Here's the expansive (but not yet inclusive enough with more ideas yet to add) list of incel traits, which could evolve to truecel if you're doomed to perennial miserable existence.
This is coming from my experience as I progress to being the 50-year old virgin who never had a girlfriend in my life.
1. Eating out once in a while (or sometimes if one can afford to waste money) to dine indoors (aching for social connection).
Visit favorite restaurants or curiously trying restaurants by going inside to dine-in, or order takeout.
Using apps like Doordash, Uber Eats and Instacart is a vast waste of money unless one can afford to spend while still a shut-in (or when sick as bedridden like when I had a Covid Omicron variant that made me waste money on Doordash and Instacart shit with exorbitant fees plus obligatory good tipping to ensure I get service and don't piss off delivery drivers with no or shitty tip as insult).
Buy groceries and essentials (on welfare money like EBT and Benefits Nation, or your own money from job) to eat junk food and beverage at home. Visiting grocery store once in a while or frequent is coping, for social connectedness by interaction, even if one is despondent and never talk during transaction then leave to go home.
2. Video and computer gaming as distraction from thinking about one's existence.
Better absorbed in one's world if it's Internet connected to interact with people, that includes voice chat. Examples - the first person action, fighting and world-building games.
3. Going outdoors by driving aimlessly or for errands just to get out of the home during the day or night. One who can't afford to own motor vehicle might go outdoors to ride public transit or bike for a while, just to alleviate the nihilistic and depressive feeling as a shut-in.
4. Hustling on app-based gigs to make a side income for a short while or for long hours (with break intervals to relax and not be stressed like overworking) like it's a job to feel better. Even if pay is shit and customers are dumb, vain, entitled low IQ sex-haver foid cunts and chad assholes.
5. Pornography addiction as a coomer/coombrain.
Fap to hardcore pornography on the Internet daily and, after ejaculation, might feel like shit as ashamed, lonely and pathetic. One might visit adult stores to browse and buy stuff like porn video or magazine (some convenience stores sell porn magazines with porn DVD enclosed as a bonus as incentivizing bait).
Pornography addiction includes "obsession" with lurking in livestream webcam model porn web sites to watch (until IP-banned forever if spotted and caught - watch as logged-out guest to be safe lol) to fap to sex acts, and occassionally drop "tokens" to elicit attention by a webcam model to interact with and request action according to model's token menu. I've been a webcam porn lurker/paying client coomer for 2 decades now.
Never, ever expect the attractive webcam model foids to have the IRL relationship with you (except [maybe] findom -- financial domination to suck money out of well-off or wage slave simps).
Look what happened to the ultimate coomer simp idiot Grant Amato who fell so madly in love with a foid who lives in a foreign country that he stole money and committed murders. Look him up.
6. Go to the library to hang out all day or evening.
Even for using the computer with time limit for aimless Internet surfing, playing games, writing letters on the word processor to print to send mail or deliver and other purposes. Browse newsprint, magazine and book shelves to read to pass the time if one is underemployed or chronically unemployed.
(Anecdote: I was banned for three years [including civil injunction against me] by the local library for sexual harassment and "stalking" a stupid librarian cunt foid who "subverted" me with her bizarre ambvialent behavior for months; she spied on me as a monitor witnessing my offensive works intended for people via print preview portal.)
7. Go to the special events to hang out or watch for amusement or entertainment. Such as specialty/special interest/hobby conventions, air shows, and even political party nominating events.
8. Go to the movies once in a while.
Though it'll remind you of being forever alone unless the movie is very good or excellent as absorbing storytelling. (I had the first and last date -- only date I ever got when i had the balls to ask her out at college -- with a woman to see the movie Titanic back in 1998.) Never watch "stupid" romantic/romcom movies and other genres of movies, depending on plot, as a lonely moviegoer--it might annoy and disturb you to anger.
9. Go to the gym or recreation center for exercise and swimming for mental wellness and self-improvement.
I did this when I was trying to improve myself as a gymcel. I gave up after at least 4 years cuz it never led to me finding a reciprocal gf anyway. These places take your money with exorbitant membership fee with hidden fees such as cancellation fee.
10. Indulging in hobbies. Outside of frequent Internet use, any hobby.
I collect (preferably vintage) comic books, some Japanese graphic novels (manga) and comic book related artworks, though I hardly read them because of my depression. I would read comics when I recover with a steady job, though that might never come. Yes, I spend lots of money (welfare $) on my hobby. Comic book reading was my childhood pastime, therefore I was trying to "live by" nostalgia by comic book collecting hobby.
