After using tinder and failing for many years, its obvious to me that if tinder was real life, then this site would have millions of users and most of the male population on this planet would be incel.
The simple fact, which a lot of posters here dont realize, is that there are large group of men who get close to zero matches on tinder and still are able to get non-betabux type relationships with foids. They do this primarily by using social circles, being NT and approaching a lot of foids. So if you fail in tinder, there is a chance you could sill belong to this group of men and it might not be totally over for you (unless autistic)
True, but that's assuming they have a social circle, which you only get if you have friends from back in college or high school or back further that you've been friends with for a while that you can build more friends off of. When people see a loner, they automatically assume the person is weird or creepy or something, instead of thinking hey, maybe the guy was bullied his entire life and never knew how to make friends, so he's alone.
Approaching foids does work, I will admit that. However, there's always the baseline that everyone has. Some people's baseline has a higher number than others. What I mean by that is the amount of foids you need to approach to even get one to consider dating you, or even talk to you. If you're a Chad, your baseline is very low or nonexistent, because Chads don't really need to work to approach any foids, as most foids approach him. But, for a 5'4 balding overbite ricecel in his mid-30s like me, my baseline will be extremely high. Most in my area (Southwest Indiana) will never even think about considering dating me, so I have to approach more foids to get the same number of interest from a Chad.
So yeah, it's not always 100% seriously over for anyone, but when you're constantly rejected for years and years, you are bullied and felt worthless by society and the people who were supposed to love you (like your family) for years and years, it's tough to overcome that mental hurdle, because for so long you think you're not worth shit, and many don't bother even approaching (like me).
Nothing wrong with being satisfied with being alone, though, like I am. Nature is brutal but it's predictable and understandable, which is sort of why I connect with it.
Instagram and TikTok exist. Literally all women have social media.
Social Media = Real Life
numbers game is legit tbh. but it takes an insane amount of approaches and isn't sustainable
This is an interesting point, because most foids will admit that they check on men's IG or social media to see what type of person they are. Not having any social media is actually more of a red flag for many foids than having one.
Not to mention, if your IG page is full of, say, pictures of you alone or just nature (beaches, woods, sunrise/sunsets, food, etc.) and you don't have any pictures with friends on your profile, most foids will think you're weird, so this is why having a friend group is a huge step up.
But if you're bullied all the time and don't know how to make friends because your parents, teachers, and peers made you feel worthless, it's tough trying to make friends after college.
girls always want chads, they spend more time filtering ugly men then you do trying to get any femoid to acknowledge your existence
Yup. and they will settle for normies. That's really about it. Hypergamy and foids go together like peas and carrots.
Simply not true. Its more of a probability. Normies are more likely to get cheated on compared to chads. But there are instances where normies have long lasting relationships and chad gets cheated on.
Normies usually get lucky with long lasting relationships if the foid realizes she's too old or ugly to get a Chad in the first place.
Give a foid botox and observe how her eyes wander to other men.
I think there are lots of men who are virgins and unable to have sex but are still bluepilled. So they don't join our website because they've fallen into society's trap of self-blame and constant self-improvement with no reward. That's why this site doesn't have millions of members.
This is sort of why I want to actively recruit.