Is being ND really as bad as people say it is?

[no love found]

for the longest time I didn’t know about psychology, so I couldn’t really label anything I saw, although I knew when someone was “off” or “different”. Recently I have became friends with a couple mildly autistic guys, and it doesn’t seem to bother them that much. I still don’t know much about how the brain works, but I’m starting to suspect that some people on this site blame their bad life on being “ND” rather than being ugly or slow or lazy. I think it would be easy for someone to use that as a scapegoat, the same way some people blame almost everything on the Jews

 

[no love found]

Not trying to be rude, I’m just genuinely curious. Is it actually as bad as people say?

Either way, being normal isn’t enough to get a date. Being polite and well adjusted doesn’t get you far, you need to be super charismatic and interesting

 

[cathuluelitist]

Nah, it's the worse thing to get burdened with. It's a standalone destructive trait. You basically become incapable of real intimacy at the extreme ends and you're more likely to be hyperreal to everything so you can't enjoy anything. ND curse can even wreck chad probably.

 

[St3v3Cel]

ND curse can even wreck chad probably.

 

[thechosenorder]

Not trying to be rude, I’m just genuinely curious. Is it actually as bad as people say

Yes.

 

[shyloser]

Yeah

 

[NIGGA BANBAN]

Not trying to be rude, I’m just genuinely curious. Is it actually as bad as people say?

Either way, being normal isn’t enough to get a date. Being polite and well adjusted doesn’t get you far, you need to be super charismatic and interesting

I'll put it up like this.ND doesn't just ruin your dating. It obliterates everything about your life. If you're on the extreme levels of ND, not even fellow incels/autistic men will want to be near you. That's how bad it is

 

[PLS HALP ME]

I'll put it up like this.ND doesn't just ruin your dating. It obliterates everything about your life. If you're on the extreme levels of ND, not even fellow incels/autistic men will want to be near you. That's how bad it is

That's brutal, man. I think I have schizophrenia.

 

[semir mujic]

Its a fate worse than death

 

[no love found]

Shit ok. I did not realize it was that bad. My condolences y’all. I guess being a failed normie isn’t the worst fate

 

[thechosenorder]

I could have been so much more if I weren’t autistic. I’ll never stop grieving what it has taken from my life

 

[thechosenorder]

Its a fate worse than death

It really is

 

[Violet loner]

It's kinda bad, but i think it's not that devastating as bad looks in personal relationships

 

[NIGGA BANBAN]

Its a fate worse than death

This. Autistic men, especially ones that fly too close to sun, get bullied everywhere

 

[nihilum]

It's over if you are autistic.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

Being ND is a death sentence for sub 7 men. Autism makes everything good in life unattainable. Many autists can't find partners, jobs, or friends. It's like a life spent in solitary confinement.

 

[GloriousMisanthrope]

Many autists can't find partners, jobs, or friends. It's like a life spent in solitary confinement.

 

[no love found]

Do any of you think that it might be cured by science in the future?

 

[2006cel]

ND curse can even wreck chad probably.

 

[2006cel]

Nobody wants to be neurodivergent. You literally won't have any benefits from it.

 

[cathuluelitist]

Do any of you think that it might be cured by science in the future?

They would have to pretty much shut your brain down so probably not.

 

[whiteboyhair]

Being neurodivergent can contribute to your inceldom, but the real cause of inceldom is women finding 80% of men unattractive. Being NT does not help the ugly. If you are non-NT and struggling, it’s because of your looks. Good looking people are rarely socially ostracized.