I would say scat, but since you listed findom I am picking that.
As degenerate and disgusting scat is, at least you are physically there with the foid.
Findom is literally just giving them tens of thousands for them to ignore you. Tbh i don't even think you should have listed findom as it doesn't even include any sexual contact.
It's literally getting off on being a living wallet for a foid for NOTHING in return, and usually they actual mock the guy.
this is an example
View: https://twitter.com/GoddessTKelly/status/969982577032523776/mediaViewer?currentTweet=969982577032523776¤tTweetUser=GoddessTKelly