It's Over Tried to distance myself from here for a bit, now I’m back and it’s over

[Deleted member 41431]

Had my boba date with this foid classmate. Nothing more than talking, and a hug. No sexual signs of interest. Texted her afterwards and she threw that overused ‘not ready for serious dating/relationship.’ Tried initiating with her again because maybe she’d let me fuck but she’s probably fucking Chad tonight. She probably has an insane n count with her degeneracy of attending frat parties in college.

Had some gathering at my place with family and family friends over today. The parents kept showing off photos of their kids, who are all in relationships now. Everyone except me, even though we all grew up together.

[UWSL]Now it’s my summer break that I’m going to spend alone in my room playing vidya.[/UWSL]

[UWSL]I had my brief experience of hope and possibility that has now been crushed and I’m only going to sink further down into the abyss that is how over it is for me. [/UWSL]

 

[subhuman]

Time to LDAR dude. It's over for you, just give up. It eases the pain

 

[Deleted member 41431]

I’m sorry sir.

Only hope is to keep trying.

Should I even try online dating apps?

I don’t even have any pictures of myself let alone pictures with a social group.

And any human being with functioning mirror neurons will see the desperation and pain in my eyes even if I try to smile in some fake ass profile photo.

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

Welcome back to our shit tier club boyo

 

[Deleted member 41431]

Time to LDAR dude. It's over for you, just give up. It eases the pain

The taste of hope was just too good. For a whole week that was leading up to my date with this girl, I was so giddy and full of emotional energy, and life was so colorful. Even though nothing was real yet, I felt more alive than ever.

 

[bing]

Why do you guys try without

1.gym maxxing
2. Career maxxing
3. Possible social status maxxing

Those things need to be in order before fruitless attempts with women

 

[subhuman]

The taste of hope was just too good. For a whole week that was leading up to my date with this girl, I was so giddy and full of emotional energy, and life was so colorful. Even though nothing was real yet, I felt more alive than ever.

Sounds like foid worship. Wow dude she's like your savior! She will pull you out of the mire and right all the wrongs! This foid is the one who will finally understand you when all the other foids didn't! JFL go simp for some twitch whore and get excited when she reads your donation message. You got your feelings up for nothing.

 

[Deleted member 41431]

Why do you guys try without

1.gym maxxing
2. Career maxxing
3. Possible social status maxxing

Those things need to be in order before fruitless attempts with women

1. True I should gymmaxx but I have a spine condition that might limit me there. Also gym is less relevant than face, or if I’m kpopmaxxing.
2. My classmate is also in the same program so my careermaxx is irrelevant in this case.
3. I tried to socialmaxx and even initiated multiple social events and hangouts but could not integrate into any social circle. Nobody expresses interest in me, and I am not NT enough to be able to enjoy their company, and too introverted to have enough energy to fraud as such.

 

[rope2cope]

 

[Deleted member 41431]

Sounds like foid worship. Wow dude she's like your savior! She will pull you out of the mire and right all the wrongs! This foid is the one who will finally understand you when all the other foids didn't! JFL go simp for some twitch whore and get excited when she reads your donation message. You got your feelings up for nothing.

No it’s not worship because my feelings towards her and towards a previous oneitis were different.

All I wanted was a chance to cum inside this foid, and because of her promiscuous history and her eccentric, sort of naive personality I thought I could manipulate my way into her pussy.

I don’t give a fuck about her validation or even her own feelings much. I just see her as a vessel for ascension, which to me is just losing my virginity and having consensual unpaid sex.

 

[bing]

1. True I should gymmaxx but I have a spine condition that might limit me there. Also gym is less relevant than face, or if I’m kpopmaxxing.
2. My classmate is also in the same program so my careermaxx is irrelevant in this case.
3. I tried to socialmaxx and even initiated multiple social events and hangouts but could not integrate into any social circle. Nobody expresses interest in me, and I am not NT enough to be able to enjoy their company, and too introverted to have enough energy to fraud as such.

