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Experiment What bothers you the most about your Inceldom?

What bothers you the most about your Inceldom?

  • Not getting a GF

    Votes: 20 30.3%
  • Not getting laid (without paying)

    Votes: 8 12.1%
  • Loneliness (friendlessness/few friends)

    Votes: 15 22.7%
  • Being seen as an outcast because of looks

    Votes: 15 22.7%
  • Other (tell us by replying)

    Votes: 8 12.1%

  • Total voters
    66
Blackpincel

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In my case, what frustrates me the most about being Incel is not getting laid. I've escortcelled a few times before but I'm sure it's not the same experience as having sex with a foid you didn't need to directly pay for sex, because interactions with prostitutes involve no attraction/real interest for the sex, it's not engaging for both the escort and myself.
I just wished that I could be at least a Chadlite who casually fucked foids from Tinder hookups every now and then.
At this point in my life I became so Blackpilled about female shallowness that I can't see them as anything else if not organisms I wish to insert my penis into.
I'm convinced that women can't really love at all (maybe their own children, but even there I believe there are biological mechanisms in action), and their affection is about the same as regular humans petting domestic animals. So I have zero interest about getting a girlfriend anymore.
 
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Fellow incels don't take street-shitting seriously although I am working hard day and night to popularize it since 2017.
 
The specific brand of loneliness which stems from not having a girlfriend. I don't want irl friends, but everyday I wish I had a foid to cuddle and do things with.
 
Thinking about how I used to have a decent amount of friends I can say that my current lonliness is abosoulute hell (I would chose not having a gf since I truely do desire one very badly but I cant really miss what I never had.)
 
What bothers me the most is the social aspect of it. When you're an incel (especially an oldcel), you're an outcast, period. It's literally impossible for us to become well-adjusted persons in a world in which getting laid is the most important thing to do.

How should we deal with the fact that we're missing out on the essence of life because of something we can't control (ugliness)? How should we deal with the fact that normies will look down on us because of it?

There's no cope for inceldom, every single thing is centered around sex, and you're always reminded of your subhumanity. I have to live my life as if I had a very, very dark secret, even though my only sin was being born ugly and autistic.
 
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I voted other because I just wanna get lucky any do fantasies with any female and if the girl becomes my girlfriend, cool.
 
Being ugly and not being able to fix it because it's too fucking expensive.
 
Whores still getting money indirectly from incels through taxes.
 
I have no memories to look back on fondly. My teenage years are shit, my early 20s are shit, and my late 20s are going to shit too.
 
What bothers me the most is the social aspect of it. When you're an incel (especially an oldcel), you're an outcast, period. It's literally impossible for us to become well-adjusted persons in a world in which getting laid is the most important thing to do.

How should we deal with the fact that we're missing out on the essence of life because of something we can't control (ugliness)? How should we deal with the fact that normies will look down on us because of it?

There's no cope for inceldom, every single thing is centered around sex, and you're always reminded of your subhumanity. I have to live my life as if I had a very, very dark secret, even though my only sin was being born ugly and autistic.
Being ugly and not being able to fix it because it's too fucking expensive.

or too dangerous/impossible/ prone to botched surgery etc....
And even after you do surgery and you still didn't ascend... Well you just pissed away a few grand when instead you can buy a weed growing tent for a few hundred with everything to grow weed...

Get a good dry herb vaporizer and you are in business...
 
Completely missing out on a large part of life - sex and relationships - that seems to just happen naturally for most people.

I'm not absolutely desperate to have sex or a relationship, but I'd like to experience it at some point.
 
  • Not getting laid (without paying)
 
I guess it's just the unfairness of it and the deterministic nature of life. I did nothing wrong and now I'm forced to live as a subhuman in a society that I dislike.
 
Not getting laid or a GF. Loneliness doesn't bother me that much though, I like the NEET life more than socializing with normies tbh
 
one thing i hate is how im forced to live in a feminist city. i think i have a chance to ascend, cause when i talk to girls who come from traditional countries they actually smile and talk to me, call me handsome and actually want to hang out and enjoy my personality. but girls in my city all hate me, see me as some ugly rapist ethnic, if i had a just enough money to leave this country i would. it sucks thinking how i suffer only because of location, i feel i may actually have a chance in other non feminist countries but idk yet, still being lonely out of no fault of your own.... its shallow asf, makes u filled with rage. i just wanna win the lotto and fly away. missing out on happiness all cause of some culture some rich jews probably made to line up their pockets, feminism and capitalism works beautiful together and i just gotta suffer till i can escape like a prisoner... if im not wanted here why cant i just leave.
 
