what even is the why to start watching porn in the first place

[160cmbloop]

it's rarely "high libido" or "biology”

it's one's lack of success with women, repeated rejection, no validation, no feedback loop telling you you're desirable

porn becomes the substitute

you get the dopamine hit without having to confront the fact that, in real life, you're either invisible, unattractive, people repulsed of being around you

there’s nothing you can do to fix the root problem of it so you numb it

 

[Jaxxel]

Fuck normies imma beat my shit

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Fuck normies imma beat my shit

This tbh. Only sexhavers advocate nofap since they get sex anyway.

 

[Grodd]

Only sexhavers advocate nofap since they get sex anyway.

And copers

 

[SlayerSlayer]

back in my day, you had to be 18 years old and be brave enough to go to an adult video store or gas station and be visibly seen buying porn. So obtaining porn, especially for me, became a thing like Ariel and her junk in the sea, where I JUST WANT MORE to hoard it, because it felt like this precious commodity. I remember just straight up stealing mags from friends houses, or asking if I can borrow and xerox it. I became a gooner at like 10 years old, so I had a strong need for porn even before I even attempted (AND FAILED) to ask girls out.

I would say that even now it's the most satisfying way to pass time. And it will always be that way, because I'm simply not wired to enjoy having "experiences" with people and derive satisfaction from that. Or at least, I never have, and simply am not wired to trust others.

 

[Grodd]

Sexual release pretty much

 

[Altunyiskon]

It's a physiological need, that's the point.

 

[Katzu998]

Trying to quit porn is like trying to quit chocolate when you live in candyland, it's everywhere. Chads usually look at porn too. I think the statistic is that more than 90% of men look at porn. Only extremely devout religious men avoid it because they're afraid of hell.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Lots of people in relationships watch porn.

Men need to coom.

 

[andrej]

It gives you a slight dopamine boost and a stress relief. The way I started perceiving foids, I barely get a dopamine boost and the comedown isn't even that dissapointing. I will literally sometimes watch porn just because I have nothing better to do

 

[yeetbender_]

Trying to quit porn is like trying to quit chocolate when you live in candyland, it's everywhere. Chads usually look at porn too. I think the statistic is that more than 90% of men look at porn. Only extremely devout religious men avoid it because they're afraid of hell.

 

[Yunoo]

I quit porn and I do nofap

 

[anotherwastedlife]

Pretty much. But I only fap to sole female or 2d (mostly 2d)

 

[hunter x atomics]

i stopped cooming cause it took too much of my time. i got addicted bad. but realistically counting i dont really got women available to me ill probably go back to it when my scheduele frees up.