Discussion unpopular opinion: being non NT is a death sentence

[Tenshi]

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I think only extremely good looks can compensate for your lack of social skills and your mental crippleness. The more autistic and mental you are, the more looks you'll need to compensate it. I've seen guys close to my PSL with girls but they're usually NT or very social.

I think I never saw any mental dude, autistic, extremely shy with social anxiety or a personality disorder dating anyone. Except for the dark triad ones. I think if you're just ugly you can cope with life despite your lack of success with women, but when you're mental there's just no way to escape or cope, there's no ascension to your mind, it's broken from the beginning. tbh most mental guys will rope eventually.

I hate being non NT.

 

[Diocel]

and here we go again.

 

[muharremabi]

Non-NT just means you're ugly.

 

[Daydreamincel]

and here we go again.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Kinda true for normies.

Thing is that our mental illnesses were often connected to our looks and how we were treated for them.

However, important to note that women are not sexually attracted to normies, they might date them and fuck them, but they are never truly attracted to them.

As for the good looks, it depends. Chad (8) is good enough to compensate. Chadlite (7) can be semi autistic and get away with it also.

Most normies are indeed NT though. but I guess outliers can exist.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Another problem with being fucked in the head is that it ruins your capacity for success. However things like social anxiety, personality disorders, even ptsd can be an indirect result of being ugly, due to getting consistently poor responses from people throughout life. So ugliness and being non-nt are at the very least heavily correlated.

 

[Coulan]

On top of being ugly, Im very high inhib and shy

 

[shii410]

there is no such thing as an autistic Chad, just a quirky Chad. he can have all the traits of autism but it isn't a "disorder" because that would imply there's something wrong with him. he will be successful and liked by everyone he knows regardless of what he does or how he acts, so he'll never be labeled as "autistic" like an unattractive man, just "shy" or "awkward". Chad's parents will never think "you know, there's something not quite right about our son, we should seek a diagnosis for him"

 

[Tenshi]

Non-NT just means you're ugly.

not always

I knew guys back in school that looked worse than I do and still were NT. They were normies in the head despite the looks so idk, too many variables playing a role in this. If lucky one of these can even "ascend", and I've seen it before.

As for non NT, I am about to see an ascension from a sub8 male.

 

[The Abyss]

Being ugly with autism on top fucks you in many ways, not just sexually. It's a multiplier & it sucks.

 

[Tenshi]

Kinda true for normies.

Thing is that our mental illnesses were often connected to our looks and how we were treated for them.

However, important to note that women are not sexually attracted to normies, they might date them and fuck them, but they are never truly attracted to them.

As for the good looks, it depends. Chad (8) is good enough to compensate. Chadlite (7) can be semi autistic and get away with it also.

Most normies are indeed NT though. but I guess outliers can exist.

one thing I've noticed so far is that while good looking autistic/non NT guys can still get laid, it seems to be very difficult for them to find/keep a long term relationship

Another problem with being fucked in the head is that it ruins your capacity for success. However things like social anxiety, personality disorders, even ptsd can be an indirect result of being ugly, due to getting consistently poor responses from people throughout life. So ugliness and being non-nt are at the very least heavily correlated.

In my case I'm pretty sure the two things are correlated, but who knows I came pretty much crippled from womb so maybe I could cope better with life having a healthy mind. Who knows...

On top of being ugly, Im very high inhib and shy

I feel you bro

 

[Deleted member 20811]

Being ugly with autism on top fucks you in many ways, not just sexually. It's a multiplier & it sucks.

 

[Smitty]

"No Autism isnt a disorder its just a different way of thinking, look at these rich guys they became successfull engineer and scientists"

 

[Tenshi]

Being ugly with autism on top fucks you in many ways, not just sexually. It's a multiplier & it sucks.

In my first year of middle school there was an autistic kid in my class. I roughly remember how things were back then, but I do remember trying to talk to this kid and he didn't replied me and acted really weird. He'd also leave class randomly (I guess whanever he felt anxious).

Now, one thing I can remember for sure is that I felt afraid of this kid weirdness and I never talked to him again. Just wondering if people feel a similar thing with all kinds of non NT behavior...

 

[Smitty]

In my first year of middle school there was an autistic kid in my class. I roughly remember how things were back then, but I do remember trying to talk to this kid and he didn't replied me and acted really weird. He'd also leave class randomly (I guess whanever he felt anxious).

Now, one thing I can remember for sure is that I felt afraid of this kid weirdness and I never talked to him again. Just wondering if people feel a similar thing with all kinds of non NT behavior...

Poor guy, if you are ALmaxxed its over

 

[The Abyss]

In my first year of middle school there was an autistic kid in my class. I roughly remember how things were back then, but I do remember trying to talk to this kid and he didn't replied me and acted really weird. He'd also leave class randomly (I guess whanever he felt anxious).

Now, one thing I can remember for sure is that I felt afraid of this kid weirdness and I never talked to him again. Just wondering if people feel a similar thing with all kinds of non NT behavior...

It definitely puts normies off that's for sure, creeps them out or makes them feel uncomfortable which is ironic.

 

[AAAAAAAAAAAcel]

On top of being ugly, Im very high inhib and shy

you're shy because you're ugly

 

[Coulan]

you're shy because you're ugly

Not really, i was shy since i was like 4, i was decent looking as a kid

 

[AAAAAAAAAAAcel]

Not really, i was shy since i was like 4, i was decent looking as a kid

At 4 you can't really call yourself shy or not, it's more about being active or not, you still don't have consciousness of yourself etc.

In any case if you were good looking you wouldn't be shy now

 

[Personalityinkwell]

one thing I've noticed so far is that while good looking autistic/non NT guys can still get laid, it seems to be very difficult for them to find/keep a long term relationship

There might be some truth to this ngl

 

[Joelossus]

Tbh, i would probably need to be a 8/10 to make up for all my mental issues.

 

[Neggr]

and here we go again.