Venting What makes talking to females irl so difficult?

[JACKQUACKY]

When online I have no problem potentially messaging or sometimes if I have to talking with a female but irl whenever I hear a word come out a females mouth I freeze up as if they spat a curse on me. I’m not sure if this because I’m just low confidence or if I’m just a cuck.

 

[FBI]

Have you ever had a girlfriend?

 

[Pancakecel]

Do you talk to females a lot

 

[JACKQUACKY]

Do you talk to females a lot

No but online there’s a one off occasion during a online game but irl it could just be at work and I end up just ignoring them

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

end up just ignoring them

I can't ignore them when never got their attention

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

If you're young you might have social anxiety with them or something like that. Until just a few years ago it was really difficult for me to talk with people, not just women, because I was extremely shy. Now I don't have such problems, and the only reason that it's difficult to talk to women is that they make it difficult, because they don't want to talk to me, because I'm not attractive.
Funny, I blamed my low inhib so much for my inceldom and other social failures, but now that I'm overcoming it, nothing has changed.

 

[ParasiteToSociety]

but irl whenever I hear a word come out a females mouth I freeze up as if they spat a curse on me.

Because ugly. Chad doesn’t have this problem because his too busy emptying his balls into your crush.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

Self-preservation

 

[Solid State]

Because there is also the chance that you will be socially-destroyed by doing so, as at any moment she can decide you are "creepy" and get you fired/arrested/mobbed by white knights for a sexual harassment allegation, no matter how baseless.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

Like others have already said, you likely feel like you have to preform or put on some kind of act in order to avoid consequences. You don't want to have to be subject to even more mockery and humiliation then you already have to go through, so you're trying to subconsciously determine what the best way of navigating the situation is.

It's something that just goes away the longer you're black-pilled—because you know that it doesn't matter either way. You will always be perceived as a 'loser' and 'creep' no matter what, so you just do whatever you have to do and move on with your accursed day. If it makes you feel better, it's actually fairly amusing glaring down introverted foids and forcing them to avert their gaze when you're talking to them, so you have that to look forward to. They get so easily intimidated, lmao!

 

[FBI]

In primary school( pre pubescent) but since I just turned 18 I haven’t had one since then

MODSSSSSSSSSS!

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

In primary school( pre pubescent) but since I just turned 18 I haven’t had one since then

HOLY MOGGER

 

[Grodd]

Foids are boring and obnoxious

 

[FBI]

MODSSSSSSSSSS!

@proudweeb

 

[EcstasyCel]

What makes it difficult is the mutual hatred between us. It goes soul deep.

 

[AutismHaver]

If you're young you might have social anxiety with them or something like that. Until just a few years ago it was really difficult for me to talk with people, not just women, because I was extremely shy. Now I don't have such problems, and the only reason that it's difficult to talk to women is that they make it difficult, because they don't want to talk to me, because I'm not attractive.
Funny, I blamed my low inhib so much for my inceldom and other social failures, but now that I'm overcoming it, nothing has changed.

its like we're expected to treat them as our equals even tho they dont do SHIT, why would i put myself out there just to get insulted? indirectly or not?

 

[bluetonguedskink]

In primary school( pre pubescent) but since I just turned 18 I haven’t had one since then

ban this fakecel

 

[TooSomething]

Brainwashing aka the blue pill. Once I took the black pill and fully digested it I lost all the blue pilled fear of foids.

I now view them as absolutely inferior beings only good for breeding purposes, so it is easy to talk to them nowadays.

I have no problem holding eye contact when I talk to foids, for example when I want to buy something specific and have questions.

I always have this piercing look that I give them, as if I was looking into their puny souls and they notice this too, which I in turn notice.

Nowadays I have a very firm and confident appearance in front of foids because I know how worthless they are.

My parents sometimes say that I am quite harsh around them and too straight but this is the only language foids understand.

I don't even have to force myself to do it. It comes naturally nowadays.
Once you stop viewing them as higher or equals and maybe even as humans with a soul, you will win.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

yeah you're bluepilled, greycuck

 

[AdolfRizzler]

MODSSSSSSSSSS!

In primary school( pre pubescent) but since I just turned 18 I haven’t had one since then

 

[Bulbasaur]

In primary school( pre pubescent) but since I just turned 18 I haven’t had one since then

brutal mogger gigachad

 

[UglyDumbass]

When online I have no problem potentially messaging or sometimes if I have to talking with a female but irl whenever I hear a word come out a females mouth I freeze up as if they spat a curse on me. I’m not sure if this because I’m just low confidence or if I’m just a cuck.

It’s because we aren’t used to talking to girls that are topics unrelated to our interest.

 

[Animecel2D]

THEY DONT WANT TO TALK TO ME

 

[soft]

They are good at manipulation and we are easy targets.

 

[rcnfive]

because subconsciously you know they have all the control and the pussy and you are a single bad word or expression away from instant disgust (assuming your face doesnt do that)

 

[darkie]

Brainwashing aka the blue pill. Once I took the black pill and fully digested it I lost all the blue pilled fear of foids.

I now view them as absolutely inferior beings only good for breeding purposes, so it is easy to talk to them nowadays.

I have no problem holding eye contact when I talk to foids, for example when I want to buy something specific and have questions.

I always have this piercing look that I give them, as if I was looking into their puny souls and they notice this too, which I in turn notice.

Nowadays I have a very firm and confident appearance in front of foids because I know how worthless they are.

My parents sometimes say that I am quite harsh around them and too straight but this is the only language foids understand.

I don't even have to force myself to do it. It comes naturally nowadays.
Once you stop viewing them as higher or equals and maybe even as humans with a soul, you will win.

Maybe true for most but I wouldnt say for all I think ND are just innately terrified of women like I am and want to avoid them at all costs because they treat you horribly socially and talk to you like a dog since birth

 

[SlayerSlayer]

BECAUSE YOU KNOW ITS POINTLESS YOU FUCKING RETARD

 

[superpsycho]

In primary school( pre pubescent) but since I just turned 18 I haven’t had one since then

goodbye

 

[The Judge]

In primary school( pre pubescent) but since I just turned 18 I haven’t had one since then

Mods, remove this grAY from my sight at once. His continued existence is an offense to me.

 

[triplevanillalate]

They are pretty

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

When online I have no problem potentially messaging or sometimes if I have to talking with a female but irl whenever I hear a word come out a females mouth I freeze up as if they spat a curse on me. I’m not sure if this because I’m just low confidence or if I’m just a cuck.

They're boring.
And they won't talk to you if you're ugly.