Only reason I am here is because of facial asymmetry, particularly the cheek and orbital area alongside some bad features, other then that I am average height, got enough hair on my head, used to be relatively socially functional and competent despite repeated rejection.
You're putting too much focus on dating and women as most users here and mythologizing them, that's just a small slice of life, friendship, social safety nets, being met with acknowledgement and encouraged for your work and affirmed for existing are things 80% of people enjoy on a day to day basis, that's how normies wageslave and get through the day with sanity or even positivity and what is truly the cause of incel anger, depression and mental illness.