What’s is your cut off for “incel”?

[scihub]

Been watching some red pill cotnent lately, and I found their definitions of incel laughable.

One of them said “1 in 3 guys are incels; no sex in the last year”. And I’m like wtf, that’s all it takes? A year? Surely these guys are joking. They probably have no concept that there are guys on here who have gone years or even decades without it.

Curious how you guys define it. Are you incel if it’s been a certain amount of time without it? What if you had sex only one time but long dry spell since? How long is your cutoff? Curious to hear others thoughts.

 

[Friezacel]

“1 in 3 guys are incels; no sex in the last year”

thats failed normie

 

[KING NOTHING]

Never had sex (unpaid) and never dated. No rocket science here.

 

[Mecoja]

Entire life.

 

[Pancakecel]

Why are you wasting your time watching redpill garbage in the first place, what did you expect...

thats failed normie

 

[scihub]

Why are you wasting your time watching redpill garbage in the first place, what did you expect...

Schadenfreude. It’s fun sometimes to hear about others misery, especially women who get humbled (the infamous wall) while I’m working out.

 

[Ahnfeltia]

for completeness, I'll quote the definition of incel used by this forum

Rule explanation: What it means to be an incel on incels.is so that you may join our site.

Our community’s unique definition of the term and word “incel” is not exactly the same as what you might find in the normie world or in a dictionary.

For us an incel is a male who has never had a romantic, voluntary, unpaid sexual relationship with a human female ever in his entire life and no romance whatsoever in his entire life with a human female, so this means to join up here and not be banned you must never of had a girlfriend or wife nor even a fling or one night stand, as that too can be based in a type of fleeting romantic love or passion.

The community has also repeatedly voted that so called “escortcels” ie men who have paid sex with prostitutes whether on a regular basis, once in a while or whenever the mood strikes may also be considered incels and join the community since our userbase as a majority agrees that romantic pair bonding is what separates the normies and the Chads ie sex havers from we incels and not simply sex itself.

Once a person is able (if ever) to obtain a woman’s love and affection and voluntary sexual intercourse from her, that man has “ascended” meaning they have leveled up beyond incel status and now become a normie or a Chad.

Contrary to the public ie normies typical views on incels what we as a majority want is not sex first and foremost but rather to be chosen by a woman as her object of love and desire and only then be offered sex from her.

This is part of the reason why the community tolerates and even approves of “escortcels” ie men who have paid sex with prostitutes and it is because any man of legal age, financial means and physical ability can engage in this behavior but not every man out there can obtain something that is arguably more special and rewarding which is a woman’s love.

^ https://incels.is/threads/rules-and-faq.799/post-9180511

 

[Ahnfeltia]

nice username btw

 

[scihub]

nice username btw

lol thanks!

Probably a totally different question, but also curious about others thoughts on mastrubation if we can be totally honest.

Now that I’m getting older, I’m starting to see ways that I could get by without any kind of release. It just doesn’t really do that much for me anymore. It wouldn’t be nearly as fun, but based on these trends, I can see myself being fully uninterested by about 35 or so.

 

[SociallyStupid]

Curious how you guys define it. Are you incel if it’s been a certain amount of time without it? What if you had sex only one time but long dry spell since? How long is your cutoff? Curious to hear others thoughts.

I don't have a fixed cutoff. Probably there should be three "levels" of incels. The first level (low-grade incel) is someone who just cannot get sex for a significant amount of time (e.g. a few months), the second level (mid-grade incel) is someone who cannot ever get sex but where it's theoretically possible that he will get it someday, the third level (high-grade incel) is someone who cannot ever get sex and it's absolutely hopeless because they are disfigured/disabled/...

 

[Fat Link]

Been watching some red pill cotnent lately, and I found their definitions of incel laughable.

One of them said “1 in 3 guys are incels; no sex in the last year”. And I’m like wtf, that’s all it takes? A year? Surely these guys are joking. They probably have no concept that there are guys on here who have gone years or even decades without it.

Curious how you guys define it. Are you incel if it’s been a certain amount of time without it? What if you had sex only one time but long dry spell since? How long is your cutoff? Curious to hear others thoughts.

Our website version of incel means someone whose never had romantic love based sex where a woman voluntarily chooses you to fuck her without paying for it.

In our version of the term escortcels can still be incel because they had to pay for it which in our opinion is not true ascension.

 

[Ahnfeltia]

to answer the original question, I quite like the definition this forum uses

Probably a totally different question, but also curious about others thoughts on mastrubation if we can be totally honest.

