What do you do to self improve?

[INVERTER]

I genuinely do not know how to self improve.

I've consistently been going to the gym for years. I look OK I guess but nothing special. My cardio is pretty good since I've started jogging again. I hired a personal trainer years ago.

Career wise I'm doing fine. I have a bachelor's and have a respectable trade doing real work. Don't see a problem here.

I've been playing guitar for years and while I'm not that good, I do consistently put time in. I started playing keyboards on the side. I'm very high inhib so I start shaking and messing up if I play in front of others so I never started a band. I find it very hard to be creative so I never wrote a song to completion

I've taken classes over the years to learn new things like home electrical, welding, etc. I can't say I've ever used it productively though.

I've hired professional photographers to photograph me for dating apps - didn't work out lol.

I've been to three theRAPISTS. Signed up for a new one recently. He seems straightforward so that might help me out. I usually bore the therapists to tears though.

I took a bootcamp on PUA where we had to go out to bars and approach people and it didn't work out.

I did a speed dating event and it did not work out.

I've been a member of many groups including adult recreational sports or volunteer orgs.

I'm thinking about doing IMPROV next because one of my problems is social phobia and I am extremely boring. Thinking about signing up for stitchfix or something but it seems like a waste of time.

Anyways after all this: girlfriend = 0 and friends = 0. I'm just a straight up loser and no amount of "self improvement" (whatever that means) can possibly do anything for me

 

[ihatelife2]

You've done a lot more than I could have thought of, it isn't your fault. The problem is you're not chad.

 

[INVERTER]

You've done a lot more than I could have thought of, it isn't your fault. The problem is you're not chad.

I mean a lot of it I've done just to pass the time or for enjoyment. I'm not really going there and hunting people. The advice I got in the past was just to be present anyway but that advice only applies to NT normans who live on tutorial mode

 

[ihatelife2]

I mean a lot of it I've done just to pass the time or for enjoyment. I'm not really going there and hunting people. The advice I got in the past was just to be present anyway but that advice only applies to NT normans who live on tutorial mode

Good for you for doing all that, you seem highly motivated and interested in and open to new things

 

[Yunoo]

Yes, do improv. You’re already doing a lot but that may be the best thing for you socially

 

[razielkillerofgods]

No improvement for my face and height

 

[The Death Devil]

You've done pretty much everything you can do. The fact that you have a career with a degree is already good enough, everything else was admirable but wasn't going to lead you anywhere. Just pursue whatever hobbies you want, I suppose.

 

[Bats]

No improvement for my face and height

 

[Freixel]

You've done a lot more than I could have thought of, it isn't your fault. The problem is you're not chad.

 

[Arentheal]

I’m getting leg lengthening as we speak. Started at 5’3 and will end at 5’6 for the first surgery

 

[INVERTER]

I’m getting leg lengthening as we speak. Started at 5’3 and will end at 5’6 for the first surgery

Goddamn isn't that expensive?

 

[Lonly ghost]

I try to exercise regularly.

 

[IWWorkER]

have a respectable trade

Which one ? (I'm in trades too, carpentry)

 

[INVERTER]

Which one ? (I'm in trades too, carpentry)

Nice man. I work for data centers. Not an electrician but similar vein

 

[IWWorkER]

Nice man. I work for data centers. Not an electrician but similar vein

I see. You better pray there is no AI bubble collapse though

 

[Coyote Cooch]

No improvement for my face

 

[Coyote Cooch]

I look OK I guess but nothing special.

fakecel

 

[INVERTER]

fakecel

That's my own description. Probably isn't accurate

 

[sync]

I genuinely do not know how to self improve.

I've consistently been going to the gym for years. I look OK I guess but nothing special. My cardio is pretty good since I've started jogging again. I hired a personal trainer years ago.

Career wise I'm doing fine. I have a bachelor's and have a respectable trade doing real work. Don't see a problem here.

