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Deleted member 8353
Former Hikikomori, Aimless Pleasure Seeker
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I mean how can you claim that women are inferior, that their opinions don't matter, while also claiming that if she isn't attracted to your appearance then sex "doesn't count"? Which is it? Either you value the opinions and feelings of women or you don't. Honestly I suspect that most of the comments about women not being people, being beneath men, or not being worthy of consideration is a whole lot of emotional coping with rejection. Many of you guys don't genuinely believe anything you say, and I know it when I see the same people who say this shit go on to claim that paying for sex is pointless because of the woman in this case not having sex with you due to your appearance. The cognitive dissonance is overwhelming.
Moreover, if you truly are as unattractive as you believe that you are, then you're not going to get what you want anyway. Why not try to accept that you're not likely to get 100% of what you want and then try to pursue something else instead? Saying that paid sex is pointless is essentially no different to saying that sex with one particular woman is pointless because you're slightly more attracted to her friend with whom you believe sex will be more enjoyable. Instead of allowing yourselves to have a good experience, you deny yourselves the opportunity because it won't be as good as an experience to which you don't have access, and then you say that it wouldn't count and that it's pointless anyway. I'm convinced that many of you are vulnerable narcissists and/or people who enjoy self-flagellation, and on some level you probably want to be unhappy.
Moreover, if you truly are as unattractive as you believe that you are, then you're not going to get what you want anyway. Why not try to accept that you're not likely to get 100% of what you want and then try to pursue something else instead? Saying that paid sex is pointless is essentially no different to saying that sex with one particular woman is pointless because you're slightly more attracted to her friend with whom you believe sex will be more enjoyable. Instead of allowing yourselves to have a good experience, you deny yourselves the opportunity because it won't be as good as an experience to which you don't have access, and then you say that it wouldn't count and that it's pointless anyway. I'm convinced that many of you are vulnerable narcissists and/or people who enjoy self-flagellation, and on some level you probably want to be unhappy.