Blackpill This is the worst "autistic" women need to deal with in the dating world

[DoomThreeKoala]

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We’ve been dating for about eight months, and I really love her. She’s very affectionate and expressive, which I appreciate, but I’m more introverted and sometimes struggle to keep up.

She frequently tells me she loves me, and if I don’t respond right away she gets sad or asks if I still love her. She also wants to spend a lot of time together — being at her house, around her family, playing games online together, and being involved with her online friends. I care about her, but I need alone time to recharge and I’m not always comfortable in high-social situations.

One thing that overwhelms me is her family’s openness. They already treat me like family, which is nice, but they often talk about very personal topics that I’m not ready to engage with. It makes me anxious, and I sometimes struggle to participate comfortably.

She often asks me what she can do to be a better girlfriend, but my challenges are mostly on my end — like needing personal space and time to process things. I try to communicate issues when they come up, but sometimes she explains her reactions as being due to her ADHD or autism. I completely respect that, but I also need conversations that focus on solutions and compromise rather than just explanations.

I want to communicate my needs — like alone time, pacing family interactions, and boundaries around personal topics — without making her feel unloved or inadequate. I also want to avoid turning our conversations into reassurance loops.

How can I balance my needs for space and boundaries with her desire for closeness, affection, and openness, especially with her family? Any advice on phrasing, timing, or strategies would be really helpful.

TL;DR: M25, F27, dating 6 months. I’m introverted and need space, but my girlfriend wants a lot of closeness, reassurance, and family interaction. Her family is very open about personal topics, which overwhelms me. She attributes some reactions to ADHD/autism. How do I communicate my needs without hurting her?

How much do we wanna bet the guy that posted this is NT?

 

[Dead End]

How much do we wanna bet the guy that posted this is NT?

Why wouldn't he be NT? He never mentioned being ND himself throughout the post, so it's probably extremely likely he is NT.

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

Why wouldn't he be NT? He never mentioned being ND himself throughout the post, so it's probably extremely likely he is NT.

A huge number of autistic men are permavirgins.

 

[Erenincel]

A huge number of autistic men are permavirgins.

It's over for Autisticcel

 

[Alvin31]

I think the guy is more autistic than his gf

 

[The Judge]

 

[Todd Thundercock]

She's putting in all the effort, good chance he's far more attractive than her.

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

These normie are starting to piss me off

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

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[DoomThreeKoala]

She's putting in all the effort, good chance he's far more attractive than her.

If they were looksmatched she wouldn't be doing this

 

[arkaxfoidletslayer]

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How much do we wanna bet the guy that posted this is NT?

AUDHD HDMI 4K RTX Dolby. how much retard fuck shit can the schlomo come up with.

 

[arkaxfoidletslayer]

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[DoomThreeKoala]

AUDHD HDMI 4K RTX Dolby. how much retard fuck shit can the schlomo come up with.

I have no fucking idea. All I know, is it's a lot.

 

[darkie]

Girls cant have autism