Serious Tinder isnt real life

[Deleted member 21219]

After using tinder and failing for many years, its obvious to me that if tinder was real life, then this site would have millions of users and most of the male population on this planet would be incel.

The simple fact, which a lot of posters here dont realize, is that there are large group of men who get close to zero matches on tinder and still are able to get non-betabux type relationships with foids. They do this primarily by using social circles, being NT and approaching a lot of foids. So if you fail in tinder, there is a chance you could sill belong to this group of men and it might not be totally over for you (unless autistic)

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I'm not sure if approaches work for most men, but I guess if they hit on 100 women over the course of multiple occasions, they probably succeed every once in a while.

But the social circle game is real. So RIP mentalcels, no surgery is going to fix that.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Instagram and TikTok exist. Literally all women have social media.

Social Media = Real Life

I'm not sure if approaches work for most men, but I guess if they hit on 100 women over the course of multiple occasions, they probably succeed every once in a while.

But the social circle game is real. So RIP mentalcels, no surgery is going to fix that.

numbers game is legit tbh. but it takes an insane amount of approaches and isn't sustainable

 

[Deleted member 21219]

But the social circle game is real. So RIP mentalcels, no surgery is going to fix that.

Yes the socialcirclepill is a brutal one.

 

[Speedloader]

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Not bluepilled. The numbers simply dont support the "tinder is real life" theory.

numbers game is legit tbh. but it takes an insane amount of approaches and isn't sustainable

How many real life approaches have you done ?

 

[Speedloader]

Not bluepilled. The numbers simply dont support the "tinder is real life" theory.


How many real life approaches have you done ?

Keep coping buddy boyo

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Keep coping buddy boyo

No u. Basement IQ if you think only gigachads and terachads get laid.

 

[Speedloader]

No u. Basement IQ if you think only gigachads and terachads get laid.

Go out of your home sometimes bruh. None of my normie friends have gfs

 

[npcel]

No u. Basement IQ if you think only gigachads and terachads get laid.

True
There are so many 5/10 guys I see with wedding rings or with their wives shopping. Inceldom in 30+ is really rare probably because they finish themselves off or start betabuxxing.

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Go out of your home sometimes bruh. None of my normie friends have gfs

Whats the inceldom percentage where you live? If tinder is real life, the inceldom % has to be around 90.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

How many real life approaches have you done ?

Dozens.

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There are so many 5/10 guys I see with wedding rings or with their wives shopping. Inceldom in 30+ is really rare probably because they finish themselves off or start betabuxxing.

OP was referring to non betabuxx relationships.

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Dozens.

Fair enough, you approach mog me.

 

[Speedloader]

Whats the inceldom percentage where you live?

How the hell should i know?

 

[SuperMario64DS]

Instagram and TikTok exist. Literally all women have social media.

Social Media = Real Life

numbers game is legit tbh. but it takes an insane amount of approaches and isn't sustainable

Mt. Everest iq

OP is naive to think that social media hasn't fucked up non-social media relationships. Social media / online dating has connected women to a larger market of horny desperate men and will only raise her standards, even with non social media relations.

Only applies with women who aren't on social media, a number that decreases day by day.

 

[Deleted member 21219]

True
There are so many 5/10 guys I see with wedding rings or with their wives shopping. Inceldom in 30+ is really rare probably because they finish themselves off or start betabuxxing.

Iam not even talking about betabuxxers tbh. There are guys who can get foids by being above average (>5/10) and high NT.

How the hell should i know?

Do the math idiot. Unless its above 90%, youre coping in your little basement. Youre the one who should go out.

Mt. Everest iq

OP is naive to think that social media hasn't fucked up non-social media relationships. Social media / online dating has connected women to a larger market of horny desperate men and will only raise her standards, even with non social media relations.

How are the majority of men getting laid then? Dont tell me all of them are betabuxxing losers.

 

[Subhuman100]

Iam not even talking about betabuxxers tbh. There are guys who can get foids by being above average (>5/10) and high NT.


Do the math idiot. Unless its above 90%, youre coping in your little basement. Youre the one who should go out.


How are the majority of men getting laid then? Dont tell me all of them are batbuxxing losers.

it's mostly temporary for normies. Most get cheated on, or in open relationships. A lot of them never find out about their cheating wives.

Very few normies get genuine love and long lasting reationships.

 

[Deleted member 21219]

it's mostly temporary for normies. Most get cheated on, or in open relationships. A lot of them never find out about their cheating wives.

