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NepNep

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If we are to regulate pornography because it sets up "Insecurity and false expectations about sexuality" then we should treat "romance" media the same way, it gives men empty hope that some Stacy will just fall in love with them because they are "Themselves" (kek), fill your head with sappy and impossible thoughts and in general just feed the delusion of "love" that has ruined, ruins and will ruin so many lives in the future.
Anyone with a functioning brain probably already knows that love doesn't only not exist between modern generations but probably has never existed;Only transactional relationships, we should explain to little boys how hypergamy works and stop lying to them and ourselves that someone will love them just as they are. The other day I was watching My Dress Up Darling and even though it was cute and i liked i couldn't help but think the whole time how unreal and idealized the series is, thinking that someone would never love me as much as Marin does Gojo because that simply isn't real for all of us, that just made me feel smaller and even more worthless than I usually feel the same way porn makes some of us insecure about their bodies, was it my fault? Probably, I choose to watch it even though I knew how it'd make me feel like kinda like smoking a pack of cigs even after seeing the vantablack lungs on the box, this is why we should put disclaimers on romance media about the idealism of these works and (try to) restrict them to people that have the enough mental maturity to know how it is unreal. Will it work? Probably not, the same way how "BuT aRe You oVer 18?" doesn't stop kids from jacking off to whores BUT it'll raise awareness of it that could help those able to grasp it, that and a gradual deprogramming of the ideas(or at least the commercialized version) of "romance" and "love" from our societies could save many people from enormous pain.
 
I immidetaly dnr any post regarding to changing normies.
its impossible and we're all running into the fire pits.

Change yourself, see the beauty in nature and try to remove internet copes
im already on no nut and no porn for like 1 year more than likely.
 
I immidetaly dnr any post regarding to changing normies.
its impossible and we're all running into the fire pits.

Change yourself, see the beauty in nature and try to remove internet copes
im already on no nut and no porn for like 1 year more than likely.
I know it won't change anything, it's like trying to explain calculus to a starfish. I just needed to vent.

Nature is being actively destroyed, I respect whatever you cope with but what's nature(equally lost cause) supposed to cure about my state? What copes do you suggest then?
 
I know it won't change anything, it's like trying to explain calculus to a starfish. I just needed to vent.

Nature is being actively destroyed, I respect whatever you cope with but what's nature(equally lost cause) supposed to cure about my state? What copes do you suggest then?
The best cope is accepting that there is no cope that will take us from the mess we didn't not put ourselves into.

Some faggot mocked me here for suggesting people watching, it can help.

We are not here because we want to improooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove, we are here because we want to ease our suffering.

Imo walks are a must.
 
I know it won't change anything, it's like trying to explain calculus to a starfish. I just needed to vent.

Nature is being actively destroyed, I respect whatever you cope with but what's nature(equally lost cause) supposed to cure about my state? What copes do you suggest then?
I dont know, different poisons for different people.
i know i feel happy when i feel i do something productive,
it can feel pathetic to others, but it really helps me,
i no longer excercise in gyms, as theyre equally as bad as school,

i go outside and try to do cardiovascular excercise before doing some strength training outside, luckily my country has some outside gyms. usually empty.

I also enjoy just feeling present feeling the sea water graze my body the wind hitting my face, grounding myself.
i avoid internet copes like its poison, being bored helps me do something else.
like cleaning "our house" my families house,
and or fixing furniture. from there i will get the ball rolling to do meaningful stuff like reading and going outside.
im working on my incel appearance,
i no longer want to look like a truecel.

imagine a medical student, i will look slighlty intellectual and welcoming, wont get any flirts, but it helps with being seen as remotely normal for normies.

this was kinda incoherent, cause its more of a "feeling" for what copes work best for you.
 
It is only by fire, hot and golden, can iron be reshaped.

Thus with man.

Only fire!
 
The best cope is accepting that there is no cope that will take us from the mess we didn't not put ourselves into.

Some faggot mocked me here for suggesting people watching, it can help.

We are not here because we want to improooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove, we are here because we want to ease our suffering.

