Is being ND really as bad as people say it is?

[no love found]

for the longest time I didn’t know about psychology, so I couldn’t really label anything I saw, although I knew when someone was “off” or “different”. Recently I have became friends with a couple mildly autistic guys, and it doesn’t seem to bother them that much. I still don’t know much about how the brain works, but I’m starting to suspect that some people on this site blame their bad life on being “ND” rather than being ugly or slow or lazy. I think it would be easy for someone to use that as a scapegoat, the same way some people blame almost everything on the Jews

 

[no love found]

Not trying to be rude, I’m just genuinely curious. Is it actually as bad as people say?

Either way, being normal isn’t enough to get a date. Being polite and well adjusted doesn’t get you far, you need to be super charismatic and interesting

 

[cathuluelitist]

Nah, it's the worse thing to get burdened with. It's a standalone destructive trait. You basically become incapable of real intimacy at the extreme ends and you're more likely to be hyperreal to everything so you can't enjoy anything. ND curse can even wreck chad probably.

 

[St3v3Cel]

ND curse can even wreck chad probably.

 

[Akedia]

Not trying to be rude, I’m just genuinely curious. Is it actually as bad as people say

Yes.

 

[shyloser]

Yeah

 

[NIGGA BANBAN]

Not trying to be rude, I’m just genuinely curious. Is it actually as bad as people say?

Either way, being normal isn’t enough to get a date. Being polite and well adjusted doesn’t get you far, you need to be super charismatic and interesting

I'll put it up like this.ND doesn't just ruin your dating. It obliterates everything about your life. If you're on the extreme levels of ND, not even fellow incels/autistic men will want to be near you. That's how bad it is

 

[PLS HALP ME]

I'll put it up like this.ND doesn't just ruin your dating. It obliterates everything about your life. If you're on the extreme levels of ND, not even fellow incels/autistic men will want to be near you. That's how bad it is

That's brutal, man. I think I have schizophrenia.

 

[semir mujic]

Its a fate worse than death

 

[no love found]

Shit ok. I did not realize it was that bad. My condolences y’all. I guess being a failed normie isn’t the worst fate

 

[Akedia]

I could have been so much more if I weren’t autistic. I’ll never stop grieving what it has taken from my life

 

[Akedia]

Its a fate worse than death

It really is

 

[Violet loner]

It's kinda bad, but i think it's not that devastating as bad looks in personal relationships

 

[NIGGA BANBAN]

Its a fate worse than death

This. Autistic men, especially ones that fly too close to sun, get bullied everywhere

 

[nihilum]

It's over if you are autistic.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

Being ND is a death sentence for sub 7 men. Autism makes everything good in life unattainable. Many autists can't find partners, jobs, or friends. It's like a life spent in solitary confinement.

 

[GloriousMisanthrope]

Many autists can't find partners, jobs, or friends. It's like a life spent in solitary confinement.

 

[no love found]

Do any of you think that it might be cured by science in the future?

 

[2006cel]

ND curse can even wreck chad probably.

 

[2006cel]

Nobody wants to be neurodivergent. You literally won't have any benefits from it.

 

[cathuluelitist]

Do any of you think that it might be cured by science in the future?

They would have to pretty much shut your brain down so probably not.

 

[whiteboyhair]

Being neurodivergent can contribute to your inceldom, but the real cause of inceldom is women finding 80% of men unattractive. Being NT does not help the ugly. If you are non-NT and struggling, it’s because of your looks. Good looking people are rarely socially ostracized.

 

[Peroz Shapur]

Even if you're not diagnosed as ND, or are NT but close to being ND, you'll still be treated as a ND freak.

 

[Yabadadabadoo]

its not bad unless you are extremely high-inhib or ugly

 

[ndltn]

It's fucking over if you're ND, and not at least 7/10 + 6ft 5. Even if you're average looking, you will receive subhuman treatment from normies, and you will be severely bullied by them. It's a hellish existence if you have sub5 looks and aspergers, you will be a target and traumatised by cruel normies. Studies show that the majority of people with aspergers are bullied in school.

Foids will sniff your neurodivergence in an instant, and you will not be able to communicate effectively with a foid. You will be oblivious to indicators of interest as well. This is why you need to be at least HTN to offset the ND curse.

If ND didn't matter why are men with aspergers significantly more likely to be incel and virgin?

 

[ndltn]

Being ND is a death sentence for sub 7 men. Autism makes everything good in life unattainable. Many autists can't find partners, jobs, or friends. It's like a life spent in solitary confinement.

