Well, my one potential love interest seems to be gone

[Hoppipolla]

So... I'm truly 100% on my own now... again :o

Hm. What to do, what to do.

I am thinking that maybe I will focus on local Facebook groups - ideally ones that are relevant to my interests in some way (or the interests of the kind of women I like ^_^ ) - or possibly try to work somewhere very busy and see how much that helps me.

The most luck I've had in the past meeting women was UK forums that I was interested in, followed by workplaces. The main forum I used to frequent also had a good male/female mix.

So... yeah.

Wish me luck!

 

[Deleted member]

say it with me: "orbiting doesn't work".

 

[Hoppipolla]

say it with me: "orbiting doesn't work".

Surely just talking to a girl that you may date doesn't count as orbiting...

Sometimes you're talking to a girl and you're just friends and then it just naturally turns into a relationship.

 

[Deleted member]

Surely just talking to a girl that you may date doesn't count as orbiting...

Sometimes you're talking to a girl and you're just friends and then it just naturally turns into a relationship.

you refer to the female as a "potential love interest" in your thread title. you didn't consider it to be "just a friend" and nothing more. come on.

 

[Hoppipolla]

you refer to the female as a "potential love interest" in your thread title. you didn't consider it to be "just a friend" and nothing more. come on.

Well, both of us saw it as a maybe.

 

[armis]

orbiting doesn't work

 

[Hoppipolla]

So many people on here never want to be friends with a woman or anywhere near a woman if there's a potential of a relationship and then they wonder why they're still single.

 

[Deleted member]

So many people on here never want to be friends with a woman or anywhere near a woman if there's a potential of a relationship and then they wonder why they're still single.

the thing is, there is no "potential relationship" if a female isn't into you instantly. you cannot win them over with your personality or charm or whatever you seem to believe. attraction is completely physical and nothing else, that is how mate selection works. if they're not instantly attracted to you, it is over. how many times do you have to be smacked by them to come to your senses?

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

So many people on here never want to be friends with a woman or anywhere near a woman if there's a potential of a relationship and then they wonder why they're still single.

You have to make intentions clear, if there's no immediate sexual tension it will never go anywhere. Once you're in the friendzone it's overrer

 

[UBERCEL]

My advice: reread the whole Blackpill archive.

 

[Shower_Taker]

So many people on here never want to be friends with a woman or anywhere near a woman if there's a potential of a relationship and then they wonder why they're still single.

Do you honestly think that jumping through all those hoops is the key to getting a relationship? Weaseling your way into being friends with a girl means nothing if you're not attractive to her in the first place (and friendship tends to diminish that perception on people the longer it goes on).

 

[ElliotLookAlike]

mate stop bein fakin delusional

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Surely just talking to a girl that you may date doesn't count as orbiting...

Sometimes you're talking to a girl and you're just friends and then it just naturally turns into a relationship.

Dude you are seriously bluepilled.

 

[Deleted member 250]

its over

 

[Hoppipolla]

Well, we've gone out in the past. Sometimes she ended it with me and sometimes I ended it with her. We have been on and off for a long time.

I really think though that many of you guys make up too many rules and it only makes it harder to find a woman in the long run. ANY way of being around more women is going to increase your chances of a relationship (and also casual sex too, if that's what you want).

 

[Moustachcel]

COPE

 

[Deleted member 1983]

OP you are overly optimistic tbh, orbiting a foid is getting you nowhere your just feeding her ego.

maybe you need more rejections before you see that idk.

 

[Gremlincel]

DIE DIE DIE

 

[Henry de Montherlant]

What kind of fb group though ?

 

[LDARBuddah]

Never began for orbitcels

 

[Hoppipolla]

What kind of fb group though ?

erm, I dunno. They are around. Sometimes they can be hard to find in search but they're about. For example I live in the county of Kent in the UK and there are both Kent groups and groups that cover the town I live in too. Some are focused around interests, but not as many as I would like o.O