I've been playing guitar for years and while I'm not that good, I do consistently put time in. I started playing keyboards on the side. I'm very high inhib so I start shaking and messing up if I play in front of others so I never started a band. I find it very hard to be creative so I never wrote a song to completion

I've taken classes over the years to learn new things like home electrical, welding, etc. I can't say I've ever used it productively though.

I've hired professional photographers to photograph me for dating apps - didn't work out lol.

I've been to three theRAPISTS. Signed up for a new one recently. He seems straightforward so that might help me out. I usually bore the therapists to tears though.

I took a bootcamp on PUA where we had to go out to bars and approach people and it didn't work out.

I did a speed dating event and it did not work out.

I've been a member of many groups including adult recreational sports or volunteer orgs.

I'm thinking about doing IMPROV next because one of my problems is social phobia and I am extremely boring. Thinking about signing up for stitchfix or something but it seems like a waste of time.

Anyways after all this: girlfriend = 0 and friends = 0. I'm just a straight up loser and no amount of "self improvement" (whatever that means) can possibly do anything for me

how tall are you? if your above 5'6 than theres still hope. just hop on aqualyx + reta if ur overweight and wear 4 inches of height boosters to maybe become 6ft. idrk how you look like but litereally peptides and surgeries can save anybody.

If you wake up everyday and say ¨¨im a loser¨¨ than you will automatically be a loser, you gotta wake up with the confident everyday and be like ¨¨yeah im the inverter¨¨ you know i wake up everyday and say
¨¨yea im sync¨¨

 

[saintfoiddestroyer]

how tall are you? if your above 5'6 than theres still hope. just hop on aqualyx + reta if ur overweight and wear 4 inches of height boosters to maybe become 6ft. idrk how you look like but litereally peptides and surgeries can save anybody.

If you wake up everyday and say ¨¨im a loser¨¨ than you will automatically be a loser, you gotta wake up with the confident everyday and be like ¨¨yeah im the inverter¨¨ you know i wake up everyday and say
¨¨yea im sync¨¨

i can just tell your from fag.org

 

[Arentheal]

Yea doing it in east Asia tho. I’m a ricecel and can speak the language so ye. It’s painful af and it’s just a constant battle tbh. I’m in the lengthening phase and I need painkillers just to sleep

Goddamn isn't that expensive?

 

[taoistcel]

nothing basically

 

[Lunaticcurrycel]

I genuinely do not know how to self improve.

I've consistently been going to the gym for years. I look OK I guess but nothing special. My cardio is pretty good since I've started jogging again. I hired a personal trainer years ago.

Career wise I'm doing fine. I have a bachelor's and have a respectable trade doing real work. Don't see a problem here.

I've been playing guitar for years and while I'm not that good, I do consistently put time in. I started playing keyboards on the side. I'm very high inhib so I start shaking and messing up if I play in front of others so I never started a band. I find it very hard to be creative so I never wrote a song to completion

I've taken classes over the years to learn new things like home electrical, welding, etc. I can't say I've ever used it productively though.

I've hired professional photographers to photograph me for dating apps - didn't work out lol.

I've been to three theRAPISTS. Signed up for a new one recently. He seems straightforward so that might help me out. I usually bore the therapists to tears though.

I took a bootcamp on PUA where we had to go out to bars and approach people and it didn't work out.

I did a speed dating event and it did not work out.

I've been a member of many groups including adult recreational sports or volunteer orgs.

I'm thinking about doing IMPROV next because one of my problems is social phobia and I am extremely boring. Thinking about signing up for stitchfix or something but it seems like a waste of time.

Anyways after all this: girlfriend = 0 and friends = 0. I'm just a straight up loser and no amount of "self improvement" (whatever that means) can possibly do anything for me

Self improovement is bluepill cope.

 

[UnluckyPrimate]

Self improve only for yourself, self improvement to get women is a form of gynocentrism.