For me inceldom isn't just about not being able to get sex.
Side tangent
And by the way, some will claim that if it truly was only about the inability to get sex that escorts would solve the problem. They don't
First of all there are obvious hoops you have to jump through to even get with an escort in the first place; it needs to be somewhat legal, accessible both financially and geographically and the escorts need to be willing to have you as a client.
Even if you're able to get through these hoops it's still not satisfactory, because you know that the escorts have no actual sexual interest in you, no matter how good they are at faking that interest.
Inceldom is more than just sex
No for me inceldom is also about the lack of romantic interest and having a long-term girlfriend. Many of you, including myself have had nagging parents asking you or joking about when you will get a girlfriend. It's embarrassing, emasculating even. You slowly become isolated. An appendage to the family structure. Because how can you continue your lineage without a partner?
For the ones that have IRL friends or have had IRL friends in the past I do not need to remind you that having a partner also raises your status amongst these groups. It's sad but true. So it's also about belonging, not just avoid embarrassment. It's conformity at its core.
Apart from romance being about conforming and therefore avoiding becoming a social outcast. because sex is a private affair, it's easier to hide your virginity than it is to hide the fact you have no girlfriend.. Apart from that, romance is also something that makes you feel less lonely; because you have someone that cares about you, loves you and tries to make your life a bit better. This comes at the cost of that you'd do the same for the other person and even then this is an ideal scenario for a man that even normie men could dream of. Because feminism has made women much too comfortable and able to demand higher expectations. Still even in non-ideal scenarios, you would occasionally receive romantic gestures and it would make you feel less lonely.
I would much rather go on a date with a girl on an evening night than play videogames by myself that I don't even enjoy anymore.
It's cruel that we have to miss out on this too and I hate it when normies, foids think we only care about sex. Not all of us do.
Side tangent
And by the way, some will claim that if it truly was only about the inability to get sex that escorts would solve the problem. They don't
First of all there are obvious hoops you have to jump through to even get with an escort in the first place; it needs to be somewhat legal, accessible both financially and geographically and the escorts need to be willing to have you as a client.
Even if you're able to get through these hoops it's still not satisfactory, because you know that the escorts have no actual sexual interest in you, no matter how good they are at faking that interest.
Inceldom is more than just sex
No for me inceldom is also about the lack of romantic interest and having a long-term girlfriend. Many of you, including myself have had nagging parents asking you or joking about when you will get a girlfriend. It's embarrassing, emasculating even. You slowly become isolated. An appendage to the family structure. Because how can you continue your lineage without a partner?
For the ones that have IRL friends or have had IRL friends in the past I do not need to remind you that having a partner also raises your status amongst these groups. It's sad but true. So it's also about belonging, not just avoid embarrassment. It's conformity at its core.
Apart from romance being about conforming and therefore avoiding becoming a social outcast. because sex is a private affair, it's easier to hide your virginity than it is to hide the fact you have no girlfriend.. Apart from that, romance is also something that makes you feel less lonely; because you have someone that cares about you, loves you and tries to make your life a bit better. This comes at the cost of that you'd do the same for the other person and even then this is an ideal scenario for a man that even normie men could dream of. Because feminism has made women much too comfortable and able to demand higher expectations. Still even in non-ideal scenarios, you would occasionally receive romantic gestures and it would make you feel less lonely.
I would much rather go on a date with a girl on an evening night than play videogames by myself that I don't even enjoy anymore.
It's cruel that we have to miss out on this too and I hate it when normies, foids think we only care about sex. Not all of us do.
