Update on my movie evening.

[tulasdanslos]

I saw a flick today, it was Chaplin's The Kid. It's simple yet charming and emotional, I thoroughly enjoyed it. After that, my friend treated me to a good pizza and we had an inspiring conversantion.

@yikerinos just letting you know I love my being a NEET rn.

 

[Ellviss]

damn, I wish I had friends too

 

[WØLF]

@Selinity thoughts?

 

[Deleted member 31869]

I saw a flick today, it was Chaplin's The Kid. It's simple yet charming and emotional, I thoroughly enjoyed it. After that, my friend treated me to a good pizza and we had an inspiring conversantion.

@yikerinos just letting you know I love my being a NEET rn.

Based neetmaxxer. Fuck soyciety wanting us to work all day to betabux a foid so she can pay for Chad's only fans.

I have a job but I'm borderline neetmaxxxing, haven't really worked full time in years.

What was the conversation about btw? Is your friend blackpilled?

 

[tulasdanslos]

Based neetmaxxer. Fuck soyciety wanting us to work all day to betabux a foid so she can pay for Chad's only fans.

I have a job but I'm borderline neetmaxxxing, haven't really worked full time in years.

What was the conversation about btw? Is your friend blackpilled?

It was a convo about women, which was scary at first to me. But he steered it towards it being good to have foids in your life, which I agree with. He said some blackpill things like how I need to get the ball rolling right now that I'm just 23 yo, otherwise it's over. He's older btw, he's 38 yo, and we talked about women because he claims a match on a dating app with a woman he seems to click with.

He's not bluepilled, he says I need to get my shit straight asap or I'm done for. He's a master of sophistry I think, he says not only the hot guys score, everybody does, and since I'm awkward IRL (which I am, diagnosed autism) that I should try my luck in dating apps because it's just that much easier- JFL. I don't think he's trying to destroy me or anything like that, he's very much a sex haver but he wants me to have pussy as well.

It's just weird man, he says I'm a nice guy, I'm funny, I'm smart. I tiptoed around the elephant in the room, looks, he said to pick the best photos and do what everybody else is doing. He says I have an unwarranted low self-esteem.

I don't wish him any misfortune for being a sexhaver, btw. He chose to be one the same way I chose to be incel, i.e. not at all.

Idk, I'm gonna download Tinder tomorrow and hopefully turn over a new leaf in a matter of months, if he's correct. If he's wrong, well, I've learned to cope since 6 yo thanks to my supportive and coddling parents.

 

[Deleted member 31869]

It was a convo about women, which was scary at first to me. But he steered it towards it being good to have foids in your life, which I agree with. He said some blackpill things like how I need to get the ball rolling right now that I'm just 23 yo, otherwise it's over. He's older btw, he's 38 yo, and we talked about women because he claims a match on a dating app with a woman he seems to click with.

He's not bluepilled, he says I need to get my shit straight asap or I'm done for. He's a master of sophistry I think, he says not only the hot guys score, everybody does, and since I'm awkward IRL (which I am, diagnosed autism) that I should try my luck in dating apps because it's just that much easier- JFL. I don't think he's trying to destroy me or anything like that, he's very much a sex haver but he wants me to have pussy as well.

It's just weird man, he says I'm a nice guy, I'm funny, I'm smart. I tiptoed around the elephant in the room, looks, he said to pick the best photos and do what everybody else is doing. He says I have an unwarranted low self-esteem.

I don't wish him any misfortune for being a sexhaver, btw. He chose to be one the same way I chose to be incel, i.e. not at all.

Idk, I'm gonna download Tinder tomorrow and hopefully turn over a new leaf in a matter of months, if he's correct. If he's wrong, well, I've learned to cope since 6 yo thanks to my supportive and coddling parents.

Good luck brocel. Ik this sounds like a blue pill but try to use good pics. Like really good, not just "your best". Obviously a good photo can't make you chad, but idk try to pick one that makes you look better than you look irl instead of worse, and also that makes you seem like a normie with a social life (as in project that character even if it's only you in the pic). If your best pics aren't good enough just take new ones for the occasion imo

That way maybe you'll get some matches. Otherwise it'll be rope fuel and really depressing.

Your friend sounds like a bit of a redpiller but at least you can vent to him and he cares about you. I'm glad you have a good family too tbh.

What your friend did isn't completely ok though because he invalidated your struggle. Your low self esteem isn't unwarranted, there's a reason for it and it's the way people treat you. You're not imagining things. Also being nice, funny etc doesn't get anyone anywhere.

You mentioned you're autistic. Be careful with not following social rules. In case you didn't realize, they're really arbitrary and strict. I'm not autistic myself but I struggle with this tbh because my parents are bullies, so I spent the first 20 years of my life socially isolated, and recovering from that is extremely hard. My advice would be to just mimic what normies do when in doubt. Like shamelessly copy as much as you can. Go to a normie instagram and copy his outfit, selfie style (or better yet, a few of them and combine ideas)... Who cares. You're not supposed to actually be yourself, that only works for normies who are subconsciously the same as everyone else, so they effortlessly fit in, but not us.

Good luck brocel I legit hope tinder works out.