Imo walks are a must.
walks help so much, i reccomend water maxxing, anything water maxxing is a must, being in a lake and just chilling, or fishing. or ice skating indoors, or skiing,
 
walks help so much, i reccomend water maxxing, anything water maxxing is a must, being in a lake and just chilling, or fishing. or ice skating indoors, or skiing,
🙏🙏

I wanted to go hiking SO BADLY!

But this shithole man, I can't because I'm scared of being robbed or killed, plus dog poop everywhere, can't walk five meters here without having to dodge some grenades.
 
OP, nature heals the lonely man, it ease his suffering.
 
🙏🙏

I wanted to go hiking SO BADLY!

But this shithole man, I can't because I'm scared of being robbed or killed, plus dog poop everywhere, can't walk five meters here without having to dodge some grenades.
lol, location being born into plays so much,
i reccomend just trying to go somewhere remote, and not thinking so much about other people being there.
i fight with social anxiety too,
cause i feel like i want to be truly alone somewhere.
 
Romance is evil
 
lol, location being born into plays so much,
i reccomend just trying to go somewhere remote, and not thinking so much about other people being there.
i fight with social anxiety too,
cause i feel like i want to be truly alone somewhere.
Not realistic in a 300 mil pop country, sadly.

I'm shy and anxiety is my brother, but I figured outdoors hurt less than indoors, even tho I see couples all the time.

I feel like I was built for nature and the outdoors, but I don't like people, at all.

Planning on taking some Uber and find a romete-ish 'low crime' place to walk.
 
I dont know, different poisons for different people.
i know i feel happy when i feel i do something productive,
it can feel pathetic to others, but it really helps me,
i no longer excercise in gyms, as theyre equally as bad as school,

i go outside and try to do cardiovascular excercise before doing some strength training outside, luckily my country has some outside gyms. usually empty.

I also enjoy just feeling present feeling the sea water graze my body the wind hitting my face, grounding myself.
i avoid internet copes like its poison, being bored helps me do something else.
like cleaning "our house" my families house,
and or fixing furniture. from there i will get the ball rolling to do meaningful stuff like reading and going outside.
im working on my incel appearance,
i no longer want to look like a truecel.

imagine a medical student, i will look slighlty intellectual and welcoming, wont get any flirts, but it helps with being seen as remotely normal for normies.

this was kinda incoherent, cause its more of a "feeling" for what copes work best for you.
Here coping by staying home doing whatever is safer than walking out to anywhere that's not urban jfl
 
Here coping by staying home doing whatever is safer than walking out to anywhere that's not urban jfl
i must admit, i am very fortunate to live in half city half nature place with car
 
Romance is evil
Even the language related to romance used to had negative meanings, passion comes from "Passio" that literally meant suffering, Seducing is the thing that the devil, Iblis do JFL.
 
The best cope is accepting that there is no cope that will take us from the mess we didn't not put ourselves into.

Some faggot mocked me here for suggesting people watching, it can help.

We are not here because we want to improooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove, we are here because we want to ease our suffering.

Imo walks are a must.
Any cope is valid as long as it makes you feel better, I just don't think that coping through reading philosophy or some shit is more noble than just jacking off or makes you smarter, they're copes after all.
 
idk i never thought movies were real

what i thought was a very abstract idea that people "automatically end up married" at a certain age, and i'm not sure where it came from, other than lack of exposure to people courting each other successfully in real life (it happens at parties and other special places, not in the middle of the fucking street)
 
idk i never thought movies were real

what i thought was a very abstract idea that people "automatically end up married" at a certain age, and i'm not sure where it came from, other than lack of exposure to people courting each other successfully in real life (it happens at parties and other special places, not in the middle of the fucking street)
For me it was quite the opposite. I used to think fiction was real until I saw how people in the real world really act like.
 
Any cope is valid as long as it makes you feel better, I just don't think that coping through reading philosophy or some shit is more noble than just jacking off or makes you smarter, they're copes after all.

I don't read anything, attention span of an ant.

I beat my dick, but post nut clairty is to heavy for me brother.

The only thing that makes me feel a bit better is walking, and being 'smarter' as an Incel is like being called a genius while being homeless.
 
For me it was quite the opposite. I used to think fiction was real until I saw how people in the real world really act like.
i thought books were more real than movies, i guess, but it was obvious that they were all about a different time and place than where I was living
 
I will never have a girl love me because I am neurodivergent and ugly.
 

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