This is coming from my experience as I progress to being the 50-year old virgin who never had a girlfriend in my life.
1. Eating out once in a while (or sometimes if one can afford to waste money) to dine indoors (aching for social connection).
Visit favorite restaurants or curiously trying restaurants by going inside to dine-in, or order takeout.
Using apps like Doordash, Uber Eats and Instacart is a vast waste of money unless one can afford to spend while still a shut-in (or when sick as bedridden like when I had a Covid Omicron variant that made me waste money on Doordash and Instacart shit with exorbitant fees plus obligatory good tipping to ensure I get service and don't piss off delivery drivers with no or shitty tip as insult).
Buy groceries and essentials (on welfare money like EBT and Benefits Nation, or your own money from job) to eat junk food and beverage at home. Visiting grocery store once in a while or frequent is coping, for social connectedness by interaction, even if one is despondent and never talk during transaction then leave to go home.
2. Video and computer gaming as distraction from thinking about one's existence.
Better absorbed in one's world if it's Internet connected to interact with people, that includes voice chat. Examples - the first person action, fighting and world-building games.
3. Going outdoors by driving aimlessly or for errands just to get out of the home during the day or night. One who can't afford to own motor vehicle might go outdoors to ride public transit or bike for a while, just to alleviate the nihilistic and depressive feeling as a shut-in.
4. Hustling on app-based gigs to make a side income for a short while or for long hours (with break intervals to relax and not be stressed like overworking) like it's a job to feel better. Even if pay is shit and customers are dumb, vain, entitled low IQ sex-haver foid cunts and chad assholes.
5. Pornography addiction as a coomer/coombrain.
Fap to hardcore pornography on the Internet daily and, after ejaculation, might feel like shit as ashamed, lonely and pathetic. One might visit adult stores to browse and buy stuff like porn video or magazine (some convenience stores sell porn magazines with porn DVD enclosed as a bonus as incentivizing bait).
Pornography addiction includes "obsession" with lurking in livestream webcam model porn web sites to watch (until IP-banned forever if spotted and caught - watch as logged-out guest to be safe lol) to fap to sex acts, and occassionally drop "tokens" to elicit attention by a webcam model to interact with and request action according to model's token menu. I've been a webcam porn lurker/paying client coomer for 2 decades now.
Never, ever expect the attractive webcam model foids to have the IRL relationship with you (except [maybe] findom -- financial domination to suck money out of well-off or wage slave simps).
Look what happened to the ultimate coomer simp idiot Grant Amato who fell so madly in love with a foid who lives in a foreign country that he stole money and committed murders. Look him up.
6. Go to the library to hang out all day or evening.
Even for using the computer with time limit for aimless Internet surfing, playing games, writing letters on the word processor to print to send mail or deliver and other purposes. Browse newsprint, magazine and book shelves to read to pass the time if one is underemployed or chronically unemployed.
(Anecdote: I was banned for three years [including civil injunction against me] by the local library for sexual harassment and "stalking" a stupid librarian cunt foid who "subverted" me with her bizarre ambvialent behavior for months; she spied on me as a monitor witnessing my offensive works intended for people via print preview portal.)
7. Go to the special events to hang out or watch for amusement or entertainment. Such as specialty/special interest/hobby conventions, air shows, and even political party nominating events.
8. Go to the movies once in a while.
Though it'll remind you of being forever alone unless the movie is very good or excellent as absorbing storytelling. (I had the first and last date -- only date I ever got when i had the balls to ask her out at college -- with a woman to see the movie Titanic back in 1998.) Never watch "stupid" romantic/romcom movies and other genres of movies, depending on plot, as a lonely moviegoer--it might annoy and disturb you to anger.
9. Go to the gym or recreation center for exercise and swimming for mental wellness and self-improvement.
I did this when I was trying to improve myself as a gymcel. I gave up after at least 4 years cuz it never led to me finding a reciprocal gf anyway. These places take your money with exorbitant membership fee with hidden fees such as cancellation fee.
10. Indulging in hobbies. Outside of frequent Internet use, any hobby.
I collect (preferably vintage) comic books, some Japanese graphic novels (manga) and comic book related artworks, though I hardly read them because of my depression. I would read comics when I recover with a steady job, though that might never come. Yes, I spend lots of money (welfare $) on my hobby. Comic book reading was my childhood pastime, therefore I was trying to "live by" nostalgia by comic book collecting hobby.
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