 

[Mehmet410]

Its even worse. At best, people will dislike and ignore you. At worst, they will actively bully, dehumanize, ostracize, belittle, and abuse you. Not some of them. Not a plurality or majority of them. Every... single... one. And that's your life for about 75 years. Null and void.

 

[XUn0rth0doxS0rrowsX]

Yes.

 

[BasedGoyslopReviews]

its a death sentence. If u want to achieve intimacy as a ND u need genuine model tier looks to compensate. Its very hard to live. I dont think im even capable of a fully independent life, loneliness aside.

 

[INVERTER]

its a death sentence. If u want to achieve intimacy as a ND u need genuine model tier looks to compensate. Its very hard to live. I dont think im even capable of a fully independent life, loneliness aside.

I don't believe I have ever seen a good looking genuine autist. Is that even possible? I know there are LARPers

 

[BasedGoyslopReviews]

I don't believe I have ever seen a good looking genuine autist. Is that even possible? I know there are LARPers

let me introduce you to the Sean O'Tism pill


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jrqpn60d4A


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVQKxav1NFM

these 2 are so autistic they are incapable of human speech
yet
there are thousands of foids thirsting over them
suddenly they dont care about consent. they would molest these dudes for a few extra mm of bone

 

[yeetbender_]

Only if you had something that could be fumbled In the first place.

 

[INVERTER]

let me introduce you to the Sean O'Tism pill


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jrqpn60d4A


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVQKxav1NFM

these 2 are so autistic they are incapable of human speech
yet
there are thousands of foids thirsting over them
suddenly they dont care about consent. they would molest these dudes for a few extra mm of bone

Maybe the first kid. The second kid looks pretty dorky and is a framelet.

I really can't stand the baby talk these women do with these severe autists but maybe it has "benefits". It seems more like virtue signaling for an audience. You just know if you didn't do the baby talk at the level of these foids, they would proclaim you are a terrible person

 

[BasedGoyslopReviews]

Maybe the first kid. The second kid looks pretty dorky and is a framelet.

regardless of what i think, foids are thirsting and i fucking hate it. If I thirsted over fuckable autist disabled chick i would be a monster.
what i notice about these damaged kids is foids make it all about themselves. Their kids truecel life is nothing in the face of them being able to brag and virtue signal about having a special token kid

 

[INVERTER]

regardless of what i think, foids are thirsting and i fucking hate it. If I thirsted over fuckable autist disabled chick i would be a monster.
what i notice about these damaged kids is foids make it all about themselves. Their kids truecel life is nothing in the face of them being able to brag and virtue signal about having a special token kid

And if someone like us interacted with their kid in any way and didn't use the same level of patronizing baby talk they would declare us "bad" people.

 

[shitciety]

ND + ugly = ovah

 

[Tom Daniels]

Second one is a fake, just another Hive larping.

 

[GreerTech Creations]

for the longest time I didn’t know about psychology, so I couldn’t really label anything I saw, although I knew when someone was “off” or “different”. Recently I have became friends with a couple mildly autistic guys, and it doesn’t seem to bother them that much. I still don’t know much about how the brain works, but I’m starting to suspect that some people on this site blame their bad life on being “ND” rather than being ugly or slow or lazy. I think it would be easy for someone to use that as a scapegoat, the same way some people blame almost everything on the Jews

Depends on how neurodivergent you are and what type you have.

 

[The Judge]

Being ND is a death sentence for sub 7 men. Autism makes everything good in life unattainable. Many autists can't find partners, jobs, or friends. It's like a life spent in solitary confinement.

Aptly said.

Speaking as someone who was diagnosed from a young age, I feel deliberately isolated from every facet of life. All I can do is observe others.

 

[Symbalar]

If you're on the extreme levels of ND, not even fellow incels/autistic men will want to be near you.

Relatable. Is not too bad because I'm 5´11 strong looking ogre.

 

[druid]

for the longest time I didn’t know about psychology, so I couldn’t really label anything I saw, although I knew when someone was “off” or “different”. Recently I have became friends with a couple mildly autistic guys, and it doesn’t seem to bother them that much. I still don’t know much about how the brain works, but I’m starting to suspect that some people on this site blame their bad life on being “ND” rather than being ugly or slow or lazy. I think it would be easy for someone to use that as a scapegoat, the same way some people blame almost everything on the Jews

It depends being ND is a spectrum you can be slightly so and still somehow make some friends, if you're too much ND people will want to kill you

 

[no love found]

Brutal. Very eye opening

 

[ttkm07]

ND curse can even wreck chad probably