Discussion Can a man be an incel if he has had sex before but is unable to now?

[Alacros_vrail]

I have never had sex or been in a relationship with a woman myself so I’m a lifelong incel

I have talked with a few guys who describe their life as being an incel, but they’ve also told me that they’ve had a girlfriend once but after that, they’ve been incels since. I don’t know if these are really incels. One guy i talked to really did sound very anti social though

 

[Animecel2D]

Normies on dry spells are not incels, no

 

[Last2025cel]

I guess if they only did it once and in like middle school or high school then maybe I could accept them as incels.

 

[Sir Silentium]

Depends

 

[anon65]

If anybody's ever actually had a girlfriend they can go fuck themself off the forums for all I care

 

[UnluckyPrimate]

I mean technically George Sodini wasn’t a virgin and he’s kinda considered an incel, so maybe but I think it depends on the circumstances.

 

[Such_Is_Life-Pilled]

I've never even held hands with a girl....There are genuinely levels to this shit.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Those are "nearcels", I've known a lot of them. Personally, unlike most here, I would consider their situation to be very similar to that of the average incel depending on the circumstance. Like lets say you have a guy who's 30+ and he had 1 gf back when he was like 14, but nothing since despite trying. I wouldn't consider his situation to be much different from mine even though I'm KHV.

That said, such people shouldn't (and wouldn't) be allowed here for a lot of reasons (where exactly would the line be drawn?, would lead to way more humble bragging, would create more loopholes for rule skirting trolls, etc.)

 

[Oldcel_Narutofan]

I've never even held hands with a girl....There are genuinely levels to this shit.

Me too. Sometimes my hand would accidentally brush against a girl’s at school and they would leap back like bitten by a snake a

 

[electricSon90]

I mean technically George Sodini wasn’t a virgin and he’s kinda considered an incel, so maybe but I think it depends on the circumstances.

Heedandsucceed wasn't a virgin either, I think. I'll say this, if the one time someone did it was by paying for it because they weren't able to attract anyone, they're still an incel.

 

[GreerTech Creations]

I have never had sex or been in a relationship with a woman myself so I’m a lifelong incel

I have talked with a few guys who describe their life as being an incel, but they’ve also told me that they’ve had a girlfriend once but after that, they’ve been incels since. I don’t know if these are really incels. One guy i talked to really did sound very anti social though

They have the capability to. In my eyes, incel is a mentality. There are many leftist simp redditors that are lifelong virgins, but they are diametrically opposed to us

 

[GreerTech Creations]

Those are "nearcels", I've known a lot of them. Personally, unlike most here, I would consider their situation to be very similar to that of the average incel depending on the circumstance. Like lets say you have a guy who's 30+ and he had 1 gf back when he was like 14, but nothing since despite trying. I wouldn't consider his situation to be much different from mine even though I'm KHV.

That said, such people shouldn't (and wouldn't) be allowed here for a lot of reasons (where exactly would the line be drawn?, would lead to way more humble bragging, would create more loopholes for rule skirting trolls, etc.)

Fully agree

 

[Doomed4ever]

If any foid has ever found u attractive and going as far as giving u consent for having sex with them even if it's once in a life time, ur not an incel. Incels can only have sex either via rape or through escorts

 

[kekmaleaks]

If any foid has ever found u attractive and going as far as giving u consent for having sex with them even if it's once in a life time, ur not an incel. Incels can only have sex either via rape or through escorts

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Those are "nearcels", I've known a lot of them. Personally, unlike most here, I would consider their situation to be very similar to that of the average incel depending on the circumstance. Like lets say you have a guy who's 30+ and he had 1 gf back when he was like 14, but nothing since despite trying. I wouldn't consider his situation to be much different from mine even though I'm KHV.

That said, such people shouldn't (and wouldn't) be allowed here for a lot of reasons (where exactly would the line be drawn?, would lead to way more humble bragging, would create more loopholes for rule skirting trolls, etc.)

if he had teen sex as a teen HE WILL NEVER BE INCEL EVER.

But maybe going on unsatisfying platonic dates at some point in your life and then all inceldom from there may be acceptable

 

[UnluckyPrimate]

Heedandsucceed wasn't a virgin either, I think. I'll say this, if the one time someone did it was by paying for it because they weren't able to attract anyone, they're still an incel.

Did a girl like him or did he escortmaxx?

 

[Ghost]

I have never had sex or been in a relationship with a woman myself so I’m a lifelong incel

I have talked with a few guys who describe their life as being an incel, but they’ve also told me that they’ve had a girlfriend once but after that, they’ve been incels since. I don’t know if these are really incels. One guy i talked to really did sound very anti social though

Id say has to be at least 5 years of trying THEN you can be incel.

 

[cactusjuice]

if you’ve gotten a foid to spread her legs for you you’re not a incel

 

[electricSon90]

Did a girl like him or did he escortmaxx?

I'm not sure. I do recall him saying he had sex in a video, but I could be wrong. I'm going to have to rewatch his shit.

 

[POST MORTEM]

Unless he is suddenly crippled or disfigured no.

