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Serious Typical NT traits/hobbies

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  • Physical hobbies:
    • Diving
    • Surfing
    • Mountain climbing/trekking
    • Dancing (a must-have for NTs; have yet to meet a single NT that doesn't dance or wants people to join a dancing club)
    • Visiting the gym (mostly to acquire a six pack and some biceps - but never extremely much, just the start/beginning of it)
  • Typical places where NTs accumulate:
    • almost everything EuRopeAn for Americunts/Chadstralians
    • the 3rd world -especially the poor countries in Africa/Asia (for entitled caucasian frontholes with a world improvement fetish)
    • for EuRopeAns: Australia (the fucking party Nr.1, not a single rich/successful woman/normalfag wasn't there), Costa Rica/Panama, etc.
    • giga-NT-places: California, Australia, the Maledives, the Canary Islands
    • for older NTs/boomer-tards: Tuscany (especially Florence), Sardinia/Corsica, Mallorca, everything in Greece
  • Typical mental activities NTs participate in:
    • learning new languages (the biggest NT trait!)
    • caring for animals (mostly dogs/cats, sometimes also birds/fish, very rare reptiles/amphibians and most seldomly invertebrates; maybe also plants)
    • consuming uncontroversial/popular media (reading manifestos or controversial books is something that NTs never do); especially when critics applaud it; often they act like the biggest cinema critics of all time for criticizing Michael Bay and calling some movies childish (only for Marvel exceptions can be found); reading books is often done to some degree by NTs (reading no books or too many is a non-NT-trait generally speaking)
  • Typical jobs for NTs:
    • banker/manager
    • doctor
 
Nice list which reads like a car manual. Germancel-tier post, tbh.
 
Nice thread and rundown, though to this list of hobbies and activities I would add that normies seem to very rarely show up alone and looking for friends.
They're either a) with a group b) coasting through while their mind is mostly preoccupied with their real friends back at home/school

What I'm getting at, is that if you barge in there hoping to befriend NTs, it doesn't work all that great, because NTs basically use good social success at school, at work, and in the neighborhood, as a springboard for creating a friend group FIRST.

With this friend group they will then:
a) go on activities to have fun, even if it's just going to the mall or park or whatever, making them not that interested in strangers
b) spend most of their mental energy even if the friend group is not present with them, which is why they will dash from a hobby and leave early and find it weird that someone wants to be their new friend

Maybe I've got it wrong but this is the reason why I feel that just "le go outside" doesn't work so well.
 
Nice thread and rundown, though to this list of hobbies and activities I would add that normies seem to very rarely show up alone and looking for friends.
They're either a) with a group b) coasting through while their mind is mostly preoccupied with their friends back at home/school

What I'm getting at, is that if you barge in there hoping to befriend NTs, it doesn't work all that great, because NTs basically use good social success at school, at work, and in the neighborhood, as a springboard for creating a friend group FIRST.

With this friend group they will then:
a) go on activities to have fun, even if it's just going to the mall or park or whatever, making them not that interested in strangers
b) spend most of their mental energy even if the friend group is not present with them, which is why they will dash from a hobby and leave early and find it weird that someone wants to be their new friend

Maybe I've got it wrong but this is the reason why I feel that just "le go outside" doesn't work so well.
Same, I feel like an outsider whenever I try social activities to get some friends. It is basically me and normie friend groups doing the thing in parallel with no interaction between us.
 
Same, I feel like an outsider whenever I try social activities to get some friends. It is basically me and normie friend groups doing the thing in parallel with no interaction between us.
Yes and it's obvious that they formed the friend group BEFORE this activity.
 
Yes and it's obvious that they formed the friend group BEFORE this activity.
It's basically like dudes buying stuff in online games.

"Look dude, I kill every one, I'm pro" "No shit you used moms credit card to buy that gun"

"Look dude, I have all those friends from board game club" "No shit, you already had them before"

Even in benign settings like this one, normies will cheat and screw us over.
 
Yes and it's obvious that they formed the friend group BEFORE this activity.
Yes, this is also my thesis. Social groups form in the early months of university/vocational training/school, afterwards it is mostly said and done and then you have an exclusivistic society.
 
Yes, this is also my thesis. Social groups form in the early months of university/vocational training/school, afterwards it is mostly said and done and then you have an exclusivistic society.
Which kind of school did you go to? And what prevented the formation of your social group?
 
Yes, this is also my thesis. Social groups form in the early months of university/vocational training/school, afterwards it is mostly said and done and then you have an exclusivistic society.
Pretty disingenous of normies to go "le go outside" when the popularity contest of being in school or being out-and-about in the neighborhood basically determines your whole life.
 
Pretty disingenous of normies to go "le go outside" when the popularity contest of being in school or being out-and-about in the neighborhood basically determines your whole life.
Exactly, I just wish I was less inhib as a child.
 
Exactly, I just wish I was less inhib as a child.
Same but honestly I was very low inhib to start with, normies chipped away at it aggressively making me more high inhib, because social competition was already extremely high in the early 2000s and people would find any excuse to put you down.
 
