Go out more
Make her laugh

This is like asking somebody "how do I get to a destination" and they say "you just need to walk bro". Thank you bro.
 
Andrew tate said hair doesn't matter
 

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