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Deep.Nest

Deep.Nest

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If you were to ask a girl out or a girl approaches you, what are the bare minimum requirements she must be for you to consider dating her? And I'm solely speaking physically, not personality wise.

For me it's pretty simple. Don't be extremely fat, be hygienic, be somewhat around my age, and look at least somewhat feminine. If you wanna call me volcel for potentially excluding a land whale from dating me... I don't care. I just couldn't bring myself to be attracted to someone massively bigger than me in every dimension. I wouldn't ever be happy dating somebody like this. Same thing with a lazy person who doesn't take care of themself or someone who looks manly. I'd be just as miserable dating some obese masculine bitch than I would being a lonely incel.
 
Oh my standards are very very low... I'd even take a fat chick as long as she's not toooo thick. Honestly I just want a gf that likes my hobbies. Anything else and I'd be a fakecel.
 
Who cares I won't have one, daydreaming about this shit makes it worse
 
Looksmatch at minimum
Virgin
Young
Not fat
Polite
Good morals
 
Don't be fat and be clean. I don't have unrealistic standards, I don't care to date a Stacy, I would date a 4/10.
 
Don't be extremely fat, be hygienic, be somewhat around my age, and look at least somewhat feminine.
OHHH NOOO, the entitlement!!! How dare you have standards as nasty inkwell!!!!:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree::feelskek::feelskek:
 
not obese and not black for physical traits
mentally they should be around my intelligence and hopefully interested in my hobbies
 
Looksmatch and around my age.

Not an insane body count.
 
Landwhale only
 
If you were to ask a girl out or a girl approaches you, what are the bare minimum requirements she must be for you to consider dating her? And I'm solely speaking physically, not personality wise.

For me it's pretty simple. Don't be extremely fat, be hygienic, be somewhat around my age, and look at least somewhat feminine. If you wanna call me volcel for potentially excluding a land whale from dating me... I don't care. I just couldn't bring myself to be attracted to someone massively bigger than me in every dimension. I wouldn't ever be happy dating somebody like this. Same thing with a lazy person who doesn't take care of themself or someone who looks manly. I'd be just as miserable dating some obese masculine bitch than I would being a lonely incel.
What she shouldn't be: fat or extremely dark skinned
What she should be: nerdy and long haired
 
My standards are very low. If a woman was under 300 pounds, had at least a 4/10 face, and was under 45 years old, I'd take what I could get. If normie scum reads this, they will say "how dare you not date the my 600 pound life woman with slits for eyes and fat in her forehead."
 
not fat and a virgin
this was normal for 99% of human history its not asking for a whole lot
 
Don't be fat and be clean. I don't have unrealistic standards, I don't care to date a Stacy, I would date a 4/10.
not fat and a virgin
this was normal for 99% of human history its not asking for a whole lot
My standards are very low. If a woman was under 300 pounds, had at least a 4/10 face, and was under 45 years old, I'd take what I could get. If normie scum reads this, they will say "how dare you not date the my 600 pound life woman with slits for eyes and fat in her forehead."
What she shouldn't be: fat or extremely dark skinned
What she should be: nerdy and long haired
Looksmatch and around my age.

Not an insane body count.
Looksmatch at minimum
Virgin
Young
Not fat
Polite
Good morals
Oh my standards are very very low... I'd even take a fat chick as long as she's not toooo thick. Honestly I just want a gf that likes my hobbies. Anything else and I'd be a fakecel.
YOu'Re oNly InKweLl cUz ur sTandarDs arE toO HiGh!!!
 
For me it's pretty simple. Don't be extremely fat, be hygienic, be somewhat around my age, and look at least somewhat feminine.
Similar for me, except that I would also accept a somewhat masculine look. Also I would require her to be not disfigured or ugly due to a genetic disorder.
 
• Virgin
• Has muscle mass
• Atheist
• Must be nice
• Must be willing to have sex at anytime
 
None. I don't want or need one.
 
• Needs to exist
• not a landwhale
• has a womb
 
Capable of coexistence
 
white skin no fat and virgin
 
Not completely decomposed
 
No genetic syndromes (down, dwarfism), no large facial deformities or scarring.
Not fat, no tattoos or piercings, no east asian, black, or native american.
No satanists or spiritists.
Must want children someday.
 
If you were to ask a girl out or a girl approaches you, what are the bare minimum requirements she must be for you to consider dating her? And I'm solely speaking physically, not personality wise.

