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To anyone that goes clubbing...

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diedlonely

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How can you stand to be there for more than 10 minutes? Don't get me wrong I've been to clubs a handful of times years ago and I remember hating it the last time I went, not until I got shitfaced did the feeling of not belonging there start to fade away. I had to go for a family birthday event back then so I could justify forcing myself to stay until closing I was basically sitting down all night mixing drinks that shouldn't go together and getting up to use the restroom every now and again.

Tonight I was invited to go out with three other colleagues, we were supposed to go bowling which we did even though most got there half an hour late. I did have fun but then shortly before midnight I get a call asking when I'm going to be home. I should have just left a few minutes after the call but instead got roped into going to the club. We got denied entry into the first two places because one guy didn't have a physical identification on him and they didn't accept picture of said identification on phone. I should have just taken that as a sign and booked a taxi home but instead I kept indulging them trying to convince me to stay.

Safe to say I didn't last 20 minutes before trying to slip out by lying about going to the restroom but one of my colleagues followed me trying to persuade me to stay in place which I had no business being inside of in the first place. I don't find the deafening music, overpriced drinks (which I'm not a drinker in the first place) or the prospect of securing a one night stand appealing anymore. I was able to get a taxi after more than a few attempts and I felt slightly sad one the way home like there was something wrong with me.

I won't be trying again anytime soon.
 
Personally, i feel more anxious and sad when in a club or at a disco, like at home between 4 walls even If i know that socializing should help me but its doing a big nothing to me .
 
Personally, i feel more anxious and sad when in a club or at a disco, like at home between 4 walls even If i know that socializing should help me but its doing a big nothing to me .
Same, there's a bit a anxiety involved. Especially if it's not a club that's moderately big, it feels like I need to get out even if it's to the corridors.
 
Clubbing as an incel is totally cringe. I did it when I was younger and regret every minute of it.
 
Clubbing as an incel is totally cringe. I did it when I was younger and regret every minute of it.

Yeah trying clubbing as an almost 30 incel from a religious family is a no no.
 
It is not nearly as fun as a rave, or house party.
 
Why would a subhuman go muh clubbing, it's normfag central
 
I never go to clubs but the last time I went to a bar, some boomer threatened to kill me.
 
Clubbing as an incel is totally cringe. I did it when I was younger and regret every minute of it.
Doing anything overly social as an incel is cringe. It's important to always be reminded of that when we are considering it.
I never go to clubs but the last time I went to a bar, some boomer threatened to kill me.
I wanna hear that story if you have time to write it.
Why would a subhuman go muh clubbing, it's normfag central
Because you gotta get out there and meet woman bro just approach in real life :feelskek: :feelshaha: :feelsthink:
I went clubbing a few times before turning twenty...how fucking pointless. I just stood in one corner with my incel mate I went with and we just talked about what girls were hot. The times I didn't do that and try approach u know how well it ended if you're here and have tried approaching before.
 
For me clubbing sucks, but casinomaxxing can be comfy :feelskek: :feelskek:
 
I wanna hear that story if you have time to write it.
I went to a bar to watch a band, I was sitting there quietly with my drink and this boomer seemed to be pissed off that I was sat there alone, not talking to anyone. He kept calling me a weirdo, he told me that I didn't belong there and that I should fuck off.

I pressed him back a little and he got even more pissed off that I was standing up for myself, he squared up to me and threatened to kill me. I said the most crazy, sick shit that I could think of back to him, he backed off after that.

I think that he was just looking for a fight, he was trying to act alpha in front of his foid and singled me out because I am skinny and quiet.
 
I went to a bar to watch a band, I was sitting there quietly with my drink and this boomer seemed to be pissed off that I was sat there alone, not talking to anyone. He kept calling me a weirdo, he told me that I didn't belong there and that I should fuck off.