Very few normies get genuine love and long lasting reationships.

Inceldom = unable to get laid with a foid. Its not about having a life long relationship where the foid is superloyal to you.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Social circle in SCHOOL is big.

Outside of school running social game I assume is dependent on already having one from school, and even then who knows how well it will work.

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Social circle in SCHOOL is big.

Outside of school running social game I assume is dependent on already having one from school, and even then who knows how well it will work.

School, work, yoga classes, gyms, etc.

 

[Subhuman100]

Social circle in SCHOOL is big.

Outside of school running social game I assume is dependent on already having one from school, and even then who knows how well it will work.

without social circle normies are finished

even then they have to take 100s of rejections to finally get Chad's leftovers

chad doesn't need social circle

 

[Napoléoncel]

To be honest, I think it reflects the reality very well even if its not the real world itself. I’ve done quite numerous experiments using profiles such as subhuman/normie/chad and it was pretty tangent to the real world.

 

[Deleted member 21219]

without social circle normies are finished

even then they have to take 100s of rejections to finally get Chad's leftovers

chad doesn't need social circle

This sort of reasoning has to stop. Forget what chad has, its not even relevant to our discussion. Life is unfair, fkin get over it.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

To be honest, I think it reflects the reality very well even if its not the real world itself. I’ve done quite numerous experiments using profiles such as subhuman/normie/chad and it was pretty tangent to the real world.

the results for subhumans (complete failure) and Chad (easy success) are obvious

but don't normies get nothing on Tinder and somehow manage a few lays IRL?

 

[Subhuman100]

This sort of reasoning has to stop. Forget what chad has, its not even relevant to our discussion. Life is unfair, fkin get over it.

Get over it? not easy when every day is painful

 

[Personalityinkwell]

This sort of reasoning has to stop. Forget what chad has, its not even relevant to our discussion. Life is unfair, fkin get over it.

it might be tbh. some people here might be "mentalcels" or "lack of social circle cels" as you imply, and they are much more likely to ascend by just looksmaxxing to Chad tier than jumping through all the social hoops.

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Get over it? not easy when every day is painful

I mean stop comparing your life to that of a chad unless you have the hope of looksmaxxing to that level.

 

[Subhuman100]

the results for subhumans (complete failure) and Chad (easy success) are obvious

but don't normies get nothing on Tinder and somehow manage a few lays IRL?

normies do get few matches from ugly chicks and some average if their bio is really unique and funny which reflects real world. They have to jestermaxx to get laid with landwhales and sub-average foids.

 

[Deleted member 21219]

it might be tbh. some people here might be "mentalcels" or "lack of social circle cels" as you imply, and they are much more likely to ascend by just looksmaxxing to Chad tier than jumping through all the social hoops.

Looksmaxxing to chad tier is only possible if you have a solid base. (starting at maybe 6/10)

 

[Napoléoncel]

the results for subhumans (complete failure) and Chad (easy success) are obvious

but don't normies get nothing on Tinder and somehow manage a few lays IRL?

To be honest, I’ve made various normie accounts and they could get matches like 5-10 out of 100 swipes, but the female quality was average or utter trash with some exceptions of 7/10s. They do get matches but it’s certainly not comparable at all to chads experience. I’ve made a lot of experiments like that during my days when I wasn’t a member here, if I can find them I’ll post them. One thing is apparent, our SMV is decreasing gradually and it'll be way worse than now in the future in my opinion Chad would get like 90/100 matches immediately and 2-3 more after 1 day. As a subhuman, you don’t get anything. Not even a land whale.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

No u. Basement IQ if you think only gigachads and terachads get laid.

Go out of your home sometimes bruh. None of my normie friends have gfs

Wristcel is right. As much as I would like for normie men to be as desperate as us, the reality is that people DO have sex. It's just plain dumb to claim that they don't.

 

[Speedloader]

Wristcel is right. As much as I would like for normie men to be as desperate as us, the reality is that people DO have sex. It's just plain dumb to claim that they don't.

Having starfish sex with drunken whale once a year is almost as bad as inceldom

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Having starfish sex with drunken whale once a year is almost as bad as inceldom

this applies to low and some mid normies

high normies (above average, top 35%) do just fine

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Having starfish sex with drunken whale once a year is almost as bad as inceldom

This is a popular cope among incels; that all normies are having sex with whales only. It might be true in the west where majority of foids are bloated up whales, but in general its not true.