For me it's pretty simple. Don't be extremely fat, be hygienic, be somewhat around my age, and look at least somewhat feminine. If you wanna call me volcel for potentially excluding a land whale from dating me... I don't care. I just couldn't bring myself to be attracted to someone massively bigger than me in every dimension. I wouldn't ever be happy dating somebody like this. Same thing with a lazy person who doesn't take care of themself or someone who looks manly. I'd be just as miserable dating some obese masculine bitch than I would being a lonely incel.
Christian(that actually follows Christian values)
Weighs less than 140 lbs
 
-loves me

Literally, that's it.
 
As long as they aren't crazy obese (like 300+lb) I'd be good
 
Shit I didn't read the entire post, I don't have much physical requirements, any height is fine, any weight is OK as long as your not a landwhale, (I'd still smash a landwhale though, just no ltr) any race, honestly don't have much preferences, what can I say? I'm pretty desperate
 
Not above 6 0 or below 5 6. Thats still 90% of foids. Also not a landwhale. That makes it 75% already
 
Not above 6 0 or below 5 6. Thats still 90% of foids. Also not a landwhale. That makes it 75% already
Not a feminist/liberal
That makes it 20%
 
1. She is alive
2. She is a female
 
She isn't overweight. She puts a little effort into her look (like maybe a little makeup, good hygiene, some sense of style, nails, eyebrows kept up, etc..). No significant facial defects.

Then she must show significant sexual interest in me.

That's it. Any woman with those two qualities is datable for me.

To this day, I've never met a woman I can date because no woman shows sexual interest in me and without that, I won't be interested in the woman.
 
Not overweight, virgin, nice tits, not a liberal, matches my freak
 
Not a landwhale
No older than 47
Isn't completely disgusting like this for example
1662694263_10-boombo-biz-p-ugly-tits-pics-erotika-14.jpg
 
If you were to ask a girl out or a girl approaches you, what are the bare minimum requirements she must be for you to consider dating her? And I'm solely speaking physically, not personality wise.

For me it's pretty simple. Don't be extremely fat, be hygienic, be somewhat around my age, and look at least somewhat feminine. If you wanna call me volcel for potentially excluding a land whale from dating me... I don't care. I just couldn't bring myself to be attracted to someone massively bigger than me in every dimension. I wouldn't ever be happy dating somebody like this. Same thing with a lazy person who doesn't take care of themself or someone who looks manly. I'd be just as miserable dating some obese masculine bitch than I would being a lonely incel.
Even if you get a girlfriend she will have thousands of options every minute of every day.
 
Why would any incel have any standards at all for dating? I can understand standards for sex, since some women are so grotesque it would make one nauseous to have sex with them. But dating literally just means socializing. Why would anyone give up an opportunity to socialize with a foid, and at least develop some skills talking to women? The only real requirement I would understand is no old ladies, because old ladies are a completely different animal from young women. But other than that, I see no reason why one should have any standards whatsoever when it comes to dating women.
 
Hypothetical, because I would never get a gf:
1. Be a biological female, no troon shit
2. Don't be fat.

It's literally as simple as that for a woman to find a man
 
Not a landwhale
No older than 47
Isn't completely disgusting like this for example
1662694263_10-boombo-biz-p-ugly-tits-pics-erotika-14.jpg

Maybe I'm just too horny, but in my opinion, if you wouldn't smash you're a volcel, big tits, face is like a 6/10, I'd definitely smash, my standards are in the floor lol, as long as it's a woman, I'm literally down.
 
Just be asian
 
loves me for who I am and has basic hygiene
 
In my imaginations:
- Shares some interests with me.
- Has similar political opinions
- Is a tech nerd
- doesn't use social media
- Wants to live in the mountains
- Is my sister (a must)

In reality:
Given that I am in this forum, I don't think it's possible. Plus I feel disgusted whenever I think about being with a foid for anything other than sex. Like anything they can talk about a guy would be able to do it better.
 
If you were to ask a girl out or a girl approaches you, what are the bare minimum requirements she must be for you to consider dating her? And I'm solely speaking physically, not personality wise.

For me it's pretty simple. Don't be extremely fat, be hygienic, be somewhat around my age, and look at least somewhat feminine. If you wanna call me volcel for potentially excluding a land whale from dating me... I don't care. I just couldn't bring myself to be attracted to someone massively bigger than me in every dimension. I wouldn't ever be happy dating somebody like this. Same thing with a lazy person who doesn't take care of themself or someone who looks manly. I'd be just as miserable dating some obese masculine bitch than I would being a lonely incel.
cute
virgin
similar personality
skinny
 

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