By exclusivity I mean having exclusive or close to that, access to a person, group, item etc that is in some way enviable or desirable. Now I'm neither referring to something trivial or obvious like you being the only one to use your toothbrush or the only one to know your credit card information or on the other side having an expensive supercar that people are envious off. Instead I'm referring to things in the middle which are realistically possible and available for the average man.
Looking back at my primary and secondary school I never really struggled to start up small talk with guys in my class, but it was always superficial and either related to some school subject or recent event, but as before that is something almost everyone can get so it isn't special. Likewise, I never talked to any of them outside school, nor was I ever invited to go out etc nor was I ever privy to their private conversations etc.
When it comes to nudes of females I saw plenty of them getting leaked on social media or generally on the internet, but it never got me excited as I knew that it was neither intended for me and that probably dozens if not hundreds of other men have seen it. Porn for the same reason is boring to me as where is the exclusivity in a video that millions of others have seen. While just a single nude one can get by chad fishing is much more exciting. This is probably the psychology that OF exploits by deluding these men that they are getting something unique.
Looking back at my primary and secondary school I never really struggled to start up small talk with guys in my class, but it was always superficial and either related to some school subject or recent event, but as before that is something almost everyone can get so it isn't special. Likewise, I never talked to any of them outside school, nor was I ever invited to go out etc nor was I ever privy to their private conversations etc.
When it comes to nudes of females I saw plenty of them getting leaked on social media or generally on the internet, but it never got me excited as I knew that it was neither intended for me and that probably dozens if not hundreds of other men have seen it. Porn for the same reason is boring to me as where is the exclusivity in a video that millions of others have seen. While just a single nude one can get by chad fishing is much more exciting. This is probably the psychology that OF exploits by deluding these men that they are getting something unique.
