What did you do to try and get women?

[Deleted member 7448]

Cold approaches? Joining different interest groups? Going to the club? One of those dating apps?

Obviously, none of these are going to get any of us laid, but I wonder what did you actually do?

I'm an autistic paranoid depressed bipolar avoidant bald and fat fuck so I never actually tried. There's no point, you know? Also, I get extreme anxiety merely by being outside the house.

 

[Salustio]

I'm LDARing all day, that's what I'm doing.

 

[Getlooksordie]

- hundreds of cold approaches in bars/clubs
- 100+ daytime approaches
- Online dating for years (never had a date)
- tried building up a social circle through hobbies to get a gf
- gymcelled for years during my early 20s and had an impressive body, yet it made zero difference in terms of attracting women.
- tried becoming a pro athlete to impress women
- tried a dating agency to get a woman from abroad
- I´m currently in the process of getting 30k worth of surgery on my face

 

[BRCel123]

I just LDAR

 

[Guest2]

- hundreds of cold approaches in bars/clubs
- 100+ daytime approaches
- Online dating for years (never had a date)
- tried building up a social circle through hobbies to get a gf
- gymcelled for years during my early 20s and had an impressive body, yet it made zero difference in terms of attracting women.
- tried becoming a pro athlete to impress women
- tried a dating agency to get a woman from abroad
- I´m currently in the process of getting 30k worth of surgery on my face

High effort but maybe you didn't get a haircut? Meanwhile Chad just exists with a scruffy head, waits for females to start crawling to him, abuses them and they thank him.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

- hundreds of cold approaches in bars/clubs
- 100+ daytime approaches
- Online dating for years (never had a date)
- tried building up a social circle through hobbies to get a gf
- gymcelled for years during my early 20s and had an impressive body, yet it made zero difference in terms of attracting women.
- tried becoming a pro athlete to impress women
- tried a dating agency to get a woman from abroad
- I´m currently in the process of getting 30k worth of surgery on my face

Jesus. That's a lot of work. This is very depressing.

 

[Insomniac]

I stopped trying a few years ago but I did pretty much everything I could tbh.

Tried lowinhibmaxxing and working on my social skills but it didn’t go very well.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I stopped trying a few years ago but I did pretty much everything I could tbh.

Tried lowinhibmaxxing and working on my social skills but it didn’t go very well.

As an autist you actually went outside your comfort zone? That must've been really hard. I'm autistic too and I get anxiety just thinking about trying some of these things you guys talk about.

 

[Bakura806]

nothing knew I was ugly from the start, back in middle school my few friends would always tell me how foids found me extremely hideous even though I didnt talk to them or like them at all and in high school it just got worse.

 

[jet112]

i sent a love letter to some girl 10 years ago and she rejected me
im beta as fuck, idk if i have the patience to cold approach at this point.

 

[Deleted member 5653]

I tried to talk with foids during high school and at the start of Uni girls and failed every single time, and by fail I mean really failed like messing up word order in sentences and generally sperging out. Now I haven't talked with a foid besides cashiers and family members for like a half a year.

inb4 >mentalcel
No! a mentalcel wouldn't even try to talk, I did and failed miserably.

 

[Cuyen]

I asked out to 6 foids and all of them were around my social circle.

-I tried looksmax a bit,get clothes,haircut etc. but of course I failed

I asked same foid TWICE and got rejected.

There was a foid in my course class,we were in whatsapp group so I added her number,and texted her she replied with "brother" and I didnt text anymore,she blocked me.

 

[Insomniac]

As an autist you actually went outside your comfort zone? That must've been really hard.

Yeah it was and I hated it but I gave it my best shot. I just ended up embarrassing myself though,

I’m just not cut out for this world tbh.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Yeah it was and I hated it but I gave it my best shot. I just ended up embarrassing myself though,

I’m just not cut out for this world tbh.

I used to think I'm a sort of observer in this world. Never really interacting with the world, never actually doing something or being part of something. I just sort of ... exist.

 

[Insomniac]

I used to think I'm a sort of observer in this world. Never really interacting with the world, never actually doing something or being part of something. I just sort of ... exist.

I know that feeling too well. I always feel out of place whenever I’m interacting with someone else.

Literal NPC.

 

[Mainländer]

PUA spam approaching, warm approaching through friends and femoid acquaintances, internet game. I did basically everything apart from plastic surgery and criminalmaxxing.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

Showered twice daily. Worked out 30-45 minutes a day. Read PUA books. Took amazing flattering pics of myself. Wrote great dating profiles. Got nice haircuts and beard trimmings.

You name it I tried it.

Nothing can fix being a 5'5 3-4/10 manlet autist

 

[Adversor]

I've shared classrooms with foids for the past 21 years and every one of them either ignored my existence or snickered when I approached and called me ugly when I walked past them. At university now. I asked out a foid that was friendly to me and I talked with after classes. I hadn't seen her for weeks so I sent her a text and she responded that she'd love to hang out. The day we were going to hang out she sent me that she suddenly had a meeting or some shit but she'd let me know when she had more time. Two months later and I'm still being ghosted. I swear, as a sub-8 you have to sign a fucking blood pact to get a foid to meetup in 2019 while she starts every day responding to Chad's texts. That's what I get for having a bluepill relapse thinking I had a chance.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I don't even know how to try, it's part of my problem, and with no social circle, I don't even know where to begin. Although I did message hundreds of girls online, never got anywhere. If I had money I'd leave the rural US for Thailand to JBWmaxx, but even then, my communication skills are pretty poor.