 

[DrPolcel]

I would accept them as an incel tbf

 

[WhitePilledRage]

I have never had sex or been in a relationship with a woman myself so I’m a lifelong incel

I have talked with a few guys who describe their life as being an incel, but they’ve also told me that they’ve had a girlfriend once but after that, they’ve been incels since. I don’t know if these are really incels. One guy i talked to really did sound very anti social though

Yes, if he used Escorts, but is now too poor to afford one.

 

[Moth]

I guess if they only did it once and in like middle school or high school then maybe I could accept them as incels.

 

[SociallyStupid]

I have talked with a few guys who describe their life as being an incel, but they’ve also told me that they’ve had a girlfriend once but after that, they’ve been incels since. I don’t know if these are really incels. One guy i talked to really did sound very anti social though

Depends on the timeframe and whether some events caused it. IMHO it's a grey area. If someone had a single girlfriend for a few months and sex once and since then no further opportunity for a decade I would consider him incel. Similarly, someone who had a bad car accident and is now disfigured and thus cannot find any one would also probably be considered incel for me after a few years. Still it is not the same as someone who never had a sexual romantic relationship. Not having a sexual relationship for a couple of months however definitely doesn't count as being incel.

For the purpose of this forum though they are not allowed as even having relationship sex once is a transformative experience

 

[John8272]

If any foid has ever found u attractive and going as far as giving u consent for having sex with them even if it's once in a life time, ur not an incel. Incels can only have sex either via rape or through escorts

I saw escorts rejecting incels

 

[chihiro]

the only thing i find acceptable is a kiss as a teenager if u have had sex ur a disgusting sexhaver fakecel

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

I have never had sex or been in a relationship with a woman myself so I’m a lifelong incel

I have talked with a few guys who describe their life as being an incel, but they’ve also told me that they’ve had a girlfriend once but after that, they’ve been incels since. I don’t know if these are really incels. One guy i talked to really did sound very anti social though

I would say that a man can lose his SMV (relatively early) and become an incel.
For example, through hair loss before he's 30, or an accident/illness that disfigures or disables him.

So he would at least be an incel in some sense.
Imagine you're not even 25 yet and fate demotes you to a sub 5.
From then on, you would basically be an incel for the rest of your life.

 

[AutismKing]

Those are "nearcels", I've known a lot of them. Personally, unlike most here, I would consider their situation to be very similar to that of the average incel depending on the circumstance. Like lets say you have a guy who's 30+ and he had 1 gf back when he was like 14, but nothing since despite trying. I wouldn't consider his situation to be much different from mine even though I'm KHV.

That said, such people shouldn't (and wouldn't) be allowed here for a lot of reasons (where exactly would the line be drawn?, would lead to way more humble bragging, would create more loopholes for rule skirting trolls, etc.)

 

[StayFrosty]

Its all about the timeframe imo

 

[keithbauhaus]

I have never had sex or been in a relationship with a woman myself so I’m a lifelong incel

I have talked with a few guys who describe their life as being an incel, but they’ve also told me that they’ve had a girlfriend once but after that, they’ve been incels since. I don’t know if these are really incels. One guy i talked to really did sound very anti social though

Absolutely not. If you have had sex, then you shouldn't be on this site. It's a slap in the face to truecels.

 

[Yorugacel]

In my eyes, incel is a mentality. There are many leftist simp redditors that are lifelong virgins, but they are diametrically opposed to us

Ehhh disagree, if you're involuntarily celibate then you meet the criteria to be an incel whether you want to accept it or not.

 

[DjentlemanDuke]

Absolutely not. If you have had sex, then you shouldn't be on this site. It's a slap in the face to truecels.

Don't like this kind of elitist argument to be honest

I would say that a man can lose his SMV (relatively early) and become an incel.
For example, through hair loss before he's 30, or an accident/illness that disfigures or disables him.

So he would at least be an incel in some sense.
Imagine you're not even 25 yet and fate demotes you to a sub 5.
From then on, you would basically be an incel for the rest of your life.

being able to have sex in the past but then bad things happened and you're on your own for more than 10 years doesn't make you a truecel but still valid enough to become an incel, unless none of that happened and you're just an MGTOW-ist LARPing for attention because you are a male narcissist who couldn't find a HTB foid
I would give it a pass

 

[MacheteRape]

Are we talking about “oh no I haven’t had sex in a month” vs a Saint Sodini type situation?

 

[keithbauhaus]

Don't like this kind of elitist argument to be honest

being able to have sex in the past but then bad things happened and you're on your own for more than 10 years doesn't make you a truecel but still valid enough to become an incel, unless none of that happened and you're just an MGTOW-ist LARPing for attention because you are a male narcissist who couldn't find a HTB foid
I would give it a pass

I don't think you're an incel if you have previously had sex. It's an oxymoron, honestly. Being blackpilled != being an incel

 

[DjentlemanDuke]

I don't think you're an incel if you have previously had sex. It's an oxymoron, honestly. Being blackpilled != being an incel

Fair, but as I said, the chances are slim. They might just be LARPing and my approval is conditional

 

[FiendNeet]

Where does Todd thindercock place?