Discussion Upon realising your inceldom, did you first blame yourself or society?

[MaxZM98]

I keep hearing people say something along the lines of "if you are alone, instead of blaming other people, you should do some self-reflection because chances are it's you, not everyone else".

In my case, I blamed myself 100%. I thought there was something horribly wrong with me preventing me from finding a gf and I hated myself. because of this I put a shitton of effort into self-improvement to make up for whatever I was lacking.

It took me a year of gymcelling to realise that female pedestalisation/hypergamy was what is responsible for my inceldom; that it isn't my fault for being alone and many other men struggle like I do.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

I keep hearing people say something along the lines of "if you are alone, instead of blaming other people, you should do some self-reflection because chances are it's you, not everyone else".

In my case, I blamed myself 100%. I thought there was something horribly wrong with me preventing me from finding a gf and I hated myself. because of this I put a shitton of effort into self-improvement to make up for whatever I was lacking.

It took me a year of gymcelling to realise that female pedestalisation/hypergamy was what is responsible for my inceldom; that it isn't my fault for being alone and many other men struggle like I do.

Ye I also blamed myself and started gymcelling JFL.

 

[WØLF]

Foids/society hate me BECAUSE i'm ugly so at the end of the day it's my fault for being born. I ultimately blame my mom for reproducing with a manlet instead of a tall model tier gigachad but no, she doomed me from the start. BITCH HAD LITERALLY ONE JOB AND SHE COULDN'T EVEN DO THAT. FUCK.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

society failed me

 

[Deleted member 20207]

Women, because they should be attracted to me no matter how tall I am.

 

[Speedloader]

it's my fault for being born.

Lmao nigga what

 

[WØLF]

Lmao nigga what

Don't laugh at my dismay

 

[Speedloader]

Don't laugh at my dismay

How the fuck on earth being born is your fault?

 

[tulasdanslos]

I was still left with VBS so I blamed myself.

 

[Unhappy-Man]

As i got older and opportunities to actually ascend become rarer and rarer i blamed myself for not going out and trying much when i had the chance.
But then I realised that it wouldn't have mattered anyway and became indifferent

 

[WØLF]

How the fuck on earth being born is your fault?

I shouldn't have been born because i'm an ugly male. It's not over, it never even began.

 

[loserkarthusplayer]

I was a typical bluepilled fag I thought something was wrong with me ngl im very cold asocial person and I thougt maybe if i Try to become more social i would get women jfl I was wrong

 

[Quarantined]

Women, because they should be attracted to me no matter how tall I am.

 

[FinnCel]

Myself, I was all about self improvement

 

[Pengwin]

I believe that relationships are insanely difficult for me for a lot of reasons. Some within my control, and some outside my control.

 

[Gunnersup]

I blame myself for mouthbreathing tbh

 

[Daydreamincel]

both

 

[Deleted member 22685]

I already blamed myself for the entire time i was bluepilled.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

Foids/society hate me BECAUSE i'm ugly so at the end of the day it's my fault for being born. I ultimately blame my mom for reproducing with a manlet instead of a tall model tier gigachad but no, she doomed me from the start. BITCH HAD LITERALLY ONE JOB AND SHE COULDN'T EVEN DO THAT. FUCK.
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lol same. my father had one job not marry a 4'11 obese schizo low IQ wife but he did and everything is fucked. ofc my father's genes are shit too, a 5'3 curry male reproducing was damner to go unwell

I keep hearing people say something along the lines of "if you are alone, instead of blaming other people, you should do some self-reflection because chances are it's you, not everyone else".

In my case, I blamed myself 100%. I thought there was something horribly wrong with me preventing me from finding a gf and I hated myself. because of this I put a shitton of effort into self-improvement to make up for whatever I was lacking.

It took me a year of gymcelling to realise that female pedestalisation/hypergamy was what is responsible for my inceldom; that it isn't my fault for being alone and many other men struggle like I do.

I went thru similar phases. Blames myself dgue to redpoll, I manner up did lots of approaches all failures. Found blackpill, accepted it's over

 

[Sparrow's Song]

I blamed society and still do. The only reason why a facial disfigurement like mine isn't covered by healthcare is because of eugenics and anti male policies pushed by the conservacucks. When trannies get $100,000 of surgery covered in blue states but men with facial disfigurements are left to rot and die... it's clearly society's fault and revenge should be directed against society.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

I blamed society and still do. The only reason why a facial disfigurement like mine isn't covered by healthcare is because of eugenics and anti male policies pushed by the conservacucks. When trannies get $100,000 of surgery covered in blue states but men with facial disfigurements are left to rot and die... it's clearly society's fault and revenge should be directed against society.

BÆŠËD.

 

[Deleted member 25707]

Sub3 should blame themselves sounds cucked I know but someone had to say this
(25% users here)

4-5 should blame the society
(75% users here)