Not to mention, basically anything at all makes me nervous. I get anxious about leaving the house and going to appointments regardless of how much I do it, how am I going to cold approach? I just wish I could be normal and not have such a difficult time doing minor things.

 

[Hate_my_life]

- hundreds of cold approaches in bars/clubs
- 100+ daytime approaches
- Online dating for years (never had a date)
- tried building up a social circle through hobbies to get a gf
- gymcelled for years during my early 20s and had an impressive body, yet it made zero difference in terms of attracting women.
- tried becoming a pro athlete to impress women
- tried a dating agency to get a woman from abroad
- I´m currently in the process of getting 30k worth of surgery on my face

It's hysterical that cucks will still tell you: "You'll find the one" or "Just work on that personality". No matter how much you do.

Not a single man on planet earth should ever go through all this hassle for a small chance to fulfil his natural biological desires. Why women have so much power in the dating scene is beyond me. Who gave them this much power

 

[Getlooksordie]

Aww man! That is an impressive amount of effort! At least you've tried to make a difference in your life, and you're still trying. Can't ask for more than that. What surgeries are your getting on your face btw?

already had a hairtransplant, beard transplant and zygo sandwich osteotomy. Up next is double jaw surgery, chin wing, eye surgery, non surgical nosejob, liposuction on belly and lovehandles and teeth whitening.

 

[tooth monster]

Literally nothing

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Things I have tried over the years:
- Being friendly, polite and intelligent
- Being fun and energetic, dancing in nightclubs etc
- Joining interest groups, clubs
- PUA cold approaching
- Making friends with them (aka orbiter)
- Internet dating (match.com, okcupid, pof, tinder, bumble, eharmony)

All of this while looksmaxxed, moneymaxxed, showered, well-groomed, lean and fit, and Respecting™ them.

By the age of 32 I realised it really was bullshit, and that Foids would always hate me because I was just FUCKING UGLY and SHORT.

 

[reeaway]

nothing, it never began for truecels

 

[Getlooksordie]

Whoa! Has the hair transplant helped you? I want to have plastic surgery on my zygos as well; I'll probably go with implants. They say that the results from zygo sandwich osteotomy are minimal and that there is no anterior projection of the cheekbones, only sideways. How have your results been? PM me a pic if its not too much to ask. Thanks!

yes, the ht was well worth it so far. I´ve only had it 4 months ago, but it takes a year to see the final result. A lot of the hair has already grown and it looks very natural.

ZSO gave me 9mm advancement on both sides which is a shit ton and it already made a big change and my cheeks look miles better than before. My cheekbones still aren´t ideal though which I hope to get fixed with double jaw surgery. I´d like them a bit higher and yes, with more anterior projection.

I might post a pic of myself with the eyes blacked out once I´ve gone through with all the surgeries, just to show whats possible for anyone interested.

 

[Gabe]

Back in high school I approached foids from different classes but got rejected and/or friendzoned. I also tried tindercelling for a while but without any luck, now I don't approach that much anymore aside from semi-serious attemps online from time to time. Maybe I forgot to take a shower and get a haircut.

 

[Blacktarpill]

Nuffin. Too high inhib and anxious to do anything

 

[Michael15651]

Fashionmax

 

[anon]

I tried various looksmaxing methods when I was a teen. I also tried getting closer to some girls, but it wasn't straight up approaching. It has never worked.

 

[Deleted member 6329]

Had a foid friend at the time do the work for me still didn't work, and tinder/ok cupid

 

[_wifebeater_]

Nothing, I've always been a mentalcel.

 

[Deleted member 1039]

Tried approaching
Tried networking
Tried very hard to fit in with popular kids
Tried running Game

I dont even like to think back to those times. Just cringe after cringe.

 

[GameDevCel]

• hundreds of cold approaches in bars/clubs
• 100+ daytime approaches
• Online dating for years (never had a date)
• tried building up a social circle through hobbies to get a gf
• gymcelled for years during my early 20s and had an impressive body, yet it made zero difference in terms of attracting women.
• tried becoming a pro athlete to impress women
• tried a dating agency to get a woman from abroad
• I´m currently in the process of getting 30k worth of surgery on my face

i miss him

 

[Dropbox]

I distanced myself from women after high school.

I didn't have really any contact with peer group women between late 2012 and mid 2017. I worked in a 100% male work place in a small town. It was the type of town young women flee and first opertunity.

I, however, was happy. I worked long hours, made decent money, and stayed on the computer during my off time. I was full fucking monk mode.

The ignorance was bliss, I could lie to myself, tell myself the only reason I was alone was my choice. I knew I was physically unattractive, but I didn't have to think about it.

Then I got laid off that job and got a new one. I started making more money, traveling, and working even more hours. It was fun, really.

Unfortunately, It brought me back into contact with peer group women. My carefully crafted little cope, the everything would be fine "one day" did not survive first contact.

I've been to bars, I've been out 100s of times, and traveled through many towns and cities. I do not exist to women.

I've been through the major dating apps, I tried to photomax. I tried to stylemax, I tried to moneymax with status symbol possessions. I do not exist to women.

I'm too squeamish for plastic surgery.