I pressed him back a little and he got even more pissed off that I was standing up for myself, he squared up to me and threatened to kill me. I said the most crazy, sick shit that I could think of back to him, he backed off after that.

I think that he was just looking for a fight, he was trying to act alpha in front of his foid and singled me out because I am skinny and quiet.
He was some bald ugly old white guy who acts redpilled?
It's disgusting how, if what you're saying is true, that was an attempt to increase lms, status.
I can't explain how much I hate normies.
 
He was some bald ugly old white guy who acts redpilled?
It's disgusting how, if what you're saying is true, that was an attempt to increase lms, status.
I can't explain how much I hate normies.
He was actually a bit of a mogger, he was like 50 and had long hair with no balding. The alcohol might have had something to do with it, alcohol brings out the worst in people, they tell you what they really think about you. I've had this shit my whole life, I always get misconstrued as being rude or weird because I am ugly and quiet, I don't understand normies at all.
 
It can be done, you just described me, I'm 31.
Teach me your ways!
Why would a subhuman go muh clubbing, it's normfag central
Sometimes you try to blend in to not seem like a buzzkill all the time.
I never go to clubs but the last time I went to a bar, some boomer threatened to kill me.
Can't say I've ever had that happen in the club or bar, outside those environments it has happened a few times.
For me clubbing sucks, but casinomaxxing can be comfy :feelskek: :feelskek:
Can also become a gateway to becoming a degenerate gambler, not to good for your money.
 
It's utterly pointless to go to clubs / parties as an incel. You get the worst of the experience. Even if you go with friends they will eventually get a girl or try to get one, meanwhile you'll be left alone ackwardly.

I tried to go clubbing when i was younger. Now that i'm in my late 20s? Not a fucking chance. If people from work or friends want to go clubbing with me i just say no, there's not a fucking chance i'll go there to listen to shitty music, not interact with anyone and waste money.

I don't know if it's my lack of looks, Nt or a combination of both. But i've had the shittiest of times when clubbing.

I don't understand normies at all.
They're just pieces of shit that judge your self-worth based on looks.
 
Teach me your ways!

Sometimes you try to blend in to not seem like a buzzkill all the time.

Can't say I've ever had that happen in the club or bar, outside those environments it has happened a few times.

Can also become a gateway to becoming a degenerate gambler, not to good for your money.
Very true. I’m mostly a shutincel these days, but if I had the choice between the two I’d choose casinomaxxing
 
Imagine going to "Normies Only" places.

 
It's utterly pointless to go to clubs / parties as an incel. You get the worst of the experience. Even if you go with friends they will eventually get a girl or try to get one, meanwhile you'll be left alone ackwardly.

I tried to go clubbing when i was younger. Now that i'm in my late 20s? Not a fucking chance. If people from work or friends want to go clubbing with me i just say no, there's not a fucking chance i'll go there to listen to shitty music, not interact with anyone and waste money.

I don't know if it's my lack of looks, Nt or a combination of both. But i've had the shittiest of times when clubbing.

I know it's almost pointless but there's that voice that keeps you hoping maybe the outcome might be different. If only I was allowed to socialize when I was growing up I might have stood a chance. Yes the deafening shitty music doesn't help either. I think it's a combination of lack of looks and NT probably.

Very true. I’m mostly a shutincel these days, but if I had the choice between the two I’d choose casinomaxxing

I agree the casino sounds like the better choice if nothing but for the ambience alone and the machines make better sounds than the shitty music being played in a nightclub.
Imagine going to "Normies Only" places.

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I know, it's brutal :feelsbadman:
 
How can you stand to be there for more than 10 minutes? Don't get me wrong I've been to clubs a handful of times years ago and I remember hating it the last time I went, not until I got shitfaced did the feeling of not belonging there start to fade away. I had to go for a family birthday event back then so I could justify forcing myself to stay until closing I was basically sitting down all night mixing drinks that shouldn't go together and getting up to use the restroom every now and again.

