Tell me your hypothetical solutions for inceldom. What will make this massive problem go away for the most part. Only tell me a solution if it is beneficial to everyone and realistic.
No answers like "force women to be sex slaves which are bought and sold between men" because that wouldn't be beneficial to everyone. I want to know a solution where nobody suffers and everyone is left happy. Answers that would harm women (while funny) are not overall beneficial to society.
Also make it a realistic solution. No answers like "only attractive people can breed" cause this will never happen in human history. What is a solution that can be realistically done to solve the issue of inceldom
Surely with all the suffering our kind has done, we'd have thought about a cure for people like us that is actually feasible. I personally can't come up with much other than things like a broader culture of acceptance and kindness. I think if people were just nicer and more empathetic in general, women would be at least a little more open to dating non-chads.
If we accept that inceldom arises from multiple factors, then we can suss out a few ways to go about it.
1. Hypergamy (the natural preference of women to date across and up social hierarchies)
2. Decreasing Margin of Error ( the social costs of rejection are now higher with the advent of social media, so men approach more selectively than previous generations)
3. Social Media Transparency (It is easier for all sexes to ascertain the value of their partner based on previous behavior)
4. Feminism (increases the acceptance of women pursuing non-traditional paths or timelines/life strategies)
5. Inflation of expectations (women demand more due to combination of hookup culture and social media)
If you accept this non-exhaustive list as a few contributing factors, then we just need to find ways to either discourage or combat these behaviors.
Combating Hypergamy:
Unfortunately, this preference provides evolutionary advantage so it is unlikely to go away. However, it can be discouraged on a societal level if we find way to actively punish females for not being in a committed relationship by a certain age. See china's "leftover women" phenomenon. By actively labeling and publicly mocking women who are incapable of locking down a man by a certain age, we encourage them to naturally lower their standards over time, lest they face ostracization and complete mockery. Men or women could theoretically lead this effort, but male efforts will be less effective while feminism exists. This could also be enforced at the parental level by either gender "If my daughter isn't married by 25, she's dead to me".
Margin of Error:
Women now brazenly mock men online who approach them badly, or those who have a fine approach to which they are not receptive for any number of reasons. They also tend to share these experiences with others in their social circle, which tends to "poison the well" for approaches of other girls in that friend circle, because no one wants to be a "runner up, 2nd/3rd/4th, etc" choice. The best way will be for women to be rewarded for publicly "outing" their friends who engage in this behavior, with public praise and or relationship with a man as the prize for doing so.
Social Media Transparency:
The best way to deal with inflated expectations is to not have social media. This can be used to automatically grant you points as being "too busy to engage in low value nonsense", an air of mystery, and inflates expectations that you may be much more than you are, hence the need to keep a low profile. Even if untrue, women will overestimate because they have lost practice valuing men without social media.
Feminism:
Women now feel a great sense of power, in that feminism has liberated them to make any choice they want.
Unfortunately, few use this power responsibly, and fuck up the entirety of society as a result. So we are left with either 2 routes forward:
1. Kill feminism, tell them they are not capable of handling the responsibility of self-managing, and go back to traditionalism
2. Non-chalantly say "you get what you deserve" for poor decision making, and come together as men to ensure that no lifeboats are offered.
This means sloppy seconds, divorced, single mother, obese, hostile attitude, etc is no longer accepted by any man, even the lowest value ones. We know if we aren't at the top of the mating pool, but the problem is that guys in the middle will accept low value women because of their pickiness, leaving nothing for the men at the bottom. Instead, we need to make it clear to women that they will be almost certainly be doomed to a miserable life if they do not enter into a relationship with a man. And, we need to set and rigorously enforce a standard for women to have a chance at doing so. Essentially, all men need to band together and give them a taste of their own medicine.
Start saying out loud, with reckless abandon, what you want and mercilessly mock any female that doesn't meet that standard.
Inflation of expectations:
The best way to deal with this is to give them less. We need to essentially make it perfectly acceptable to tell women that we won't hire them
at the same wage as men, because they truthfully don't get as much done. The wage gap must be dramatically increased, such that the only
acceptable ways for women to even have a glimpse of the glamourous lifestyle they crave is through their relationship to a man with income to spare.
TL;DR
1. Kill Feminism
2. Public Shaming
3. Increase wages for men preferentially
4. No lifeboats. Meet the standard or die in poverty.
