RageFuel Went from confident to stuttering mess in a few years HOW

[Pissedcel]

4 years ago I had friends, was confident, funny, and had a social circle. Now the confident guy is completely gone I'm stuck in permanent pussy mode. I shake, stutter, and get nervous around people. I'm now alone a lonely pathetic Incel . I wanna find the other me who didn't give a fuck and could hold a conversation. Maybe if I wasn't a pussy I could ascend. I want the old me back wtf could have happend to cause this. How can I fix it

 

[Deadgeneration]

I've always been like that. I only gained friends through being forced to spend enough time with them

 

[Don Vito]

4 years ago I had friends, was confident, funny, and had a social circle. Now the confident guy is completely gone I'm stuck in permanent pussy mode. I shake, stutter, and get nervous around people. I'm now alone a lonely pathetic Incel . I wanna find the other me who didn't give a fuck and could hold a conversation. Maybe if I wasn't a pussy I could ascend. I want the old me back wtf could have happend to cause this. How can I fix it

Go gym

 

[Pissedcel]

u have to force urself into social situations even if you'll embarrass urself for a while.

Thinking of doing this but the pain and cringe is gonna be unreal

 

[Pissedcel]

Go gym

Fairly recently started gymaxxxing seeing good results lets hope it keeps helping

 

[El Enemigo]

You probably graduated from high school and it all went downhill from there, happened to me

 

[Quarantined]

don't want friends,
only money and pussy

 

[Pissedcel]

You probably graduated from high school and it all went downhill from there, happened to me

Pretty much exactly that now I'm taking college classes online and have no job so I just sit in the corner of my room and cry all day

 

[Pissedcel]

don't want friends,
only money and pussy

Fucking around with friends was so much fun though

 

[Pissedcel]

it's the only way. i know this cuz i was forced to work retail by my parents and i was a stuttering nervous mess for the first few weeks but got way better overtime and my communication skills are normal rn.

Yeah ur right probably the most effective strategy to use against social anxiety. I've also heard hypnosis helps

 

[El Enemigo]

Pretty much exactly that now I'm taking college classes online and have no job so I just sit in the corner of my room and cry all day

Can relate, receiving classes virtually and not doing anything else all day is destroying our sanity.

 

[Nihilistic Lowlife]

You not an incel but a failed normie

 

[Pissedcel]

You not an incel but a failed normie

I CANT GET STACY PUSSY BECAUSE IM RETARDED NOW IM INCEL

 

[Pissedcel]

lol stay clear of schizos

Gonna Schizo maxxx

 

[InMemoriam]

Simply inceldom and loneliness can destroy your social abilities for good especially if you aren't ldarcel

 

[Pissedcel]

Can relate, receiving classes virtually and not doing anything else all day is destroying our sanity.

I'm going back to in person classes soon I can't wait (sarcasm). I'm gonna be a stuttering friend less freak when classes start up again ITS OVER

 

[Pissedcel]

ask @Sneir to be ur sensei when he's off his ban.

Why did he get banned??? Did he forget to put In video game?

 

[El Enemigo]

I'm going back to in person classes soon I can't wait (sarcasm). I'm gonna be a stuttering friend less freak when classes start up again ITS OVER

At least you could get your skills back, staying inside interacting with only a pc assures you a miserable life

i did my first 3 years in person and my last year virtually. online schooling is better for ur grades

Yeah the grades are better virtually

 

[Pissedcel]

At least you could get your skills back, staying inside interacting with only a pc assures you a miserable life

Yeah the grades are better virtually

i worked retail so i already have decent social skills
it's only beneficial for work/school tho since i dont want to befriend normies and i dont look decent enough for NT to matter.

I've also developed this thing where if I'm talking with someone immediately my brain says "I'm gonna run out of things to say". No matter who I'm talking to ALWAYS in the back of my mind I think eventually I'm gonna run out things to say and I start panicking which ironically is what keeps me from finding out what to say next. I'm such a FUCKING RETARD RN

 

[Pissedcel]

i dont enjoy small talk so i almost never initiate conversations i usually give just enough input to keep the ball rolling and the person im talking to wont even notice that for every 10 words they utter i only give back 1 . the trick is to not give retarded tinder girl tier responses like "ok, alright, uh huh" but to give quick responses that are relevant to the subject at hand in the most concise way possible and to keep the convo centered around the other person like "how's ur mother doing?".

Giga iq post, just keep the convo about them when running out of things to say. Thanks for the advice brocel

 

[Balding Subhuman]

It could be that the part of your brain that controls fear, stress and anxiety has become bigger.

Your Amygdala Gets Bigger If You’re Anxious and Depressed - Neuroscience News

Depression and anxiety have a profound effect on brain areas associated with memory and emotional processing. In people with depression and anxiety, researchers noted shrinkage to the hippocampus. By contrast, the amygdala increased in size.

neurosciencenews.com

You can make it smaller by meditating daily

 

[Pissedcel]

It could be that the part of your brain that controls fear, stress and anxiety has become bigger.

Your Amygdala Gets Bigger If You’re Anxious and Depressed - Neuroscience News

Depression and anxiety have a profound effect on brain areas associated with memory and emotional processing. In people with depression and anxiety, researchers noted shrinkage to the hippocampus. By contrast, the amygdala increased in size.

neurosciencenews.com

You can make it smaller by meditating daily

Will try it out thanks for the advice

 

[Balding Subhuman]

Will try it out thanks for the advice

Also, how is your posture? If you have very stiff muscles then your body assumes you are under stress 24/7 which causes you to be anxious

 

[hondas2000cel]

Go gym

This

 

[Pissedcel]

Also, how is your posture? If you have very stiff muscles then your body assumes you are under stress 24/7 which causes you to be anxious

Yeah my posture is actually very stiff

 

[Balding Subhuman]

Yeah my posture is actually very stiff

It could be the result of forward head posture

 

[RandomBroCel]

You not an incel but a failed normie

failed normie can still be khhv incel by definition