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What was your parents’ reaction when they realized you were a loser?

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I’m 19 years old, and so far I’ve never brought a girl home. What hurts me the most is that my mother thinks I’m secretly seeing girls and that I just don’t want to introduce them to the family. She really wants to meet my “girlfriend.”

My whole family has started asking questions about my love life. My grandmother even jokingly asked me if I was gay.

I don’t know how long I can keep going like this. If I don’t find a girlfriend before I’m 25, it’s going to be really embarrassing. Like How i tell My mother im a trucell khhv subhuman who has never held a girl’s hand.
 
I guess they still have hope for you, I can't remember the last time anyone in my family, asked about girlfriends/ partners. I think its been obvious what I am since I was around 14, so they've never bothered.
 
I guess they still have hope for you, I can't remember the last time anyone in my family, asked about girlfriends/ partners. I think its been obvious what I am since I was around 14, so they've never bothered.
Damn
 
My parents never asked me this and i hope it stays that way
 
Nothing really
 
I can't remember the last time anyone in my family, asked about girlfriends/ partners. I think its been obvious what I am since I was around 14, so they've never bothered.
Same. :feelsbadman:
 
We just dont talk about my life milestones. I have nothing to tell.
 
I’m 19 years old, and so far I’ve never brought a girl home. What hurts me the most is that my mother thinks I’m secretly seeing girls and that I just don’t want to introduce them to the family. She really wants to meet my “girlfriend.”

My whole family has started asking questions about my love life. My grandmother even jokingly asked me if I was gay.

I don’t know how long I can keep going like this. If I don’t find a girlfriend before I’m 25, it’s going to be really embarrassing. Like How i tell My mother im a trucell khhv subhuman who has never held a girl’s hand.
Damn, I go through this too, bro :feelsbadman:
Honestly, I've already lost all hope, bro
 
My grandmother even jokingly asked me if I was gay.
Of course, like clockwork. By this logic you shouldn't be gay either because you don't have a bf.

Do you have plans to move out? Serious question, if they're a pain in the ass regarding this subject, they're gonna give you other problems as well.
 
Mine have FINALLY given up. jfl

My mother has given up a lot earlier. I mean, she is a foid and foids know whether their son has an actual chance or not.

My father kept pestering me until last year. He stopped it altogether and now hates me. jfl
 
I guess they still have hope for you, I can't remember the last time anyone in my family, asked about girlfriends/ partners. I think its been obvious what I am since I was around 14, so they've never bothered.
Same. Never in my life has my family ever talked about getting a gf. They know this guy can't. Lol.
 
I am dead to my father. He is an alcoholic and one day when drunk he just kept saying over and over that "my son is dead" while im the other room so yeah he gave up long ago. My mother still cares tho, she is optimistic and thinks I will turn it around through school and moneymaxxing basically one day, but I dont even have motivation for that shit
 
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My dad once made fun of me for not having friends:feelsree:.
 
My mother knows, and she doesn’t care.
 
Of course, like clockwork. By this logic you shouldn't be gay either because you don't have a bf.

Do you have plans to move out? Serious question, if they're a pain in the ass regarding this subject, they're gonna give you other problems as well.
My only Hope is ascend quickly but i need money for that ( Atleast 10000$) and im poor or i just find the ugliest girl who can accept me and lose my khhv statut
 
This shit is so relatable. My parents used to ask me if I was gay. When i was around 16-18 they would bug me for not having a gf though they haven't really mentioned it since then. Additionally mom would say shit like "When you're older women will be mature and won't care about your looks as much" :feelskek: :feelskek: (Just go be a betabuxx deluxe for a used up roastie who learned how to hide her true feeling about you teehee). I think ever since I dropped out of college they are slowly accepting it, though they do say shit like how I'm their biggest disappointment and whatnot.
 
He stopped it altogether and now hates me. jfl
cuz you're not gonna give him grandchildren probably
My mother knows, and she doesn’t care.
I wish my family would fund my sessions with escorts. It's legit better than therapy for me.
My only Hope is ascend quickly but i need money for that ( Atleast 10000$) and im poor or i just find the ugliest girl who can accept me and lose my khhv statut
Are you able to apply for college housing, or some kind of social service housing? Usually they give you a scholarship too if you get approved, of couse. This is how I escaped my dysfunctional parents back in the day. It didn't give me a GF, but I'm glad I did it, my life would've been ever worse today if I stayed with my parents...
"When you're older women will be mature and won't care about your looks as much"
They're also more likely to be single mothers by then, because Chad left them in the dust for a younger more attractive foid. They are not really more mature, psychologically-wise.
 
I don't know as i avoid any sort of conversation involving it
 
I guess they still have hope for you, I can't remember the last time anyone in my family, asked about girlfriends/ partners. I think its been obvious what I am since I was around 14, so they've never bothered.

My parents never asked me this and i hope it stays that way
 
Mine never asked, obvious since infancy.
 
Never said anything about it until late teens, then they started calling me a loser( made sure I could hear them even though they don’t even typically speak English at home). JFL “family” is the most brutal
 
I just don’t answer to make it seem like it’s too personal to talk about
 
My mother is kind of dumb, i suspect she has aspergers or something, she probably thinks it's normal for a 19 year old to never have been in a relationship, she never asks or even talks about it.

My father probably understands that i'm a failure but doesn't care.
 
It was kinda-sorta the reverse for me: my parents were always (and still are to an extent) very ignorant and had no concept of ASD/neurodivergence; they just treated me like a moron, pretty much gave up on me by the time I reached middle school, and thought hitting was the way to correct everything - even minor things, like knocking over a plastic cup. Kids that grew up in the 3rd world shithole they were born in are VERY low inhibited and lively, often living like adults (including fucking) by age 12 or so, and they'd frequently say "Look at the kids in the Shithole - why can't you be more like them?"

Now I'm in STEM. They still can't understand what I do despite me breaking it down to them in kindergarten terms countless of times, and bring up my profession to their stupid church friends and equally ignorant extended relatives

yet I'm still a loser who'll die alone
 
I’m 19 years old, and so far I’ve never brought a girl home. What hurts me the most is that my mother thinks I’m secretly seeing girls and that I just don’t want to introduce them to the family. She really wants to meet my “girlfriend.”

My whole family has started asking questions about my love life. My grandmother even jokingly asked me if I was gay.

I don’t know how long I can keep going like this. If I don’t find a girlfriend before I’m 25, it’s going to be really embarrassing. Like How i tell My mother im a trucell khhv subhuman who has never held a girl’s hand.
They stopped asking me sometime after I turned 16 If i remember correctly, afterwards its just someone from my family asking me if im talking to a girl and I say no, Because i would be typing for something else or talking to c.ai bots
 

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