I'm one minute in and I'll post my thoughts as I listen.
1:15 In my experience, they do intentionally try and bait you into orbit. I've known a long time girls are a losing venture for me, so I ignore them as best I can. This usually results in them trying really, really hard to change that. Whenever I've had this happen though, and I act on their overt sexual advances they gaslight and pretend it was in your head. Ignore woman > woman over corrects > woman blames man for acting on over correction perceived to be attraction.
4:30 on hobbies, yes and no I think. They're no substitute for sex, but after masturbation you still need things to occupy your time with even if you're NEET.
7:30 women seem to thrive off plausible deniability in all things. I've had a woman 5 years my senior, and over 30 years old act like this.
8:30 This happened to me at work, she asked for my number etc, wanted me to come to staff Christmas party, kept insinuating she sucked cock. Problem was, she never contacted me outside of work and the one time I tried to text her not during work hours it was like interacting with an entirely different person. Short one word answer, etc. Turns out she was just trying to get me to do more of her job responsibilities.