 

[Speedloader]

This is a popular cope among incels; that all normies are having sex with whales only. It might be true in the west where majority of foids are bloated up whales, but in general its not true.

Yeah, because a lot of normans can’t fuck even a whale

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Yeah, because a lot of normans can’t fuck even a whale

Youre right. All the whales are fucking giga and tera chads and 95% of the male population are incels.

 

[Speedloader]

Youre right. All the whales are fucking giga and tera chads and 95% of the male population are incels.

This is what I see in my social circle unironically

 

[BITG]

Tinder IS real life. The 80/20 rule simply states that 80% of women desire the top 20% of men, not that 80% are currently with the top 20%. Most girls settle with average normies who social circle maxxed, but they are still trying to monkey branch higher, or are volcel until high tier normie+ is available to fuck.

Inceldom is on the rise. It will be at 50% within 5 years easy.

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Tinder IS real life. The 80/20 rule simply states that 80% of women desire the top 20% of men, not that 80% are currently with the top 20%. Most girls settle with average normies who social circle maxxed, but they are still trying to monkey branch higher, or are volcel until high tier normie+ is available to fuck.

Inceldom is on the rise. It will be at 50% within 5 years easy.

80/20 is based on data from dating apps. There is also a lot of data from real life that states that both men and women engage in assortative mating habits. This is how i presume the majority of normies get laid with their looksmatch.

 

[Tenshi]

instagram and tiktok it's even worse

and literally everyfoid nowadays is at least in one of these 2

 

[Deleted member 25707]

I carefully read all the replies. And upon further rumination I've come to the conclusion that I side with @Legendarywristcel on this one.

I don't know what trash part of the world you guys live but here(in my STEM circles) it's Just be 4-6/10 with NT.

That being said, I also believe that Sub-8 is true but only in places like London, California or Melbourne.

C'mon guys, let's not act like freezing point IQ basement dwellers. 6ft is not a manlet and it's not over for 6/10s

 

[Reprobus]

Instagram and TikTok exist. Literally all women have social media.

Social Media = Real Life

Find me a foid without social media

 

[Personalityinkwell]

I carefully read all the replies. And upon further rumination I've come to the conclusion that I side with @Legendarywristcel on this one.

I don't know what trash part of the world you guys live but here(in my STEM circles) it's Just be 4-6/10 with NT.

That being said, I also believe that Sub-8 is true but only in places like London, California or Melbourne.

C'mon guys, let's not act like freezing point IQ basement dwellers. 6ft is not a manlet and it's not over for 6/10s

6/10s are fine, and 5/10s are okayish

but get out of here that 4/10 dudes can get anything besides a drunken landwhale

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

I carefully read all the replies. And upon further rumination I've come to the conclusion that I side with @Legendarywristcel on this one.

I don't know what trash part of the world you guys live but here(in my STEM circles) it's Just be 4-6/10 with NT.

That being said, I also believe that Sub-8 is true but only in places like London, California or Melbourne.

C'mon guys, let's not act like freezing point IQ basement dwellers. 6ft is not a manlet and it's not over for 6/10s

Based. 6ft - 6/10s are basically volcels.

 

[Deleted member 25707]

6/10s are fine, and 5/10s are okayish

but get out of here that 4/10 dudes can get anything besides a drunken landwhale

But 5s and 6s can't get matches on Tinder so your entire argument that Tinder is real life, goes down the drain.
Therefore we come to the conclusion that Tinder is infact not real life.
Checkmate.

 

[Reprobus]

A lot of u think social circle maxxing is a thing if ur incel, I’ve been apart of social circles while in hs and ms, when Id ask a foid out from that group I’d be rejected. Also being NT and getting foids isn’t real if ur ugly so please stop coping

 

[Personalityinkwell]

But 5s and 6s can't get matches on Tinder so your entire argument that Tinder is real life, goes down the drain.
Therefore we come to the conclusion that Tinder is infact not real life.
Checkmate.

I said social media.

plus i also acknowledged social circles have some potential in school, although maybe that was the other thread

and 5s and 6s get matches on tinder just never get laid.

 

[Deleted member 25707]

and 5s and 6s get matches on tinder just never get laid.

6/10s are fine, and 5/10s are okayish

There guys. It's confirmed. @Personalityinkwell believes that Tinder isn't real life. End of the discussion. Point blank period.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

There guys. It's confirmed. @Personalityinkwell believes that Tinder isn't real life. End of the discussion. Point blank period.

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

Okay