idkwattodowithlife
Banned
-
- Joined
- Nov 7, 2017
- Posts
- 7,476
Is money.
Money is an important factor in maintaining a long-term relationship and you better be getting your work promotions to up-scale your income, just to heighten the probability (or chances) for you to keep her around, however its not 100% guaranteed, of course. Money also gives a lot of stability in relationships/marriages.
A couple of weeks ago on the discord, there was me, and a guy speaking over reasons as to why marriages end in divorce. We've both agreed that they maybe better dating prospects for the women and of course being that looks comes first. As soon I bought up financial hardship, he somewhat disagreed with me, and I tried telling him that "yes looks does matter, but then again women would want to be with a man that makes a higher income than them." In-conjunction with money becoming much more readily important with age.
Here are some worrying stats that proves that.
"Over a third of those questioned said that financial pressures were the biggest challenge to their marriage, while a fifth said that most of their arguments were about money. One in five of those polled blamed their partner for their money worries, accusing them of overspending or failing to budget properly. The latest figures available from the Office for National Statistics show that 107,000 heterosexual couples divorced in 2016 – up 5.8 per cent from the previous year. 'Money is always a common issue and if one person feels that their partner is not pulling their weight financially or at least trying to then it can very quickly cause resentment to grow.'" ~ Ms. Harvey.
I believe most of the problem with money stems from the woman (or wife) since we've already learnt over the months or years of how badly they treat men. I would not be surprised if their the ones causing the issues surrounding money.
I don't think people should take out the "M" out of "LMS," having LS alone is good enough, yes. In a way, looks, money, status works well together (or have some sort of synergy that you can not cut off). We all know that good looks usually yields good outcomes, e.g. better careers, easily making more new friends (+status),... etc. But you making less money than her would heighten the chances of you getting divorced, so the "M" in "LMS" has to remain intact.
Money is an important factor in maintaining a long-term relationship and you better be getting your work promotions to up-scale your income, just to heighten the probability (or chances) for you to keep her around, however its not 100% guaranteed, of course. Money also gives a lot of stability in relationships/marriages.
A couple of weeks ago on the discord, there was me, and a guy speaking over reasons as to why marriages end in divorce. We've both agreed that they maybe better dating prospects for the women and of course being that looks comes first. As soon I bought up financial hardship, he somewhat disagreed with me, and I tried telling him that "yes looks does matter, but then again women would want to be with a man that makes a higher income than them." In-conjunction with money becoming much more readily important with age.
Here are some worrying stats that proves that.
"Over a third of those questioned said that financial pressures were the biggest challenge to their marriage, while a fifth said that most of their arguments were about money. One in five of those polled blamed their partner for their money worries, accusing them of overspending or failing to budget properly. The latest figures available from the Office for National Statistics show that 107,000 heterosexual couples divorced in 2016 – up 5.8 per cent from the previous year. 'Money is always a common issue and if one person feels that their partner is not pulling their weight financially or at least trying to then it can very quickly cause resentment to grow.'" ~ Ms. Harvey.
I believe most of the problem with money stems from the woman (or wife) since we've already learnt over the months or years of how badly they treat men. I would not be surprised if their the ones causing the issues surrounding money.
Author: Stephen Little
Article title:Money worries are the biggest factor in divorces, survey findsWebsite
Company:The Independent
URL:https://www.independent.co.uk/news/...personal-finances-slater-gordon-a8147921.html
Article title:Money worries are the biggest factor in divorces, survey findsWebsite
Company:The Independent
URL:https://www.independent.co.uk/news/...personal-finances-slater-gordon-a8147921.html
I don't think people should take out the "M" out of "LMS," having LS alone is good enough, yes. In a way, looks, money, status works well together (or have some sort of synergy that you can not cut off). We all know that good looks usually yields good outcomes, e.g. better careers, easily making more new friends (+status),... etc. But you making less money than her would heighten the chances of you getting divorced, so the "M" in "LMS" has to remain intact.
Last edited: