Venting Therapy has only dragged me deeper into hating women

[hellawaits]

So I've been going to psychoanalytic therapy for almost 2 years now without much progress initially. Originally I went in because I wanted to explore and maybe even get help about how my inceldom is linked with my other problems, mainly depression and anxiety plus some borderline autistic traits.

Naturally, my therapist is a foid granny and early on she took notice of my complete lack of relationships and virginity at age 27, difficulties with coworkers of the opposite sex and annoyance with certain behaviors of my mother. What's funny is that she has been pushing me to really share and accept my feelings of hate in these situations, even though I didn't originally want to define myself as a total misogynist.

Now it's starting to feel like the whole therapy will be over because of this. I can't trust her, I hate the way she speaks and I think her way of managing some aspects of her business is braindead idiotic. She seems incapable of understanding why I would feel this way. I have shared my life experiences of bullying and an overprotective mother. She even said that if you get bullied it's most often your own fault. She cannot provide a clear explanation for any way out of my situation, other than exploring my feelings deeper. Yet she is completely dumbfounded and shocked when I continue to explore the hatred deeper and find violent fantasies and fatalistic philosophy.

So I guess, TL;DR: my therapist only managed to deepen my hate for women and how they're incapable of rational thinking.

 

[Misogynist Curry 卐]

Therapy is a cope.

 

[hellawaits]

Therapy is a cope.

What I find interesting in this case is that getting to know myself better during therapy is like swallowing a bigger black pill every single time. I don't think normies meant it to work like that.

 

[Pancakecel]

If you're going to go down the route, of the rapist, why would you pick a foid jfl

 

[Ci Jey]

waste of time and money, its a pseudoscience and most therapists are scum
invest your money on looksmaxxing IF you can ascend, if not escortmaxx.

 

[vidyacel]

She even said that if you get bullied it's most often your own fault.

Wow.. Did she literally say this to your face ??
I wouldn´t contain myself in that situation, and just leave before my gut gets out of hand.

 

[hellawaits]

If you're going to go down the route, of the rapist, why would you pick a foid jfl

The thing in Finland is that government pays for most of the therapy, so you contact a bunch of them from a list. 99% reply that they are booked full (sounds a lot like Tinder) so I didn't really have a choice. If you pay for the whole thing yoursel, maybe then you get to "pick" a therapist. The other option is of course, not to go to therapy, which might have been better.

 

[war_with_myself]

therapists are often times incompetent

 

[RobertGarnicasAPedo]

You found a therapist who did something besides ask what you did over the weekend and ask you what you think of the weather?

The "feelings" shit is only movies and TV shit. Sounds like a LARP.

 

[Rotter]

Strong first post

 

[hellawaits]

Wow.. Did she literally say this to your face ??
I wouldn´t contain myself in that situation, and just leave before my gut gets out of hand.

Yeah. And I kinda get it. It's only natural for kids to reject the one who's weird and antisocial.

 

[PersonalityChad]

 

[vidyacel]

Yeah. And I kinda get it. It's only natural for kids to reject the one who's weird and antisocial.

It´s NPC trait, to be an irrational cunt.
Trying To JUSTIFY YOUR OWN SUFFERING man.

 

[Pancakecel]

The thing in Finland is that government pays for most of the therapy, so you contact a bunch of them from a list. 99% reply that they are booked full (sounds a lot like Tinder) so I didn't really have a choice. If you pay for the whole thing yoursel, maybe then you get to "pick" a therapist. The other option is of course, not to go to therapy, which might have been better.

Ic

 

[hellawaits]

You found a therapist who did something besides ask what you did over the weekend and ask you what you think of the weather?

The "feelings" shit is only movies and TV shit. Sounds like a LARP.

There's different schools of thought. Most modern therapy is nonsense like that and also they give you exercises to go out and talk to people. My therapist seems to be hardcore into Freud and Jung, always looking for the childhood trauma and whatever but I just don't see how that really helps

I was listening to that when I joined!

 

[Lolimancer]

I don't think normies meant it to work like that.

it's meant for women who have no real problems

 

[Glerforpus]

Therapy is a meme made by foids

 

[overrrrrrrrrrr]

no therapy for your face

 

[overrrrrrrrrrr]

She even said that if you get bullied it's most often your own fault.\

holy fuck i would be so fcking pissed if someone said this shit to me. i would straight beat the living shit out of them i dont care who it is. stop wasting your money on this retarded scam. how the fuck can anyone with half a brain blame a young child for getting bullied even normies will admit that its not the childs fault

 

[PersonalityChad]

I was listening to that when I joined!

Good taste

 

[hellawaits]

holy fuck i would be so fcking pissed if someone said this shit to me. i would straight beat the living shit out of them i dont care who it is. stop wasting your money on this retarded scam. how the fuck can anyone with half a brain blame a young child for getting bullied even normies will admit that its not the childs fault

The ironic thing about it is if I was capable of beating someone, or in general standing up for myself, I probably wouldn't have been bullied especially by girls. Instead I swallow up all my rage, and now it's my therapist who is making money off me (mostly not my money), and I should stand up to her

 

[hellawaits]

Good taste

Thanks dude. I don't even know if this kind of positivity is allowed on this forum (and off topic for this thread) but metal is really the only thing left in my life that has any meaning. All the "metal brotherhood 4 ever" stuff is so cringe but at least there's some sense of belonging. Whatever, let's go back to hating things.

 

[Dokes]

Therapy only made me more vengeful and repressed . No way would i listen and talk advice from a Jew LBGT and Feminist Foid

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Trying To JUSTIFY YOUR OWN SUFFERING man.

Ic

It's shame due to lack of speech.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

talk advice

No interest.

Trying To JUSTIFY YOUR OWN SUFFERING man.

 

[rentro373]

So I've been going to psychoanalytic therapy for almost 2 years now without much progress initially. Originally I went in because I wanted to explore and maybe even get help about how my inceldom is linked with my other problems, mainly depression and anxiety plus some borderline autistic traits.

Naturally, my therapist is a foid granny and early on she took notice of my complete lack of relationships and virginity at age 27, difficulties with coworkers of the opposite sex and annoyance with certain behaviors of my mother. What's funny is that she has been pushing me to really share and accept my feelings of hate in these situations, even though I didn't originally want to define myself as a total misogynist.

Now it's starting to feel like the whole therapy will be over because of this. I can't trust her, I hate the way she speaks and I think her way of managing some aspects of her business is braindead idiotic. She seems incapable of understanding why I would feel this way. I have shared my life experiences of bullying and an overprotective mother. She even said that if you get bullied it's most often your own fault. She cannot provide a clear explanation for any way out of my situation, other than exploring my feelings deeper. Yet she is completely dumbfounded and shocked when I continue to explore the hatred deeper and find violent fantasies and fatalistic philosophy.

So I guess, TL;DR: my therapist only managed to deepen my hate for women and how they're incapable of rational thinking.

yeah you gotta get the fuck out of therapy.

 

[Feeshtu]

The therapist always tries to put the blame for everything on the client.
No matter how bad the experience, they will always try to make you think that you are responsible.
It becomes comical to the point that they say that you are responsible for other peoples’ actions.
But then simultaneously say that you are 100% responsible for your own actions and can’t blame anyone else.

 

[Count Yorga]

yeah you gotta get the fuck out of therapy.

 

[kek1]

There's like 100 million therapy threads but basically therapy is just normies way of punishing incels

 

[Indari]

She sounds terrible just by the bullying comment, and a granny foid is probably the worst person to understand you.

 

[TheLastandtheFirst]

OP, the only good therapy is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. It's the most empirical, nonpartisan, and objective therapy, even if philosophical musings are thrown in.

All Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is this: You are behaving in a way that you feel is wrong, looking at the objective evidence to see if that behavior is logically justified as thoroughly as possible, and then recognizing whether that behavior is justified or not.

People won't tell you this because the educated elites want the masses to believe that psychology is this purely, objective scientific thing for the purposes of marketing, but it's not, it's just various secular philosophies.

Psychoanalytic therapy is just Freudian therapy and it's about figuring out "what you unconsciously actually desire", which can be helpful but often times is not really that helpful.
Logotherapy is about finding meaning in your life through a secularized Judeo-Christian philosophy; to take Judeo-Christian ideas of sin, repentance, healing, and becoming one with something greater in a way that's indifferent to God.
Jungian philosophy is about you failing to live up to ideals you have imposed on yourself or your society has imposed on, and to embrace the role in life you were meant to live ideally.
Psychiatry is Huxleyanism (avoid this shit like the plague).

And so on. All of these are helpful, but the problem is that if you pick a therapy that is ideology (listed from above), you will be limited by your own therapist's philosophical outlook. their biases, and their own dogmatic Weltenschang.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy doesn't really care about philosophy as much. It's empirical. Give it a shot.

 

[TheLastandtheFirst]

The Blackpill, assuming you actually are integrating it into who you are (and you aren't just some retard teenage spic whining about lacking pussy) is 100% one way to release the void, where a lot of unconscious buried shit you have been repressing for years due to social shaming and social narratives gets released; your brain stops auto-burying information it observes in day to day life.

Most ideologically inclined therapists aren't "woken up" so to speak and anything you say to them, their brain automatically ignores or shuffles away as delusion, even if it's pure delusion, as a defense mechanism. Their brains are still locked into social narratives and rules of social shaming, their brains either get really angry (like you are poking a splinter) or they crash, 404 error not found.

CBT has been very helpful to me and reconciling with my parents for not preparing me as a man for how cruel this world is.

 

[runforrest]

Id rather gymcope than go to therapy with a woke psychologist

 

[Kamikaze69]

Therapy is a cope.

 

[FishmanBecker]

You're a dumbass for going to therapy being an incel. Not sure what end result you expected.

 

[highschooldropout]

The thing in Finland is that government pays for most of the therapy, so you contact a bunch of them from a list. 99% reply that they are booked full (sounds a lot like Tinder) so I didn't really have a choice. If you pay for the whole thing yoursel, maybe then you get to "pick" a therapist. The other option is of course, not to go to therapy, which might have been better.

I would just use the therapist as a emotional punching bag until they decide to stop seeing u.

 

[Kentuckycel]

Therapists themselves are terrible, but foid therapists are even worse.

 

[Stupid Clown]

So I've been going to psychoanalytic therapy for almost 2 years now without much progress initially. Originally I went in because I wanted to explore and maybe even get help about how my inceldom is linked with my other problems, mainly depression and anxiety plus some borderline autistic traits.

Naturally, my therapist is a foid granny and early on she took notice of my complete lack of relationships and virginity at age 27, difficulties with coworkers of the opposite sex and annoyance with certain behaviors of my mother. What's funny is that she has been pushing me to really share and accept my feelings of hate in these situations, even though I didn't originally want to define myself as a total misogynist.

Now it's starting to feel like the whole therapy will be over because of this. I can't trust her, I hate the way she speaks and I think her way of managing some aspects of her business is braindead idiotic. She seems incapable of understanding why I would feel this way. I have shared my life experiences of bullying and an overprotective mother. She even said that if you get bullied it's most often your own fault. She cannot provide a clear explanation for any way out of my situation, other than exploring my feelings deeper. Yet she is completely dumbfounded and shocked when I continue to explore the hatred deeper and find violent fantasies and fatalistic philosophy.

So I guess, TL;DR: my therapist only managed to deepen my hate for women and how they're incapable of rational thinking.

Getting a therapist is cucked. That's a foid trait. Paying someone to care about your problems. Practically prostitution. You also don't have to have any actual scientific experience or otherwise to be a therapist. You should get a physiologist, but even those can misdiagnose you unless they do actual brain scans.

 

[Stupid Clown]

waste of time and money, its a pseudoscience and most therapists are scum
invest your money on looksmaxxing IF you can ascend, if not escortmaxx.

 

[Stupid Clown]

Therapy is a meme made by foids

It only appeals to foids because only foids are dumb enough and have such minuscule problems for them to go away by paying someone to care about them aka social prostitution.

 

[LDARbeforeROPE]

Therapy is a cope.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

maybe you need to go o a more expensive therapist

 

[NihilisticSoul]

Based album

 

[oakhaigh]

therapists are well paid manipulators

 

[ADHD_cel]

Therapy is useless when you have no luck in life