Now that I’m getting older, I’m starting to see ways that I could get by without any kind of release. It just doesn’t really do that much for me anymore. It wouldn’t be nearly as fun, but based on these trends, I can see myself being fully uninterested by about 35 or so.

I've been masturbating less recently as well, but I can't quite see myself graduating completely.

 

[edgelordcel]

Why are you wasting your time watching redpill garbage in the first place, what did you expect...

 

[Kina Hikikomori]

You are still normal to argue with an incel, your examples of content show about you.

 

[scihub]

I don't have a fixed cutoff. Probably there should be three "levels" of incels. The first level (low-grade incel) is someone who just cannot get sex for a significant amount of time (e.g. a few months), the second level (mid-grade incel) is someone who cannot ever get sex but where it's theoretically possible that he will get it someday, the third level (high-grade incel) is someone who cannot ever get sex and it's absolutely hopeless because they are disfigured/disabled/...

This seems to sort of match my thinking. It’s seems obvious that there are levels to this, and it’s not like a “lower grade” incel isn’t experiencing the same phenomenon, just perhaps to a lesser degree.

I would say honestly for example, that someone who has maybe had sex before but has gone an extended amount of time without success (maybe 5 years plus) is still very much feeling rejected the same way lifelong incels might. Obviously not the same, but it’s not like someone who had sex one time ever and never again is really infinitely better off than someone who is lifelong celibate.

 

[SociallyStupid]

Obviously not the same, but it’s not like someone who had sex one time ever and never again is really infinitely better off than someone who is lifelong celibate.

I think it is. Having experienced something even once means that you can remember it. And I guess people remember their first time for all their life. I cannot even have sex in my dreams because I never had it IRL.

 

[Samurai]

Well, according to many retards on this site, if a woman smiles at you for 00000.1 mileseconds you're fakecel

 

[Truecelcel]

Never had sex (unpaid) and never dated. No rocket science here.

 

[Truecelcel]

Well, according to many retards on this site, if a woman smiles at you for 00000.1 mileseconds you're fakecel

Mogs me if they do that to you

 

[lowz1r]

truecel cutoff: KHHV, even after trying really hard

 

[VintageCarCoper]

I don't have a fixed cutoff. Probably there should be three "levels" of incels. The first level (low-grade incel) is someone who just cannot get sex for a significant amount of time (e.g. a few months), the second level (mid-grade incel) is someone who cannot ever get sex but where it's theoretically possible that he will get it someday, the third level (high-grade incel) is someone who cannot ever get sex and it's absolutely hopeless because they are disfigured/disabled/...

I agree with this

 

[InceldianWarrior]

it’s not like a “lower grade” incel isn’t experiencing the same phenomenon, just perhaps to a lesser degree.

It's not the same.
The powerlessness is a big part of being an incel imo. It's not about having to try hard, it's about it being impossible.

 

[Punished Watcher]

Never had a girlfriend.
Never had sex for free.
Simple as.

 

[BricABrac]

Okay but some dude who hasn't had sex in 1 year is probably the same dude who's never had it.

Though no incel, the "got laid once" guy isn't really in a better position than we are.

 

[Monke]

Never had sex (unpaid) and never dated. No rocket science here.

 

[LeDepravedCel]

Been watching some red pill cotnent lately, and I found their definitions of incel laughable.

One of them said “1 in 3 guys are incels; no sex in the last year”. And I’m like wtf, that’s all it takes? A year? Surely these guys are joking. They probably have no concept that there are guys on here who have gone years or even decades without it.

Curious how you guys define it. Are you incel if it’s been a certain amount of time without it? What if you had sex only one time but long dry spell since? How long is your cutoff? Curious to hear others thoughts.

When was the last time you had sex?

 

[Indari]

you just know

 

[Cock'nBalls]

ugly repulsive disgusting unwanted

 

[Nate Dogg]

No sex = incel

 

[incelmadara]

To me an incel is a virgin at the age over 20 unless there are good explanations like medication or being in a coma. Teenage years is the test. Either you are wanted by women or youre a * loser.

Even if he buys a fkn whore he is an incel.

If he had sex just once in his life completely sober and did not paid, force it or have it out of pity, then hes not an incel.

1 years is absolute bs. 10 years or no sex is also bs. Once you had sex, you can just lookmaxx into another one. Incels are doomed forever.

That is just my opinion as a 35 year old saint whos had enough of life, anyone can freely agree or disagree.