Discussion What do you think about pre-selection?

[RetardedChinlet]

I've often heard that being in a relationship completely changes the way women treat a man and give a huge boost to his attractiveness. I can personally attest to the fact that men in relationships tend to be calmer and more pleasant. An incel would be the exact opposite with his depressed neuroticism caused by rejection. Pre-selection would somewhat negate the lookspill and give more significance to personality, which getting pre-selected affects.

 

[FuRed]

It's legit

 

[RetardedChinlet]

It's legit

It would mean that every man should do absolutely fucking everything to ascend in teens since it will never be as easy later in life and since it would help with women later on.

 

[Mainländer]

It seems to have some truth to it but again, the guys who fuck lots of women are all either good-looking or famous or violent criminals so that could be just factoring the wrong cause for the attraction of the women towards them.

 

[bigantennaemay1]

I can personally attest to the fact that men in relationships tend to be calmer and more pleasant.

 

[RetardedChinlet]

 

[FuRed]

It would mean that every man should do absolutely fucking everything to ascend in teens since it will never be as easy later in life and since it would help with women later on.

For real, just be first is the most legit theory

winners keep on winning and losers lose till death

 

[bigantennaemay1]

Pre-selection would somewhat negate the lookspill and give more significance to personality,

If criminals and cheaters and all sorts of other degenerate scum that walk the earth have no trouble holding down a relationship, why should I if and when I ever do manage to climb my way into one? My only issue seperate from the rest of them is that I can't get a relationship in the first fucking place. But I don't see how my personality could possibly be any worse than any of theirs. Or worse than the foids themselves.

 

[RetardedChinlet]

It seems to have some truth to it but again, the guys who fuck lots of women are all either good-looking or famous or violent criminals so that could be just factoring the wrong cause for the attraction of the women towards them.

Yep, but many normie men seem to echo the sentiment that getting that one relationship opens up countless new sexual opportunities

For real, just be first is the most legit theory

winners keep on winning and losers lose till death

This means upbringing is a huge, huge factor in making incels.

Bluepilled parents who don't encourage looksmaxxing or chasing women -> rot teens alone and become an incel for life

 

[Mainländer]

Yep, but many normie men seem to echo the sentiment that getting that one relationship opens up countless new sexual opportunities

Maybe it taps onto the competitiveness of foids? Like, they're not even that attracted but just want to show that they're able to steal some other foid's man?

Foids tend to be evil and selfish and enjoy such silly power games so that's 100% something a foid would enjoy doing.

 

[RetardedChinlet]

If criminals and cheaters and all sorts of other degenerate scum that walk the earth have no trouble holding down a relationship, why should I if and when I ever do manage to climb my way into one? My only issue seperate from the rest of them is that I can't get a relationship in the first fucking place. But I don't see how my personality could possibly be any worse than any of theirs. Or worse than the foids themselves.

I didn't mean "personality" that way. I was talking of pre-selection's effect on your general being, confidence and calmness, which women seem to be able to pick up on. This part of personality seems to change drastically when a man is first approved by a woman.

Maybe it taps onto the competitiveness of foids? Like, they're not even that attracted but just want to show that they're able to steal some other foid's man?

Foids tend to be evil and selfish and enjoy such silly power games so that's 100% something a foid would enjoy doing.

Yep, it probably does. Women don't do the genetic analysis in vacuum. They also look at what other foids think and mimic it.

 

[Sennacherib]

I can personally attest to the fact that men in relationships tend to be calmer and more pleasant.

normies.is

 

[RetardedChinlet]

normies.is

They weren't on this forum, silly

 

[Loner94]

Interesting

 

[Deleted member 34301]

If you are in a relationship girls will suddenly become interested in you, but only to steal you away from your girlfriend. If you are single again they will ignore you again. That's how preselection works

 

[bigantennaemay1]

I didn't mean "personality" that way. I was talking of pre-selection's effect on your general being, confidence and calmness, which women seem to be able to pick up on. This part of personality seems to change drastically when a man is first approved by a woman.

So in other words, it's still not up to me, and not something that I'm really responsible for, since I'm not the one who has been universally rejected. They've predetermined that I'm no good because of my looks and my autism, and then they are the ones who set this effect on my general well-being into place themselves by strongly reinforcing the idea that I'm unwanted.

 

[Loner94]

It's pretty fucked up, the game is rigged.

 

[RandomGuy]

If you are in a relationship girls will suddenly become interested in you, but only to steal you away from your girlfriend. If you are single again they will ignore you again. That's how preselection works

Yes, that is a strange phenomenon. Projection is another one.

Projection is the process of displacing one's feelings onto a different person, animal. The term is most commonly used to describe defensive projection—attributing one's own unacceptable urges to another.

Psychology Today
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[mentally lost cel 1]

It seems to have some truth to it but again, the guys who fuck lots of women are all either good-looking or famous or violent criminals so that could be just factoring the wrong cause for the attraction of the women towards them.

 

[Deleted member 34301]

Yes, that is a strange phenomenon. Projection is another one.

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Projection is the process of displacing one's feelings onto a different person, animal. The term is most commonly used to describe defensive projection—attributing one's own unacceptable urges to another.

Psychology Today
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Well you shouldn't quote Psychology Today I think. But yes projection is very interesting. Also interesting is introjection, when you are able to become what another person projects on you. And ofcourse transference, becoming aware of a feeling that another person is unaware of but transferred to you

 

[Cope or die]

Yep, it probably does. Women don't do the genetic analysis in vacuum. They also look at what other foids think and mimic it.

Foids do this with everything. Anything thats mainstream or popular foids will follow. They do this with politics, fashion, celebrities, nerd and geek culture, men.

 

[Deleted member 31092]

It's legit

 

[mNFwTJ3wz9]

It's legit

 

[Schizoidcel]

winners keep on winning

 

[mentalcel]

This should be tested. I wonder if any one on the forum made a test. It requires some money to hire escorts, rent a suit and a car or just put regular photos to and Instagram profile and pump fake followers and test with it instead.

 

[Emba]

I'm pre approved!

All my mail says so!

I'm so lucky!!!!