I’m sorry bro yeah for #3 it is EXTREMELY difficult as an incel to penetrate social circles. You basically have to rely on a gatekeeper to like you and let you in bro.

That’s a big reason we are incel is we cannot make friends. You may try joining nerdy stuff just to have a bare minimum of low status friends.

Also you can gym max just to lean max. Run 5% bodyfat game it helps

 

[subhuman]

manipulate my way into her pussy

You overdosed on dark triad copium. JFL at all these social rejects who think that all of a sudden they can become master manipulators. You got played yourself.

 

[Deleted member 41431]

I’m sorry bro yeah for #3 it is EXTREMELY difficult as an incel to penetrate social circles. You basically have to rely on a gatekeeper to like you and let you in bro.

That’s a big reason we are incel is we cannot make friends. You may try joining nerdy stuff just to have a bare minimum of low status friends.

Also you can gym max just to lean max. Run 5% bodyfat game it helps

Even when I successfully entered a social circle I could never maintain membership for more than a few months. I always end up ostracized and that feeling of passive rejection in turn led me to break away from the group.

I’m been getting leaner through dietmaxxing (IF / OMAD + less carbs and no sugar). It’s tough because being a rice is a big handicap even if I am not truecel looking.

 

[Deleted member 41431]

Online dating apps are death tbh. Social circle maxxing is the second best way to go, but it requires a lot of investment for little hope of pay off. Sadly dating has no consistency space anymore - it’s all payoff.

I might still have to give the apps a shot. Just to say that I did it, and so I don’t have regrets later about possibilities.

I’m not really concerned about how bad I will feel to get no matches since I have no expectations.

Logistically it’s going to be a challenge though as to how to set up a non autist profile with no pictures at the moment.

 

[bing]

Even when I successfully entered a social circle I could never maintain membership for more than a few months. I always end up ostracized and that feeling of passive rejection in turn led me to break away from the group.

I’m been getting leaner through dietmaxxing (IF / OMAD + less carbs and no sugar). It’s tough because being a rice is a big handicap even if I am not truecel looking.

I’m hapa so I know your pain, I am bullied and ostracized by non Asians and even soy boys repeatedly.

The only way is to have a dominance over the other members of the social group. Whether it is career, looks, whatever it is.

It’s hard to know how to achieve it. Gym maxxing helps. Try getting social skills training as well from therapy (I know it’s cope - but that is your only option for feedback.). Are u diagnosed autistic?

 

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[lemon21]

I'm sorry for your lost hope, really i'm sure i'll have an experience like that this year too. I'm trying too hard to talk with females and i will end up friendzoned for the 100th time or worse ghosted. But what choice do we have other than continue trying? It's a no win game, you either try with the fleeting hope that someday you'll luck out, or you stop trying and feel bad with yourself because maybe there was some chance that you missed. Either way you lose.

Online dating apps are death tbh. Social circle maxxing is the second best way to go, but it requires a lot of investment for little hope of pay off. Sadly dating has no consistency space anymore - it’s all payoff.

If there's any way to get a possible date/gf as an incel is with social circles. There's certainly no hope on tinder/badoo whatever, those are chad territory only. There's little to compete and the women there are the shallowest of the shallow.

 

[텍스트]

Hi again

 

[Deleted member 41431]

I’m hapa so I know your pain, I am bullied and ostracized by non Asians and even soy boys repeatedly.

The only way is to have a dominance over the other members of the social group. Whether it is career, looks, whatever it is.

It’s hard to know how to achieve it. Gym maxxing helps. Try getting social skills training as well from therapy (I know it’s cope - but that is your only option for feedback.). Are u diagnosed autistic?

Losing my inhib and overcoming social anxiety has been huge for me recently. In terms of social skills tho, it’s more like I know what needs to be done (ex: ask questions, show engagement, etc) but I sometimes just can’t bring myself to care enough about the other person.

Is that autism? Just a lack of empathy? Or is that acquired through repeated social rejection.