Same but honestly I was very low inhib to start with, normies chipped away at it aggressively making me more high inhib, because social competition was already extremely high in the early 2000s and people would find any excuse to put you down.
Yes, low inhib to the point of being the "weird guy" or the "dude that fights" at school is bad too (perhaps worse)
 
Which kind of school did you go to?
In my country we have different options after elementary school (which again vary in difficulty between the different smaller countries):
  • Sonderschule/Special school: for extremely aggressive or severly disabled students, most jobs (~90%) are completely unavailable for you
  • Hauptschule: the lowest form of "real" education, widely frowned upon, doesn't even allow you to enter most jobs with vocational training (you can for example become a mechanic/electrician with that)
  • Realschule: the average form of education, allows you to enter most forms of jobs with vocational training (like businessman/salesman)
  • Gymnasium: the highest form of education - at least a few years ago-, nowadays it is basically a requirement to go there and almost everyone goes there, allows you to study, your grades decide what you can study (if your grades are bad you have to wait for extremely long times); for example: Medicine/pharmacy/veterinary medicine needs you to have an A-level (better than 1.3 on average), Biology/chemistry at least a B-Level (but most unis dgaf about that anymore)
  • There are enormous differences between the countries - getting A-levels in NRW is laughably easy (most forms of geometry aren't even taught), getting A-levels in Bavaria/Saxony/etc. is still hard work (unless you go to a private school - richer relatives of mine went there and 50% of the school graduated with A-levels)
I went to a public gymnasium in one of the hardest places in Germany to go to school, was my entire life an A-student due to being forced by my parents (funny thing: in the places with the hardest school systems you mostly have the strictest parents as well), was mostly morbidly obese and a laughing stock for my class (until losing weight and then being treated like air).
And what prevented the formation of your social group?
Autism/Asperger's syndrome - was even for a long time in psychiatric care due to it (from kindergarden to 5th/6th grade, with a revisit in the 9/11th grade due to disciplinary issues and afterwards a strict refusal to enter any form of psychological evaluation again).
 
In my country we have different options after elementary school (which again vary in difficulty between the different smaller countries):
  • Sonderschule/Special school: for extremely aggressive or severly disabled students, most jobs (~90%) are completely unavailable for you
  • Hauptschule: the lowest form of "real" education, widely frowned upon, doesn't even allow you to enter most jobs with vocational training (you can for example become a mechanic/electrician with that)
  • Realschule: the average form of education, allows you to enter most forms of jobs with vocational training (like businessman/salesman)
  • Gymnasium: the highest form of education - at least a few years ago-, nowadays it is basically a requirement to go there and almost everyone goes there, allows you to study, your grades decide what you can study (if your grades are bad you have to wait for extremely long times); for example: Medicine/pharmacy/veterinary medicine needs you to have an A-level (better than 1.3 on average), Biology/chemistry at least a B-Level (but most unis dgaf about that anymore)
  • There are enormous differences between the countries - getting A-levels in NRW is laughably easy (most forms of geometry aren't even taught), getting A-levels in Bavaria is still hard work (unless you go to a private school - richer relatives of mine went there and 50% of the school graduated with A-levels)
I went to a public gymnasium in one of the hardest places in Germany to go to school, was my entire life an A-student due to being forced by my parents (funny thing: in the places with the hardest school systems you mostly have the strictest parents as well), was mostly morbidly obese and a laughing stock for my class (until losing weight and then being treated like air).

Autism/Asperger's syndrome - was even for a long time in psychiatric care due to it (from kindergarden to 5th/6th grade, with a revisit in the 9/11th grade due to disciplinary issues and afterwards a strict refusal to enter any form of psychological evaluation again).
Do you wish you had just went to Hauptschule and have a fulfilled NT life?
 
Do you wish you had just went to Hauptschule and have a fulfilled NT life?
No idea. I was probably always autistic (and not just one with a wrong diagnosis who was just socially isolated), I always had ticks, never looked people in the eyes, had particular interests that nobody else shared and was emotionally distant/unavailable while getting away from body contact. Was shitty back then because they still had attachment therapy which is probably the worst way to treat Autism.
 
No idea. I was probably always autistic (and not just one with a wrong diagnosis who was just socially isolated), I always had ticks, never looked people in the eyes, had particular interests that nobody else shared and was emotionally distant/unavailable while getting away from body contact. Was shitty back then because they still had attachment therapy which is probably the worst way to treat Autism.
Ah, agree. But it seems your autism is gone, because your posting style or lack of understanding does not match that of -BrettyBoy-
 
Ah, agree. But it seems your autism is gone, because your posting style or lack of understanding does not match that of -BrettyBoy-
Maybe it was also a wrong diagnosis, my symptoms match also with NVLD, I also had many other diagnoses as a child (from organic problems to ADHD).
 
Do you wish you had just went to Hauptschule and have a fulfilled NT life?
I for one kind of do.
While the path of using your mind to make good money later in life exists it's a very long and circuitous path with dubious improvements in life quality, and I know plenty of working class guys with excellent GFs for nowadays. (avg face, big boobs, stupid and docile)
 
Yes, this is also my thesis. Social groups form in the early months of university/vocational training/school, afterwards it is mostly said and done and then you have an exclusivistic society.
big truth :feelsrope:
 

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