blond_elf_bard
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I think that men are drawn to these paraphilias because of an insane sort of bargaining with reality which they hope to accomplish in their minds:
- They believe that they are experiencing pain now
- They realize that femdom and simping causes pain via loss of finances or physical pain
- They believe that the pain of financial loss of physical pain is greater than the pain of being ignored
- They believe that pain, being conducive to change, will lead to a change in their romantic situation.