Incels and adjacents are often fed a predictable slop formula by the self-improvement crowd: that sex and relationships are something that you have to work towards, as though they are the crown jewels of male experience.
Yet this pattern of thought is a prison. Taking a look at the socialized normies and chads around us reveals that for the vast majority of the population, these are things that just happen, one day they are not and the next they are. Life turns on a dime. There is no heroic/pathetic struggle that occurs.
I was fed the same things in the context of religion; my impression from the doctrines I swallowed was that marriage with a woman was a far off and lofty thing that would only be achieved by years of patience, abstinence, and upright living. Essentially being a goody two-shoes… which in a way is what the self-improvement propagandists also want from their flock.
I have expended much mental energy, and subjected myself to painful confrontations with truths, in order to step outside and above this prison, and recognize this dimensional difference. It can be summed up like this: if you have to "work" towards it, it's already over.
Yet this pattern of thought is a prison. Taking a look at the socialized normies and chads around us reveals that for the vast majority of the population, these are things that just happen, one day they are not and the next they are. Life turns on a dime. There is no heroic/pathetic struggle that occurs.
I was fed the same things in the context of religion; my impression from the doctrines I swallowed was that marriage with a woman was a far off and lofty thing that would only be achieved by years of patience, abstinence, and upright living. Essentially being a goody two-shoes… which in a way is what the self-improvement propagandists also want from their flock.
I have expended much mental energy, and subjected myself to painful confrontations with truths, in order to step outside and above this prison, and recognize this dimensional difference. It can be summed up like this: if you have to "work" towards it, it's already over.
