MaxZM98
Socially constructed loser
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- May 2, 2018
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I keep hearing people say something along the lines of "if you are alone, instead of blaming other people, you should do some self-reflection because chances are it's you, not everyone else".
In my case, I blamed myself 100%. I thought there was something horribly wrong with me preventing me from finding a gf and I hated myself. because of this I put a shitton of effort into self-improvement to make up for whatever I was lacking.
It took me a year of gymcelling to realise that female pedestalisation/hypergamy was what is responsible for my inceldom; that it isn't my fault for being alone and many other men struggle like I do.
In my case, I blamed myself 100%. I thought there was something horribly wrong with me preventing me from finding a gf and I hated myself. because of this I put a shitton of effort into self-improvement to make up for whatever I was lacking.
It took me a year of gymcelling to realise that female pedestalisation/hypergamy was what is responsible for my inceldom; that it isn't my fault for being alone and many other men struggle like I do.