not getting laid is way more
 
the lack of touch is the worst, it destroys your mental health
 
I would say it’s loneliness the most.
 
i want to have a connection with someone and go on dates and have similar interests
 
the fact that everyone considers me worthless, no one ever cared about my feelings.
Not just women. If its just women itd be much easier to cope.
Have always been picked on ever since elementary school..cos ugly and skinny.
my mother obviously treat my bro way better than me (hes more gl), and barely care abt me, probably since she realize aint no point investing on a kid that aint never been shit and aint never gonna be shit anyway.
I am truly worthless in the eye of society and probably my family too.
My father always preferred sons over daughter but, im almost certain hed rather have a daughter than a complete failure of a son like me.
 
The nasty looks from women
 
honestly not getting a gf and being seen as undesirable, loneliness as well, i just hate all the factors i have no control over that put me into this situation
everyday I wish I had a foid to cuddle and do things with.
same
 
I just wanted to love and be loved by a girl who likes me for who I am, only that.
 
Due to the crime of being stuck in this shell, I’ve been subjected to all of the cruelty my fellow man can muster. I’m hated by both men and women and my own family are letting their masks slip off. My hatred for others and society at large will never go away
 
Having all the responsibilities of other men (working 40 hours a week, paying taxes, obeying laws, obeying societal norms/political correctness) without getting any of the benefits that normal men get.
 
Not getting laid

that is my only problem now
 
Lonliness for sure. Despite being incel, I used to have a close circle of friends. All but one of them have dropped me, but he moved out of the area. :feelsbadman:
 
Not having a close genuine connection. I just want someone, who is similar, has the same humor, intelligence and interests.
 
the social aspect of it, hence being an outcast
 
Everyone who pushed me towards this path.
 
I just want to be seen as normal... maybe have a social circle I can fit in. I know a loyal gf is too much to ask for.
 
The specific brand of loneliness which stems from not having a girlfriend. I don't want irl friends, but everyday I wish I had a foid to cuddle and do things with.
same..... hurt me more god
 
The lack of human touch and affection. I'm at the point where I'm considering paying someone to hug me.
 
not having a gf

i lost interest in 3DPD, but the central issue is still there
 
The fact that everyone sees me as a freak but no-one is merciful enough to put me down!

My very existence is one big endurance test layered with humiliation after humiliation. Everything I do for others is either disregarded or totally unaprecciated, if I'm kind to someone I'm seen as desperate and clingy, when I mind my own business I'm seen as creepy and brooding, if I decide to cope with video games the one platform where I can escape my identity I'm seen as lazy and unproductive.

Everything I do is somehow wrong even when I do it right! Forget having a gf, forget lonelines I can't go to the mall without being looked at like some disgusting freak, I can't stand in any populated areas without at least one or two arrogant normies staring me down as if I just ruined their day, I avoid sitting next to babies in public transports because they cry every time they see me!

I hate this! I absolutely hate it! I hate that science tells people it's a good thing I'm being avoided and shamed because I'll give "da bad babeez", I hate that this is the natural state of every human and there's nothing I can do to change it! I hate that if I try to fix my problem people will see me as a pathetic tryhard who's trying to cheat his genetics! I hate that people who are like me are now just a scapegoat for the media to use whenever anything goes wrong in the world! I hate thd world for rejecting me! I hate myself for not being born with better genetics! I hate my parents for putting me into this world! I hate my father for not choosing his wife logically and relying on his feefees! I hate my mother for taking advantage of my father's cucked behaviour! I hate chads for the sole fact that femoids, the pickiest species on this earth, always choose them! I hate cucks because they just let this slide and are ok with rancid leftovers!

I HATE MY INCELDOM BECAUSE I DID NOTHING TO DESERVE IT!
 
I always imagined myself having a loving wife who I could hold in my arms as I slept. We'd kiss goodnight and I'd hear her say in her sweet voice in my head "I love you [InMyCellInHell]." We'd fall asleep with a little smile on our faces, knowing that there was at least one person on this worthless planet who cared if we lived or died. I'll never know that joy or happiness. It kills me to even think about it or say it now.
 
It's my fucking looks. I'll be more ok with a few friends, having no gf and even paying for sex if I was 10/10.
 
Definitely the GF part. The goal of life is to reproduce and one needs a willing partner to do so. Surrogate mothers are expensive as fuck and may even be banned because my country is roastie central. So I need a gf, but I'll never be able to have a foid look in my general direction, let alone have sex with me.
 

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