Blackpill I really hate the sweeping Redditoid-advice of...

[Nordicel94]

..."If you want to be more social, join a book club, a volunteering circle, a church group".

The thing is, if you're not social enough to have made friends the natural way throughout life, how is rocking up to that kind of group the solution? Like if you've struggled in High School and University where you see the same people everyday and do projects together, why would you have the confidence to make connections with people you meet once a week? The problems isn't your lack of exposure to people but your social ineptitude. Extroverted people think this is good advice, because to them, it's just turning up at a place, having some good chats and maybe walking out with a friend.

The same goes for this advice when applied to meeting girls. What makes these people think that joining a book club is some magic solution to everything, that the women there will be attracted to you even though they're not attracted to you anywhere else?

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

Like if you've struggled in High School and University where you see the same people everyday and do projects together

Dude.... you haven't been to uni or high school in a while. Though to be fair I've had a couple of good friends in high school, but in Uni you are basically alone. Nobody hangs out with you because they are busy learning or fucking.
Joining a social club is good advise tbh. Even if you are asocial like me people will actively try to interact with you.

 

[NEB.feelsdevil]

..."If you want to be more social, join a book club, a volunteering circle, a church group".

This is the perfect gaslighting lie to keep the bluepill illusion, but it quickly falls apart if you think about it.

Realistically, this is what would happen:

Half of the women in that hobby group would already have boyfriends. If a woman wants a boyfriend, she will get one who is HTN/Chadlite/Chad.

The other half of women who are single would simply not be interested in you because they want HTN/Chadlite/Chad.

What bluepill retards don't understand is that it is not actually a matter of ''meeting'' women. It is a matter of not being attractive to women. If you're ugly, women everywhere will not be attracted to you. It doesn't matter if it at the bar, on the street, in a book club.

If you're ugly, you will be ugly everywhere.