Tonight I was invited to go out with three other colleagues, we were supposed to go bowling which we did even though most got there half an hour late. I did have fun but then shortly before midnight I get a call asking when I'm going to be home. I should have just left a few minutes after the call but instead got roped into going to the club. We got denied entry into the first two places because one guy didn't have a physical identification on him and they didn't accept picture of said identification on phone. I should have just taken that as a sign and booked a taxi home but instead I kept indulging them trying to convince me to stay.

Safe to say I didn't last 20 minutes before trying to slip out by lying about going to the restroom but one of my colleagues followed me trying to persuade me to stay in place which I had no business being inside of in the first place. I don't find the deafening music, overpriced drinks (which I'm not a drinker in the first place) or the prospect of securing a one night stand appealing anymore. I was able to get a taxi after more than a few attempts and I felt slightly sad one the way home like there was something wrong with me.

I won't be trying again anytime soon.
clubbing is a chad trait, literally clubbing is foid and chad central that is the number one place for chads and foids to go, either way i still don't get how anyone could even enjoy clubbing
 
clubbing is a chad trait, literally clubbing is foid and chad central that is the number one place for chads and foids to go, either way i still don't get how anyone could even enjoy clubbing
I don't think they actually do enjoy it deep down maybe the alcohol and other substances trick their brain into thinking they do.
 
I wouldn't mind clubs if the music was more my taste. With the shit music only reason to be there would be to get foid attention, which is never happening to me. I much prefer strip clubs where fake or not, I do at least get foid attention.
 
I wouldn't mind clubs if the music was more my taste. With the shit music only reason to be there would be to get foid attention, which is never happening to me. I much prefer strip clubs where fake or not, I do at least get foid attention.

Yeah unless you're spending money you're not getting attention. At least with a strip club it's honest transaction.
 
Yeah unless you're spending money you're not getting attention. At least with a strip club it's honest transaction.
Strip clubs aren't even that expensive if you know where to go and how to spend you money wisely.
 
One I went to when I lived in Australia I rarely spent more than 100AUD a pop. It had a bar, outdoor smoking area, pool tables, and strippers would frequently rub their tits on you and cause it was in a poorer area giving 1-2 dollars after each dance was polite enough to not get a bad rep. So for less than 100 AUD I had a good night, had plenty of drinks, talked to lots of hot strippers (they regularly socialize when they're not dancing), and I didn't feel gigamogged with all the older and incel-lite dudes around the way I would in a night club. And while I never "pulled" being a trucel, normies and even incel-lites that I went with sometimes came home with strippers, no joke. Stripclubmaxxing is a thing above trucel level.
 
Strip clubs aren't even that expensive if you know where to go and how to spend you money wisely.
I've never been before mostly because I don't have any close to me. What's the dress code? Is there a difference to gentlemen's clubs? I'm in the UK btw.

One I went to when I lived in Australia I rarely spent more than 100AUD a pop. It had a bar, outdoor smoking area, pool tables, and strippers would frequently rub their tits on you and cause it was in a poorer area giving 1-2 dollars after each dance was polite enough to not get a bad rep. So for less than 100 AUD I had a good night, had plenty of drinks, talked to lots of hot strippers (they regularly socialize when they're not dancing), and I didn't feel gigamogged with all the older and incel-lite dudes around the way I would in a night club. And while I never "pulled" being a trucel, normies and even incel-lites that I went with sometimes came home with strippers, no joke. Stripclubmaxxing is a thing above trucel level.
That's sounds like a wild place, was there still a no touch rule while on premises? How much was the regular private dance?
You didn't feel gigamogged because who in their right mind would judge for being in a strip club while they were there themselves. It would just be hypocritical. I thought going home with a stripper was just a thing in the movies that almost never happens in the real world.
 
While normscum waste time spending monies at the club imma be buying me sum more land at a discount.

Another reason why bill gates geeks gain.

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