I’m pretty high functioning in other areas so I’m not sure.

 

[mistersinister]

Your only option is to go ER (in minecraft)

 

[bing]

Losing my inhib and overcoming social anxiety has been huge for me recently. In terms of social skills tho, it’s more like I know what needs to be done (ex: ask questions, show engagement, etc) but I sometimes just can’t bring myself to care enough about the other person.

Is that autism? Just a lack of empathy? Or is that acquired through repeated social rejection.

I’m pretty high functioning in other areas so I’m not sure.

It can be autism but I have a similar problem developed from constant bullying and isolation, it is possible paranoia and negative symptoms of schizophrenia/paranoia cluster A personality traits

 

[Deleted member 41431]

I'm sorry for your lost hope, really i'm sure i'll have an experience like that this year too. I'm trying too hard to talk with females and i will end up friendzoned for the 100th time or worse ghosted. But what choice do we have other than continue trying? It's a no win game, you either try with the fleeting hope that someday you'll luck out, or you stop trying and feel bad with yourself because maybe there was some chance that you missed. Either way you lose.


If there's any way to get a possible date/gf as an incel is with social circles. There's certainly no hope on tinder/badoo whatever, those are chad territory only. There's little to compete and the women there are the shallowest of the shallow.

Yeah the feeling of regret and not seizing possibilities is infinitely worse. Especially knowing how close I came to ascension in the past, and that the reason I wasn’t able to at the time was because of my inaction. It’s not like I have anything better to do besides play vidya, so I might as well try. I sort of see it like living life as an RPG, and just doing shit because I can, and because nothing really matters. But the chance of that 0.001% drop could change my life.

What changed my mind about dating apps are some recent IRL experiences of seeing non-Chads having success, albeit minor, on the apps. Tinder is definitely a nogo, but it looks like Hinge and CMB could offer possibilities for a rice like me.

My stats aren’t truecel so if I can shed the inhib that’s held me back throughout my young adult years then what’s to lose besides my ego if I give it a shot even if I fail horribly.

 

[Deleted member 41431]

It can be autism but I have a similar problem developed from constant bullying and isolation, it is possible paranoia and negative symptoms of schizophrenia/paranoia cluster A personality traits

Probably I am on the more mild end of the spectrum somewhere. I have a cousin with schizophrenia, so it could also be I have some schizoid personality disorder or something like that.

But I have enough self awareness that I can sort of VOD review my social interactions and try to be more NT or more effective the next time.

 

[bing]

Probably I am on the more mild end of the spectrum somewhere. I have a cousin with schizophrenia, so it could also be I have some schizoid personality disorder or something like that.

But I have enough self awareness that I can sort of VOD review my social interactions and try to be more NT or more effective the next time.

Brutal yea my mom has it but if anyone in ur fam has it you probably are exhibiting traits

 

[Deleted member 41431]

Brutal yea my mom has it but if anyone in ur fam has it you probably are exhibiting traits

What’s the way forward then?

Socialmaxxing is almost impossible because I don’t care about people. It’s like if I had to take a class on something I didn’t care about; I wouldn’t be able to put in effort or study for it.

At the same time I desperately crave attention and affection.

 

[bing]

What’s the way forward then?

Socialmaxxing is almost impossible because I don’t care about people. It’s like if I had to take a class on something I didn’t care about; I wouldn’t be able to put in effort or study for it.

At the same time I desperately crave attention and affection.

Escorts, rotting, incel friends, forcing yourself to be interested in them

 

[fjeiru]

what race was she?

 

[Misogynist Curry 卐]

My oneitis has also started ignoring me. I was seeing her as my last hope, thought she's interested in me. But I am gonna be virgin and single forever

 

[InMinecraft]

Time to LDAR dude. It's over for you, just give up. It eases the pain

 

[Deleted member 41431]

what race was she?

She’s white

 

[Mulattocel]

“just because you’re done with the blackpill does not mean the blackpill is done with you”- incel t.v